My girl can't come with me or anyone. she can come on her own in a matter of minutes. I've used fingers, tougue, vibrators, and don't know how to get her there. What should we do?
LoveNJstyle answered Sunday October 16 2005, 8:42 am: dangernerd is a tough one to follow... i think it might be emotional and that's why nothing works. maybe you should turn her on a bit more before hand or really get to trust each other before you do it again. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
DangerNerd answered Sunday October 16 2005, 5:24 am: Hello there,
This is most likely an emotional hang-up.
It is obvious that all the parts work, since she can manage on her own.
Find out if she has been abused sexually, emotionally or physically.
A woman needs to trust you. While she may say she does, and even THINK she does, some repressed emotional damage may make it difficult for her subconscious mind to relax enough when someone else is involved.
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