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Hi, I'm not really sure what to say here. I'm just a simple gal looking to give and get useful advice. I'm willing to talk to anyone. I enjoy nursing, school, the domestic arts, and long walks on the beach...
Gender: Female
Location: Virginia
Occupation: Student/CNA
Age: 19
Member Since: January 5, 2005
Answers: 4
Last Update: January 6, 2005
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If you get your nose pierced, and you decide later in life you don't want it, will it eventually grow over and not make a scar, or will it scar you for life. Thanks! (link)
Just like with any and every piercing, it depends on the person (you) and the piercer (a professional I hope :-) As long as they do a good job and you get it done at a reputable place, keep it clean and uninfected you should have no problems whatsoever. HOWEVER, there is always room for error. They could mess up, you could get an infection and it may scar noticably. I do know two people who took theirs out and you really can't tell with either one. Hope I helped.

JLH


hey! ok so me and my boyfriend have sex frequently and sometimes we dont use a condom...but i tend to queef a lot and i was wondering what that might be from? or if its normal? or if theres anyway to prevent or minimalize it...he doesnt seem to mind it but it annoys me and makes me self concious in bed...any help would be great! thanks:-) (link)
To my knowledge, certain sexual positions that raise your (the female) hips into the air, will cause more air to be pushed into your vagina. If your bf is bothered by it, you could try to avoid those positions (stick with the classics). If he doesn't mind it, don't be so self conscious. It's normal!!

JLH


In the aftermath of the tsunami, the eternal theological question is again posed: what sort of God permits the slaughter of blameless humanity on such a scale?

On the abundant available evidence does it not seem that, if there is or was a God, it is now malevolent, mad or dead?

No, religious nutters please - this is a serious question I'm posing.

Dr Kesha (link)
You have asked a number of questions.
First, Yes, God does exist.
Second, God is loving, kind, merciful, generous, and compassionate, BUT this same God is also just, strong, jealous, and vengful. His love is better than the most wonderful thing in the world, but His wrath is worse than any tsunami, war, or earthly pain we can even imagine.
Thirdly, God is not malevolent (or malicious, spiteful, or wicked) or mad (angry, upset, crazy or insane) or dead. God is the same yesterday, today and forever.
I would not consider myself a religious nut, and I hope I have not come off as such.

I don't know why He let this horrible disaster happen. He was and is aware of it, and I am certain that He is saddened by this loss of many people. I am not one to question Him. He has a plan in all of this, even when we (myself included) fail to see this.

By the way, this was not a punishment for those "non-Christians" God does not will that one human die without knowing Him.

JLH


I am 14/f and don't tell me i`ve made the biggest mistake of my life...i know i've made a mistake and i`m gonna follow my responsibilities. My boyfriend, who I have been with for 11 months, has been in jail for 6... he just got out and we really like each other you know? Well, while he was in jail-i had a little side thing...with a 16 year old black male...lets call him mike..me and mike really liked each other and did it a lot..but when we did it on the first day of my period-something happened. Last night, my stomach was hurting sooo bad while talking to my boyfriend. So bad that my mom took me to the emergency room. She decided to give me a pregnancy test..and it`s positive. I`m nervous and all and 6 weeks pregnate in the 9th grade... I have the money and skills to support it..but MIKE doesn`t want anything to do with it. My dad wants it aborted but I want it...my mom does too. What would you do in my situation? And how do i explain to my boyfriend who is trying to get his life back on track? (link)
Hey girl, I think it's really great you're looking to get some advice, but I'm not sure this is the best place to be getting it. I read some of the other responces, and I'm sorry on behalf of all the rude people who felt the need to answer you. PLEASE don't punish your baby for the mistake you and "mike" made. Your baby did nothing wrong and having an abortion would truly be the biggest mistake of your life. Your dad may be trying to look out for you, but he's not looking our for his grandchild. He needs to realize you have a tiny, fragile, innocent life inside of you and he needs to respect whatever decision you make. You mentioned that mike's 16? even if he doesn't want anything to do with your baby, which must be so hard on you, he will legally have financial responsibility to you and your child. I hope you're feeling okay with "morning" sickness and all...please let me know how your doin and if there is anything else i can do to help you

JLH




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