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This may sound like a stupid question, but here goes...
When I was younger I used to collect semi-precious stones (like pink quartz, fools gold, turquoise etc.) and I have about 100 of them. But now they are just sitting in a drawer gathering dust and I don't want them anymore. I'm not sure if they would be worth anything, and if they were, where could I sell them? They are a nice collection.
Thanks, give me some advice if you have any ideas.
FakeArms

i dont think theyre worth much. i would try ebay or relatives that like that stuff. maybe a teacher or rock collector.

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i was due for my period 5 days ago but it still hasnt come..is that normall?

(i have had it for 3 years)

well since youve had it for 3 years...thats not normal but 5 days isnt a huge delay so your normal. if youve recently lost weight, have been playing a sport for a while...that might be why. if its over 2 weeks late, go see a doctor.

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I got a DELL POCKET DJ for christmas last year. I haven't really been using it lately but now I want to. Anyways, on my computer I use DELL MUSICMATCH JUKEBOX PLUS to listen to music and put songs onto my DELL POCKET DJ. Okay, so I put all the songs I wanted onto my DJ and all 172 songs are on there. But, when I press "PLAY ALL MUSIC TRACKS" on my DJ, not all of the tracks play and I don't know why. Then, when I press "VIEW ALL TRACKS", all of my songs are there but then when I press play it only plays that one song and does not allow me to scroll down to view any other songs, in order to play another song I would have to go back and press "VIEW ALL TRACKS" again and so on. I don't know how to fix this problem and I don't know if it has something to do with the DJ itself or the DELL MUSICMATCH JUKEBOX on my computer. If anybody knows how I can get all my songs into the "PLAY ALL MUSIC TRACKS", please tell me and I'd glady appreciate it. 5's to anybody who answers! (=

well i have a dell dj too and mine show up... i think it has to do with the actual dj tho or what you put on it. the jukebox doesnt cause problems for the most part. if it still has a warranty, send it back and have them check it out.
oh and to play all of them, put them on to one playlist...thats all i can think of.
goodluck!

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Is there any DO IT YOURSELF/craft sites...with tutorials on making arm warmers and making ordinary shirts into halter tops or something?

OMG!! i love this stuff! ok www.craftster.org has everything you need! have fun...there is so much stuff to do!

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i weigh mor than i'd like to (108 lbs. i am 5'4") does any1 no some easy ways to loose 8 pounds?

you're perfect. please don't lose any weight. guys don't like anorexic girls, just ask them.

you know it would be really cool if you spelled things out.

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hello well i was txing this guy (we are going out but only for like 2 weeks so far) and at the end i put lots of love and he replied love ya too.
now what does the YA mean?? does he not like me enough to say u?? or what i need to know..
xxxthanksxxx

its chatspeak...no one really knows. from my experience, its the same as "you" but it sounds cooler. like more casual. dont think too much about it. i think you put more thought into it than he did! bottom line: he likes ya. (haha YOU)

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How does soccer help your heart? so far i have Soccer will help you improve your endurance, agility, hand eye coordination (goalies), foot-eye coordination, and muscular strength in your legs and arms (throw-in), speed, and......am i missing anything?

yeah, if you are running or anything really, it is working your heart. unless its like a defender that stands around watching butterflies? it gets your blood pumping, burns calories...good stuff.

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ok well i've recently started playing the guitar and i'm totally into michelle branch's music so i was wondering if anyone knew a site or place where i could buy a michelle branch guitar music book? thanks a bunch ! i rate !

willis music, guitar center, local music store. you can get guitar tabs online too. i dont know the specific sites but google is my friend. good luck!

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Hi, I'm doing a report on the book "Perfect." So this question is pretty much to anyone that read that book. One of the components to this report is a collage. It has to be pretty big too. What are some pictures, besides a toilet and laxatives, could I put on it?

well im guessing this is about eating disorders? try a picture of the ideal body that someone with a disrorder could have, an "X" through a picture of food, a tape measure, a scale...thats all i can think of. lemme know if you need anything else!

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During 4th period yesterday, my friend, Ryan had my cell and I forgot to get it back from him at the end of class. So he had to keep it and his 5th and 6th periods are football. All the football guys know me so I guess they thought they could mess with my phone and it would be alright. Here's just a few things I found out they did:

1. changed my b/f's name to "cock sucker"
2. took pictures of themselves in the shower (surprisingly enough, I wasn't turned on)
3. sent dirty texts to people
4. changed my dad's name to "do not answer"
5. downloaded all these songs and games
6. i have a "never delete" folder for the texts i want and didn't want to delete and they of course, deleted them! (they claim this one was an accident)
7. and changed the language to German

I was furious with them when I saw my cell. Mostly at Ryan for letting them do it. So, I am not talking to any of them until I figure out if they're worth it or not. Specially Ryan. Now, he claims he is mad at me because I had no right to be mad at him because it wasn't his fault! How immature is that? I don't care that they used up my texts or downloaded stuff that cost money and I don't want them to pay me back or anything but what should I do?

what they did was definatly wrong but here the thing with guys...they dont care if some girl is mad at them. seriously. and you'll never know who really did it so your just mad b/c you choose to be. i think you guys should have a long chat about responsiblity, suck it up and be friends again. you'll be fine...just change everything back, apologize to the people that got dirty texts and never let them use your phone again. hope that helps!

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I didn't exactly know what to put this under.

But anyway, I'm not the richest person you'll ever meet. I live my single mom, and my sister. We don't have THAT much money, but we're not poor or anything. I have like 2 hoodies that actually fit me, and that I like. And I have like 10 t-shirts that I wear. I really hate wearing the same clothes all the time, and I have like no hoodies (especially going into winter). I don't know what to do? I need some "fashion tips" I guess. I shop at Pac Sun and that's why I can't buy that much clothing at once, because of high prices. I like those kinds of clothes though, so where else can I get clothes that I like, but more of it??

ok well i know this girl and shes like one of the most gorgeous people you'll ever meet...shes proud to raid thriftstores. look for things you like there or look for sales! dont pay full proce if you dont have to. anything else, just let me know!

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Hey i just started taking english, i live in denmark. So i was wondering should you write days with a capital letter. like in the middle of a sentence? Example: are you calling Teresa on monday, or are you just gonna forget about her? Should monday be with a capital letter or not? Thank you.,

yep, its a capital letter. "i" is also capital when speaking of yourself. learn lots!

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i am on crutches =( and will be for halloween. I really wanna go trick or treating. What should i do? Even if someone like pushed me around in a wagon or something, i still hafta walk up stairs, and it will be so hard doing that all night. Please help me!

aww bummer! well my friend has a sister in a wheel chair and she just took her bag and had her mom push her sister on the street where its flat. your gonna have to go really slow unless someone wants to lend/push you on a wheel chair and you can be a grandma or something cool like that. (im thinking TIMMY from south park)...it would go faster and people will see that your not just slacking off and too lazy to get your candy. hope that works!

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OK, well im 14 and still havent had a b/f yet. Is there like smething wrong with mme? Im affraid I wont have a b/f the whole 4 years of highschool. Thanks!

nope there absolutely, positively, NOTHING wrong with you. here's the deal: most relationships before 14 aren't real. its a bunch of playing around seeing what you can get regardless of compatibility. just wait and see...you don't need a bf! keep your head up!

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I need some help from you woman only please. Some nights may husband is in the mood and we could go for a long time and other nights he just pushes me away and tells me that he's not in the mood. But when he's in the mood I better be. On fridays nights he'll stay out until 2:00am and that. I have asked him he's cheating and he tells me no.Should I believe him that he's not
cheating on me and let it go.
Hope someone can help.

That doesn't sound right...2:00 AM is late for a person wo has a family. I think you should get to the bottom of it before you kick him out of your life. check how many miles he uses on his car. if it's more than "to work and back" or whatever his routine maybe, it is likely. (I saw this on a show about catching cheaters) If you want, I'll edit and include other ways to find out. He really shouldn't be acting this way and you might find some kind of marriage councling helpful.

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does anyone know where i can get the lyrics to this song in chicago called roxy... it goes like "the name on everybody's list is gona be ROXY..." i need to know the rest cuz im auditioning for a musical and i want to sing it
i rate!

thanks

thats an awesome musical!! ok www.stlyrics.com has all your sountrack needs! its my life. goodluck at your audition!

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i want alot of honest opinions on these 2 questions.
1)what do you consider a girl that has had sex since the age of 13? Had another bf when she was 14 then had sex with another guy (cheated on her bf) she barely knows the 2nd time they hung out together?

2)what do you consider a guy that screws a girl he hardly knows the 2nd date, knowing she has a bf?? will rate 5s for honesty!!

1) a bit undereducated and anxious to grow up.
2) desperate, dumb, overconfident.
thats is honest as i can get haha!

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Well there a girl I really like and we have been awsome friends. I want to tell her the way I truly feel about her, but I don't want to make anything more akward then they are, and ruin our friendship. It already came close to being decimated, and so whats the best way to let it out.

im in the situation right now...my guy friend likes me but he's waiting to tell me. i say tell her...dont spill your heart out just say you wanna be really close. your ex needs to take a hike and leave you with who you like. tell her in a special way like at homecomming or a dance or somthing. goodluck & hope it all works out for you.

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I tried out for a solo in chorus but I didnt get it. And now Im really mad because I ALWAYS win at singing and get solo's. Im not used to this. Plus, a girl I HATE got it. And she always says shes better than me.. And this just PROVES it. What do i do?..

-Saddddd

wow...ive been there before! cept i was the girl that came back... and got hated for it because they all thought they were better than me. maybe it was because you always got the solo and the judges or whoever wanted to give someone else a chance. be the better person...congradulate her and let it go. theres nothing you can do about it. you'll get it next time.

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So how do I ask my "second choice" without sounding like "you weren't my first choice." I could deal with being uneven, but I only had 3 to begin with. I could make one of my other girl attendants a "jr. bridesmaid." She will be 10.

well being second choice is better than not at all but to avoid the conflict all together, go with the jr. bridesmaid...i was one when i was younger and i was thrilled!

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