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can you get stds or whatever from masterbating? i mean like are there any risks involed? thanks.

nope,you cant get anything from it.

well, if your a girl and you have something potentially hazardous (some kind of chemical) on your fingers you could get an infection but other than that the answer is no.

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ok. My name is cortney. i am 14 , 5'3 and 108 pounds... I know if i ask if im fat everyone will tell me no... but i really dont like the way i look.. i need advice...

danggggg i wish i had those dimensions! learn to love yourself! i've seen lady twice your size livin' it up! just tell yourself how gorgeous you are and do things that make you feel pretty.

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when you have your period, is it bad to jump. for example, pole vaulting, high jumping, etc. because thats like MY LIFE !! thank you. bye !!

nope it'll be good for you.

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does dark red hair (burgundy) drain out ice blue eyes?

yeah i dont think it looks that good but you never know...

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If im about 5'2 and 13 1/2 years old and weigh 115 pound am I fat or overwight?

you are fine.

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I had my period for two years not and it still doesnt come every month. Like when i do sports i never have it but over the summer i have. Is this normal? Im a 14/f. I asked my mom and she says its normal but my friends started last year and they have theirs every month. Do i need to get it chech or am I worring about nothing.
Thanks For the HELp

its normal. your mom is right and everyone is different. the sport thing isnt always healthy tho because youre probably overworking your body. if you are really concerned, talk to your doctor.

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One of my friends has changed, a lot. I know I havent changed that much. I know people change, but not this much. I dont have as much in common with her and its hard to still be friends with her. Im not bothered that i havent changed a lot, im happy with it. But i want to stay friends with her, this isnt really advice needed right away, im just wondering really! but if you can reply to me, thanks!

it happens to everyone, your right, no matter what stage of life your in. maybe find things you both like to do or somewhat compramising. its currently happening to me...some people left me behind and i left some behind. talk to her as much as possible and just be there. hope that helps or reassures you...its not great but i hope you find it somewhat helpful. thanks for asking!

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Okay so i like this guy and he came over tonight with 2 of my other friends. and they left early and it was just me and him alone. but he didnt even try to kiss me. How do you like you all of a sudden start making out. i mean what do you just out of no where start kissing i mean. what are some ways if your siting close to get him to kiss you.

wow i think everyone has been in this sitch and boy does it suck! from experience...it doesnt work. i really want to help but 9 out of 10 times it doesnt happen...unless its on tv. it happens often there.

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My girl can't come with me or anyone. she can come on her own in a matter of minutes. I've used fingers, tougue, vibrators, and don't know how to get her there. What should we do?

dangernerd is a tough one to follow... i think it might be emotional and that's why nothing works. maybe you should turn her on a bit more before hand or really get to trust each other before you do it again.

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Hey advicenators! =P

What do you think should be the curfew for a 15 year old girl? I'm asking this because I'm going to the movies with my guy friend and my parents want me home at 10pm. I'm a very trustworthy person and I WON'T have sex with him, that's for sure. He's only a friend. I'm kinda pissed about this because I want to stay out later, but they're strict & say only 10pm. I know I'm lucky because some kids can't even go out with friends yet. But, what do you guys think? Thanks.

10 is actually ok for a movie, know what i mean? like if movies start at like 730 then theyll end around 930 then you have 30 minutes to hang out. then if you get home on time they'll let you stay out later next time. you're right, you are lucky. i know a girl thats 15...she cant go without a parent, 3 other girls for every guy and her curfew is like 9. now thats ridiculous.

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ok im a young female...i know a lot the basics and terms about sex and whatever, and i know im not ready to do it, but i dont know like how it works. is it weird that i wana watch porn, not to get horny from it, but just to see how its done? is it wrong? dont say im too young to watch it, but its bugging me of thinking about how to do it (even though i wont for many more years). just help me please. thanks.

well, i fully understand your concerns about not knowing how its done but honestly, porn isnt how everyone does it. girls dont usually get earthquaking orgasms from super rough stuff. i suggest looking in actual health-based books that tell you the stuff involved so you know the information and dont get people on your back for watching porn. i know a lot of people on this site say there's nothing wrong with watching it but in reality, people do care and it gets around. let me know if you need anything else.

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Yesterday I was a size 32a non cup bra. I have a bra that is paded and is a size 34 a that used to be my sis's. Yesterday it was like big on me. I woke up this morning and my regular bra that I wear was small on me. I still wore it but its as lose as it can go. I tried putting the 34 a on and it fits me. Do you think it's irnormal to grow a boob size over night?

thats just the band size not like a cup...it you went from a 32 a to a 34 b then we have a problem. some bras are made different, keep that in mind and sometimes shape makes a difference. ok it could be pms and im not kidding...some people get puffy and end up filling a different cup size.

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we're goin to the movies on friday and i wanna get close to my gf. any tips? i'm gonna kisser too.

put your arms around her, hold her hand, sit really close...my bf used to move the armrest at this one theater we went to...that was good. have fun!

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hey i am 13 and i waz just wunderin how do u exactly dry a bra i rate well real well so...plz help me

put it in the dryer...thats what i do. or you can hang it like on a doorknob or somewhere in your shower. if your desperate, take a hairdryer and start drying!

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ok so we have this thing at our school called mole day for chem (mole is a unit thing thats 3.00x10^23) but anyway we have to make a project either like sewing a mole or making a play on words w/the word "mole" like some of the ones last year were...
MOLEopoly
holy moly (like a priest mole)
molet(like monet)
etc etc

does anyone have any good mole day ideas??? and i can't sew lol

guacoMOLE. like the food.

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So, next year I want to try out for my school's Show Choir. My voice seems ok, but I want to know how to get it better, be able to sing higher notes etc. So, any tips anyone has would be helpful. 5's for good advice.

i've been in choir for church, musicals and school for some time now and really the best thing is to take voice lessons. before i did i was singing wrong as in wrecking my voice when i went to high. if you cant hit high notes, consider singing alto. i personally sing both and theyre both fun.

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what is a diva cup and how does it work?

thanx=)

i actually have heard of it...its like a reusable "tampon" sort of thing. it goes up in your vagina to do a tampon's job.

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heyy well heres the thing .. i'm getting old and i haven't started to shave my legs yet. with winter coming up i can wear long pants but in gym, we have to change into uniforms that are shorts. all the popular and good looking guys are in my gym class and i don't want them to get any wrong impressions .. i want to bring this up with my mom but it really gets uncomfortable talking about puberty and such .. i really need some help! thanks ahead of time !

well, it really depends how old you are. at 12, i would have died talking to my mom about stuff like that...(i did anyway, its your legs, not your area) but now anything goes! just tell her its embarrasing and you want to be confident and im sure she'll let you if thats the case. "mom, can i start shaving my legs...theyre gross!" "sure dear, ill buy you a razor tomorrow at target" "thanks mom, your the best."

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Well, I adore singing.. to me.. it's a way of life. I do it 24-7.

I don't really know if I could ever do it infront of anyone other than myself! I'm so affraid that I will mess up, or people will hate my voice. Personally? I love my voice... but they always say, "Sometimes, you hear what you want to hear, not what is heard by others." I don't know what to do. In a few months.. I'll be moving to Tennessee to live with my Father. He says that Nashville is a land of opertunity for me. (he and my step-mother are the only ones I've ever sang infront of) Well, my Step-Mother, is persuing her singing career. And I'm SO happy for her. She has the prettiest voice.. EVER I'm not sure what to do..

Anyone have good advice for me?
Thanks..
Confused Vocalist

Well, i sing too...a lot, and really, you have nothing to lose by singing in front of people. i perform in musicals and that really helps with getting out of your shell so try that out and if your really good, you can sing in them and not just sing to get a contract and make all sorts of money. sing into a microphone and record it to hear yourself. lemme know if you need anything else!

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Ive liked this kid rob for about 3 years, and hes liked me before, but weve never went out. we are always flirting, and the reason he said he never went out with me was cuz i didnt talk enough, but now i do talk to him. Now, he has a girlfriend,when shes around he dosent talk to me but pays attention to her ( like he shuld) but as soon as he leaves hes flirting with me again. Idk what to do. Theres this party coming up soon and his g/f wont be there but he will and i will..i really like him..But i dont want to feel like im breaking them up. What if we end up making out or something? What can i do?
Please answer.

thats the perfect scenario for someone who wants someone but dont do anything you'll regret. if you do end up making out, make sure his gf doesnt find out and if she does well, shell prolly dump him and you will either get blamed or get the guy. i would go with not messing around with him at all. flirt back, have a good time but dont do anything...refrain from making out with him, it will make you look bad. there are other ways to show someone you like them like giving them attention or just being together. hope that helps && thanks for asking!

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