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I haven't gotten a boyfriend yet (kinda sad, i know) and i don't know what im doing wrong. What do guys look for in a girl? Any tips?
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you dont need a boyfriend....when the right guy comes...he comes and you both will know it....dont rush it.....i think having a boyfriend when your younger ( if you are ) is pointless....you always end up getting in a fight or breaking up...and i think its stupid the ammount of time people waste on dwelling on having a boyfriend...just be yourself around a guy...and if they dont like you for you then why waste your time? be yourself and ten at the rigt time so amazing guy will come your way...and will love you for who you really are...hope i helped..
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first off please dont be one of those girls who will change who they are jus to make a guy like them. if you do that you are lyin to yourself and the guy you are tryin to get wit. jus be yourself and put yourself out there for people to notice you. and i dont mean dress like a hooker i mean like go to school events and talk wit errybody. thats how guys notice you. ~aLeXiS
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HeY! don't worry about it... you didnt include your age... but i'm sure your young... theres no need to rush into boyfriends... alot of girls don't get boyfriends until their 18... so it isnt very sad... it all depends on the guy. most guys like girls with confidence... you don't have to be the hottest girl ever... but be outgoing, be yourself and when the right time comes you'll have a pErfEcT maN!
xOxO, aLeX
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First of all, you don't need a boy friend to be cool, but if u really want one then.. be yourself around boys, and don't hestate to ask them to a dance. Boys look for personalitys that are easy going, but willing to speak out if neccesary, But as i said before, don't force yourself to have a boyfriend.
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I know...its difficult...
When your a teenager most guys either look for prettiness in a girl or other stuff....perverted stuff. When your a teen, while it may seem like its worth it, its really not. Ive tried so many times. Its truly a waste of time, for they are too perverted for my taste.
Dont waste your time like me.
Good luck....
Jacki
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well most jerks qo after looks in a qirl .. but real quys qo for personality and just little thinqs about her .. don`t worry yuu will qet a boyfriend sooner or later !
xOox
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aww don't think that, there isn't anything sad about that at all. And your deff. not doing ANYTHING wrong. I think guys look for girls that can make them laugh and share some common intrests. Try going to some social events or somthing to get to meet some new guys that don't go to your school [how old are you? lol] i think it's easier to be yourself around a guy that doesnt go to the same school, it's weird.. i don't know why. When your talking to guys don't try to be somthing your not- like if your going to ask a guy out [theres a lot of guys who actually like it when the girl asks the guy out] don't start wearing makeup that day if you didn't already, they'll think your trying to be someone your not- which is a turn-off. Just be yourself, and have fun. You'll have the perfect guy before you know it! hope i helped!! xxo -*Jeanine
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OK don't feel bad I used to have the same problem. Age 15 and no bf. Sad I know. But I found a guy who likes pretty much all of the same stuff I do, we started talking and then we started going out. So my advice is this: Don't change yourself just to get a guy, ((thats just sad and wrong)) find someone who has the same intrests as you, talk to him a bunch, then if you think you like him enough ask him out.
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Well most guys i know look for a girl thats attrative.. and they wanna good personality.. but im sure yal find somebody soon dont give up and jus wait..~*DEZ*~
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baby, it's not sad u dont have a b/f yet. and you're most likely not doing anything wrong.
but guys all have different things they like in girls.
Most like a girl who respects herself.
they also like girls who can do for themselves and are not dependent on a lot of people. some also like girls who are not-so-shy.
as for tips, just be yourself, and try to be honest when you talk to guys. if you get nervous, they'll sense that and will not like you as much. hope this helped at all.
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How old are you? It's okay that you havent had a boyfriend yet! Nothin is wrong with you at all!! But, you just have to be yourself, I mean you wouldn't want to be someone you're not. You just have to flirt with guys and show them that you're interested, I'm sure they would do the same thing if they're interested in you. You just have to talk to them (not saying you don't) and be yourself. Once you do those, you should be good! Just think positive about yourself, don't put yourself down. I'm sure you're a great girl and any guy would be lucky to have you! I hope this helps and if you need anymore help, just post a message in my inbox!
xoxo Kourtney
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