Ive liked this kid rob for about 3 years, and hes liked me before, but weve never went out. we are always flirting, and the reason he said he never went out with me was cuz i didnt talk enough, but now i do talk to him. Now, he has a girlfriend,when shes around he dosent talk to me but pays attention to her ( like he shuld) but as soon as he leaves hes flirting with me again. Idk what to do. Theres this party coming up soon and his g/f wont be there but he will and i will..i really like him..But i dont want to feel like im breaking them up. What if we end up making out or something? What can i do?
Please answer. <3
angelfire2708 answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 10:27 pm: STAY AWAY from guys that have gfs!!! What if you were his gf and he was flirting with another girl as soon as he wasnt by you, how would that make YOU feel? Just put yourself in her shoes 1ce! Hes with her for a reason! If he makes out with another girl just because his gf isnt with him, then hes not some1 i would want as a bf! He cant be trusted! You have to stop thinking about yourself. I would be mad if another girl honed in on my man, think about it. Youre only gonna give yourself a bad reputation at school. Its not worth it!! Find a guy whos single. [ angelfire2708's advice column | Ask angelfire2708 A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 8:55 pm: try not to make out with him. if you were his gf, & some girl wanted to flirt, make out with him, etc. you'd probably be mad/upset about it. i think you should be able to stand your own & control yourself & he should control himself too. you can talk to him & be his friend..flirting & etc. isn't good. you should talk to him about the whole flirting situation & if he likes you he should break up with his gf.
karenR answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 8:05 pm: Oh wow, what a dilemma.
I guess you could just steer clear of him at the party. Hard as that might be.
The best thing would be to talk to him if he starts to flirt with you.
Let him know you are interested, but no so long as he has a girlfriend. You may also want to let him know up front that it isn't your intention to break them up.
I think he would have more respect for you if you told him that.
Should he break up with the other girl, then I guess you will know his feelings are sincere and he isn't just out to use you. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
LoveNJstyle answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 5:59 pm: thats the perfect scenario for someone who wants someone but dont do anything you'll regret. if you do end up making out, make sure his gf doesnt find out and if she does well, shell prolly dump him and you will either get blamed or get the guy. i would go with not messing around with him at all. flirt back, have a good time but dont do anything...refrain from making out with him, it will make you look bad. there are other ways to show someone you like them like giving them attention or just being together. hope that helps && thanks for asking! <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
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