I am getting sorta tired of the way everyone is so rude on here! There was this girl who was pregnant and scared and crying and this guy came along and told her to shut up! Whats with everyone? When someones mother dies you dont say "Stop complaining bitch" thats absolutely digusting! So my question is...why do some people on here be complete assholes when there are people who need serious answers and have serious questions?!?!?
Because they think they are being cool but they are really not..i hate that too..its horrible...if they arent here giving advice then why are they here? this is not the becomplete@$$holenators.com so the people who sit here and give stupid " advice " should just go...cuz its not helping anybody...but if that makes them feel atleast an inch bigger then w/e they have problems...
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i've been really depressed lately and i cut myself and i really really want to tell somebody because its been getting out of control and i don't want to do something i am going to regret so should i tell a counselor teacher friend or what?
deff. tell A counselor because they can help you lso tell your parents so they know whats going on in your life...if you want to tell your best friend then do that...but make sure you tell sombody who can get you help...need to talk just leave one in my inbox sking 4 my screen name
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I use Herbal Essence Conditioner and it works really well. How do you know when you've gotten it out so you can get out of the shower so your hair won't be oily looking because sometimes it looks as if I haven't washed it in a few days. Does anybody know?
when your rinsing it, it squeaks and stuff
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How do you know when you're in love? And I mean really in love, not lusting after something you can't have, not loving someone, IN love, with 'the one'. How do you know?
Thnx,
Hallie
You can feel it...like you get this feeling that even when the worst possible thing could happen he could take it all away....the feeling that you can be youself and share anything with the person and having that feeling in the pit of your stomache...when you have it..youll know....
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theres this girl that has been following me around since 7th grade she never talks or when she can you can't hear her.I dont like feeling like I have a shodow its emberassing when I talk to people and they try and talk to her but she just wont talk. Its the most annoying feeling so thats why i dont even enjoy lunch anymore id rather go to my next class. even if i say to someone "i need to tell you something in private" and walk away she still follows me. Shes the shyest person EVER and i would feel bad hurting her feelings. BUT I CANT TAKE IT ANY LONGER. pleaseee help i'll rate 5's
thanks
Ok be like " listen i dont want to hurt your feelings but you never talk and its sorta like i have a shadow because you follow me everywhere and i cant ever have a minute to myself or just with my friends...you seem like a nice person but could you please find someone else to follow around..." i hope i helped...good luck...
~Katie Leigh~
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hey i just started cutting and i have cuts all down my arm and i am afraid that a teacher or something is going to ask me where i got them should i tell them the truth or lie?
first please never do that again...if its the pain that gives you such a rush or feeling then what you should do is take an ice cube and squeeze it in your hand and dont let go...or take a ruber band and put it around ur wrist and pick it up and let it go real fast....second...try to hide it until they fade...and wear long sleved shirts to cover it up and if a teacher happens to notice never lie...they will tell the guidance counselor anyways just to make sure...just be like i dont want to talk about it and then ask if you can go to the guidance and talk about it there....ask to have a private conversation with him/her and ask him/her to not tell anybody not even your parents, and that t was a one time thing....i hope i helped...and please dont do it again...if you ever want to talk just leave one in my inbox asking for my screen name....
~Katie Leigh~
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i am just gonna come out and say that i've been playing with anorexia but i have a question regarding the actual cycle. I'll do really well starving for awhile then ill end up binging and it just throws all my hard work out the window. what are some ways i can curb my appetite-are there any tips to prevent yourself from eating id rather just not put it in my mouth to begin with because if i eat too much ill throw it up anyways. also everyone always says to drink a lot of water to curb ur appetite but i do then i gain even more water weight-i know its just water weight but it makes it that much harder to step on the scale. help please!
I cant believe you are asking this....First of all you shouldnt be doing that to your body its stupid....your slowly killing yourself....ive known and heard people who have died or Almost died from that...it ruins your body and i know once you start you think you cant stop but its hard you have to work at it...try going to a counselor about this get some help because i dont want you to die or get hurt...and im sure your family and friends feel the same....
~Katie Leigh~
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My mother and I got in a huge fight. I went over like $50 bucks on my cellphone bill, and she was sooo mad!!! So yeah we got in a fight, and now I'm not speaking to her at all. I don't want to apologize to her, because she called me stupid and stuff, I don't know how to apologize to her. Should I just not talk to her all night and then write her a note and leave it for her in the morning, or should I apologize to her tonight to her face? I'm overly confused. Please help me!!!
aplogize to her face...it happens alot with me and my mom and i just go up to her and say " mom im really sorry i was just having a bad day ad im sorry....forgive me? " and se of course always says yes and then we say i love you and everything....dont worry fights dont last forever....hope i helped
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i got my gf pregnant and we havint told anyone yet should we tell someone like our parents
or should we not. and since i got her pregnant should we like get marryed or something i mean i am not ready for that i am only 15
well, tell your parents deff. and no dont get married, you shouldnt feel that you have to get married since you now have a baby together....just be like you were then if later on you find out that she is the one then get married ( no rush no pressure to get married ) but if you find out that shes not the one for you then tell her that its not working...but your still be a great father and pay child suport and see the baby and stuff like that....i hope that i helped and i hope everything goes ok....when the baby is born tell me! if you ever want to talk bout it you can get my IM just ask....
~Katie Leigh~
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I'm really scared bcus i'm only 14 and i've found out i'm pregnant. my ex doesnt know bcus we had a really bad fallin out and my mom wud totally freak if she found out. Wt shud i do. i'm scared to tell enyone even by best friends! i just act normal but i can nevva take my mind off it!
Well number one you shouldnt be doing that stuff wen your 14...but just sit your mom down and say " listen mom this is really hard to tell you and please dont interrupt me wen im saying it...im pregnant and i dont know what to do...im scared ad confused and i dont know what to do i made a stupid decision and i hate it...mom...im scared...please dont hate me " and stuff like that then talk about the baby and personally, dont think you should get an abortion because i feel that if you thought you were old enough to have sex than your old enough to deal with the concquences...but its not my decesion....on a day that your x is happy or something or a day that you see him tell him you have to talk to him about something important...and then tell him....dont tell anybody but thoes two and your CLOSEST friends.....and make sure they dont tell anyone because word spreads and you dont want people finding out because it will make it really hard for you at school..i hope i helped and good luck..
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how do u shrink a shirt...please help!
you can hem it....hope i helped
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So how do you talk to a girl when you're in ninth grade, have no classes with her and see her once a day surrounded by her friends? I really don't know much about her, but she seems like an interesting person. Anything is better than nothing.
im a girl in ninth grade so i kno how you feel ( cept i like guys lol ) ok well just talk to her when shes not with all her friends try to get to know her..just be like hey..whats up my name is...........and youll be fine....you seem like a nice guy...so im sure you and her will have fun...hope i helped
~Katie Leigh~
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hey! i really want to get highlights in my hair. but i dont know what colors to get. can anyone help me? i have dark brown hair, fair skin, and hazel eyes. thanx!
you could get a lighter brown or blonde or Strawberry blonde...i had the same thing as you..and then i got blonde for a while and then te next time i went i got blonde/strawberry blonde and then she put a coat of this stuff that makes your hair smooth and silky and shiny and pretty ( i think it was called a warm wash but it was like to cange your color of your hair to a lighter )and it made the blonde/strawberry blonde go to a hazel/light brown color and it was really pretty..and my hair came out brown with hazel/light brown/golden highlights...its pretty....good luck
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my bestfriend always calls me fat and everyone else tells me im not she is just jelouse what can i do to make her quite callen me fat it really bothers me?
shaiina
your " best friend " doesnt sound like a best friend or even a friend she sounds like a bitch...you deff. shouldnt be friends with someone who calls you fat...never let anybody push you down or walk all over you...talk to er and ask her why se calls you fat...try to have a serious convo. with her about it and if she doesnt stop or makes you feel bad about yourself then tell her you dont want to be friends anymore..nobody should have to deal with that for anybody....hope i helped..
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i have this friend who is so selfish. she told me that if i went out with his guy named matt that shed hate me more then her friend olivia. i really like her as a frind..but i want your opinion..thanx
well if shes a really close friend then i wouldnt go out with him but se sounds a little controlling so i would just go out with him because if she doesnt want to see you happy than shes not a good friend, unless the guy is a jerk then shes a good friend...also you can tell people who are good to hang out with because if people have alot of enemys then they arent good to hang out with...so i hope i helped
~Katie Leigh~
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So I got offered this easy babysitting job from a rich family down the street, and they are going to pay me 50 dollars an hour, BUT at the same time my BFFs birthday party is going on. She said it was OK if i went to go babysit.i don't want her to think i don't care but I really need the money!!!!!!!!!!!
*Im 14 by the way and female*
first make sure its ok with her...and if its not then go to her party a best friend is better than money...money lasts for a little while but friendship lasts a lifetime...if shes cool with you going then tell her that youll make it up to her the next weekend like take her to the mall or somthing and buy her something nice with the money you just got and it will be fun just the 2 of you. i hope i helped...
~Katie Leigh~
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dear XxKaTiExLeIgHxX,
i have a crush on my stepmothers cousin. hes 14 and im only 12. he seems to like me but we never talk. my sister told him i like him and i choke when im around him. And i will do something dumb cause im nervous. how can i step up to the plate without being nervous.im a girl with a big problem.
from nervous wreck
Just remember to always be yourself..even when your around the person you like...and just try to think of things that make you happy and try to talk to him like you would your best friend just all open and stuff. tell him that you wanna hang sometime and ask if hes intrested, but make sure you go like bowling or somthing with your friends and ask him f he wants to invite some of his friends that way you wont be so nervous...then as you get more comfortable around him ask him out just the 2 of you to go to the movies or to grab something to eat or the mall...just remember to be yourself and if he doesnt fall you for then you know that he isnt the one...but i have confidence in you...i hope i helped if you need anymore just ask! Good Luck!
~Katie Leigh~
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I like this one guy in my class. I talk to him alot and we get along well. The thing is, first, he is a grade older then me (sophmore) and second, we are two way different people. He's really smart and kind of nerdy, I guess you could say. Also, hes more into a real relationship and doesn't seem like a shallow,"want to get some" guy. I, on the other hand have never had a real relationship because I always end up finding a shallow guy and I give it all away. I really want a true relationship and I have never liked a guy like him before, I guess my question is, how do I get a guy like him, what's he looking for in a girl, and does every guy just look for sex?
not every guy is in it fr that...most of them are..but ull find this one guy who is amazing and totally right for you and youll find out hes in it because he love you not for anything else...just be yourself around him and if he doesnt like you for you...then hes not worth your time or your effort...after a while of getting to know each other and hanging out ask him out or suttin....its worth a shot...hope i helped....good luck..
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Right now in my life, I cant trust anyone and it feels as if there are so many conspiracies going on behind my back. Like everyone in the world is against me and its just sooo frustrating. I just dont know what to do. Can anyone help?
Ive felt that way before..acctually all last year....but if you foucous on things like school or family and preoccupy yourself i found that i dont think about it and i dont feel it...also...never talk about anybody behind their backs...( i dont know if your like that or not ) but usually it ends up geting to the person you dont want it to get to and then things can get pretty tough...so just hold your head up high and be confident in yourself...hope i helped...
~Katie Leigh~
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I haven't gotten a boyfriend yet (kinda sad, i know) and i don't know what im doing wrong. What do guys look for in a girl? Any tips?
you dont need a boyfriend....when the right guy comes...he comes and you both will know it....dont rush it.....i think having a boyfriend when your younger ( if you are ) is pointless....you always end up getting in a fight or breaking up...and i think its stupid the ammount of time people waste on dwelling on having a boyfriend...just be yourself around a guy...and if they dont like you for you then why waste your time? be yourself and ten at the rigt time so amazing guy will come your way...and will love you for who you really are...hope i helped..
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