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is every guy in it for sex?
I like this one guy in my class. I talk to him alot and we get along well. The thing is, first, he is a grade older then me (sophmore) and second, we are two way different people. He's really smart and kind of nerdy, I guess you could say. Also, hes more into a real relationship and doesn't seem like a shallow,"want to get some" guy. I, on the other hand have never had a real relationship because I always end up finding a shallow guy and I give it all away. I really want a true relationship and I have never liked a guy like him before, I guess my question is, how do I get a guy like him, what's he looking for in a girl, and does every guy just look for sex?
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Well ok if you like the guy and he is into a real realtionship i think if you are intersted go for it. Guys are so different from each other even thought theyd ont act it all the time... but some guys arent just looking for sex some do just want a real realationship. Guys also want differnent things. Some may want a pretty fun girl or osem just wnat some one to talk to. Just tlak to him it isnt that hard to find out what the guy your talking to is in too.. you just have to pay attention.
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Well, all you have to do is be yourself.He seems like the kind of guy whose less into sex, and more into a girl's mind and personality.Try not to try too hard, like dressing a certain way.Don't dumb yourself down, show him your intelligence and wonderful personality:-)
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no they dont- alot do but there are some that are so great, and dont- ive got one of them and im so glad that i found one.
xoxo-
KelS
Always here for ya!
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i think he looking for a grl whos smart and doesnt ast like a dumbass when shes rlly not. i mean that he probly doesnt like grls who dumb themselves down and stuff. i hope i helped! ~jj~
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He sounds like he'd be more in for an intellectual, someone he can do things with, and have things in common with. Showing yourself off probably won't work too well unless he is a looking for sex guy, which by your description doesn't REALLY sound like him..
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not every guy is in it fr that...most of them are..but ull find this one guy who is amazing and totally right for you and youll find out hes in it because he love you not for anything else...just be yourself around him and if he doesnt like you for you...then hes not worth your time or your effort...after a while of getting to know each other and hanging out ask him out or suttin....its worth a shot...hope i helped....good luck..
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Hiya,
1st, don't worry about you two being so different - life would be extremely boring if we were all the same and they do say that opposites attract :)
It's great that he's into 'real relationships' - something that you seem you want. If you can find a guy who is great, who you like, and who isn't just in for the sex, then don't let him pass you by!
Not every guy is in it for sex (although about 90% of them are lol) ... if you want a real relationship (no offence, but something pretty rare in a high school kid) and so does he, then you two already sound great for each other!
All you can really do is talk to this guy, get to know him a bit better. Drop some hints that you like him, and if you don't think that he's getting the hint, then just ask him out straight - don't be left wondering what could have been!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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not every guy is in it for sex. sometimes you need to just take chances and trust your judgement, if he really seems like he's not the type that'd be in it for sex, then you can try it and see what happens. if he ends up only being in it for sex, then its not that bad, stuff happens, dump him. but if you let him go and it'd turn out he wouldnt be in it for sex, then you'd miss out on a lot.
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Well sex is on a guys mind alot alot.. but its on girls minds too we cant lie..but were different bout the whole thing we want a relationship and not jus be booty call..but if you really like this guy you should talk to him.. and theres not many guys out there that is wanting a serious relationship wit a girl so you might wanna snatch him up quick.. i mean he probably isnt really lookin for anything jus wants somebody to treat him good and like any other person wanting a good personality outta person..but i hope i helped and answered your questions i tried my best..~*DEZ*~
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Alright. I agree with some of these other people (aka advicenators aka peepz.) Some guys aren't just in it for the sex. But that's only cause their sexual performance is something to be desirec and they know it! He would LOVE to get some. He justdoesn't know how.
You should totally go for the whoel real relationship thing though. I have no idea what guys like him look for though cause each guy has their own individual preference. However if you could fly, I promise that's a huge bonus.
Good luck, and contact the government before attempting flight. We don't need you getting shot down as a U.F.0
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To answer your last question first, no, not EVERY guy is in it for sex. The majority, yes, but not the entire male population. For instance, I've had to stop my girlfriend from trying a few things because I really don't think we've been together long enough to start any of that.
At any rate, if the two of you do hook up, don't move so fast. Remember, whenever you cross a certain "line" in a relationship, there is no turning back. For instance, if you go down on a guy, he's gonna expect that to happen a lot more, because hey, you did it before; why wouldn't you do it again?
You're young. Sex is not your concern. Figuring out what you want in a relationship so you can have a successful one later in life, is.
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Good news! Every guy is not looking for sex.:)I think you should grab him. He's a good deal. How to get him...be yourself! He's most likely looking for someone w/goals, since he's smart; and someone who wants a real relationship, like you! Let him know you like him and why. He should be flattered and appreciate it. You should become closer too. Hope i helped.
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No...not every guy is in it for sex...but you rarely find them kind of guys i guess. Im a guy..and am currently in a 3 month relationship with my girlfriend, and i love my girlfriend very much. Its not all about sex between us...not at all. We really love each other. You really cant find a guy you really want...you have to either wait until he finds you...and even though some things might not be what they seem...later on in life you may realize your very true love can be in front of you. Thats what happened between me and my girlfriend. Anyways i hoped i helped even a little bit. Sorry if i wasnt much help.
~Dom
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