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im in love with my guy. all my friends and family members like him and they get along with him pretty well. everyone, except for my older sister. she thinks that hes no good for me and that hes using me. it makes me upset because whenever theyre face to face, she tends to be ignorant towards him.. and a lot of the times, he doesnt want to come over my place because shed be home. ive tried to make her realize that even though him and i go through stuff, that we still love each other and she just needs to accept it. but no matter how much i tell her, she never listens.. and she talks a lot of shit about him as well.. what can i do to have her accept us? (link)
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I think that if u love this guy as much as u do then dont listen to ur sister because i mean she wants the best 4 u and everything but this is ur life not hers and she is gonna have to learn to live with it i hope i helped a lil GOOD LUCK!!!
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Hey im bisexual and me and my girl have been together for a year as of Aug 15th. Well she is REALLY good friends with my guy cousin Micheal. They went to middle school together and crap. Well she says shes in love with me..and i love her to death but theres one problem. My cousin likes her and she likes him. And it kinda hurts me because Im scared that one day im gonna loose her over him. I really love her. But i dont know what to do. I cry every night because it hurts to see him doing this to me. They flirt like crazy. And when she gets offline she writes him this long ass paragraph on how she loves him and shell miss him..bla bla but when she says bye to me all she says is i love you bye. Is it right? What do i do? PLEASE help me..
Ash (link)
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you should tell her how u feel and talk to ur cousinask him wuts up and so on.but it seems like she's doing u wrong at that isn't fair 4 u at all i advice u to tell her how u feel and not cry at all cause wuts crying gonna do i mean go ahead think about it okay cry a little but don't let that take over ur heart cause that isn't fair to u and on top of that don't give her ur satisfaction of her seeing u like that cause UR BETTER THEN THAT!!!i hope i helped good luck...:)
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me and my friends have a so called"friend" named jodi.weve known her for like half a year.at first she seemed cool.but then she got really annoying.she started acting like a bytch and only do what she would wanna do.so should we keep talking behind her baq and acing like were her friend.or confront her and tell her we dont wanna be her friend
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Tell her how u feel because then u would be a 2 face and i know u don't want that but tell her u dont wanna be her friend so she wont even bother to say hi.but ya i think u should confront her.
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Okay, I got this male best friend, he is one of the most sweetest boyz in the world, and we both know eachother EXTREMELY WELL. But see I hooked him up with on of my buddiez, and I just realized how much a cared for him when I noticed how jealous I was when they both started talking. Now he knows my situation and we still good friends and all. But now it's gotten to the point to where I can't look at him the same. And I feel bad cause I am jux that jealous. But he knows my heart and he knows the kind of person I am. So do anyone think he'll come around or anything like that? I know I got him thinkin about it cause I tell him all the time. I really really do love him alot, and I'd give my life for him anyday and he knows it....it's just weird cause he is my bestfriend....so what should I do? (link)
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He must sound like a really good friend because of wut yall been going through and im also going through the same thing cause now when i see him with others gurls i get JELOUSE i don't know y but i just do but i think wut u should do is tell him honestly how u feel because if u 2 r really close friends then he will understand 4 sure i bet he already know how u r feeling by just the look on ur face.i think he will come around but wutever does happen alwayz stay friends.
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hi sweetie!:) sep 3rd is my bfs 17th birthday and our 6 month ann. any ideas for gifts?
x0x-dani (link)
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KOOL my birthday is on September 6 but u can give ur bf like a necklace or an air brush shirt with his and ur name.thats the best i can do good luck!!
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my bestest, bestest, BeStEsT friend in the whole wide world jus did the worst thing a best friend cud eva do. She slept wit my crush. She sed she didnt mean to, and basically CrIeD, BEGGING me to forgive her. But how can i? She smokes, and she said it wuz becuz she wuz high. Yur probably wonderin wats she doin at his house in the first place. She goes there to get cigarettes. Its bad enuff that kidds our age shudnt be smoking, but anyway.... So she slept wit him, while i wuz on vacation. I'm jus glad she told me, but how can i ever forgive her? She PrOMISeD me she wud never do this to me, and she did. But then again, i mean its not like i wuz goin out wit him in the first place, so it isnt really my crush's fault. She said He came on to HER, but of course thats wat she's gonna say. I dunno wat to do. I'm jus so glad she told me, cuz she could've jus lied and sed everything wuz OK. But deep down...i'll let the picture speak for itself >:0. She begged me for forgiveness, and i want to forgive her, but i cant. Wat shud i do? (link)
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yes forgive her cause he's just a crush she's a friend and if she really is sorry then and she told u on top of that.but it seems like if she feels really bad and gurls tend to kinda beleave there crushes more but maybe he did come on up her but they were "High" so u will never no anywayz its not like he went with u but she seems really sorry i think u should 4give her even though that is fucked up buts its not like she did it while ur were with him or anything.im sorry if i was kinda mean but i hoped i helped a lil.
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Me and my b/f have been going out now for 3 months. And i haven't kissed him yet..not even a peck. Is there something wrong with me? He has tried once to make a move but i backed off. Does anyone have any advice on how to do it or anything??!!! (link)
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omg!r u serious me 2!!! i dunno but when he trys i like back off y i dunno but i COMPLETELY understand u r u prude?i dont think so maybe its cause u arn't ready or something but im going through the exact thing u have no idea!but ya i think thats kinda normal im not sure but i just wanted to let u no ur not alone on that cause thats also my case.
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my best friend and my best guy friend are going out now which i dont mind but they leave me out of everything we used to do everything toghter but now they are always by themselves or when they invite me i always feel like a 3rd wheel what can i do? (link)
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Tewll them how u feel trhats the best thing u can do or else they are gonna ffade away but probably when they brake up they will begin talking to u again and i bet thats wuts gonna happen thats happens alot.but when they ask u to go somewhere then go along but bring someone else so u wont feel so left out.i hope i helped good luck with ur friendsi hope it all works out 4 the best....:)
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I am a mother of young children . You probally dont have any , I hope not . Anyways you are young so I'll see if you can help me ; WHAT CAN I DO TO GET MY CHILDREN TO LISTEN TO ME ? I have to tell them to do something like a hundred times by then I just get mad . Thanks AAWE (link)
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Bribe them that can really work thats the best thing u can do depending on the age but in most ages it will work.LOL but really it works i hope i helped...good luck with ur kids....:)
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i really like my best friend but i dont know how to tell him cuz i dont want to ruin wat we alreadii have...hes like my goofy brother but ive liked him for soo long! what do i do! thanks! (link)
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If u 2 r such good buddies tell him he might know already or have the same feeling tours u how do i know this cause im going through the same thing.but tell u friend cause it's not like he's gonna insoult u.i hope i helped good luck!!!
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(14/f) i have a hard time getting along with girls. i only have 3 really close friends that are girls and 2 of them are changing alot and i'm begining not to like how they are acting lately. the majority of my friends are boys. i really can't stand being friends with girls! they always find a way to piss me off and with my guy friends... they are so much more easy going! my friend amanda she's been my best friend for about 3 years and she's the same way as me so i guess that's why we get along. but is there something wrong with me that i don't like being around girls and i just like being around guys?? (link)
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no there is nothing wrong with u im kinda the same way but i have many girl friends its just that gurls (including me) are messy,bitch 2 much and dont know when to shut the f*** up if u know wut i mean i have more guy friends they r kool to hang with but in ur caase i think u should try to ignore the bad things about gurls cause ur gonna have to deal with it all ur life but try to make some gurl friends cause sometimes its like the best thing u can do cause SOMETIMES u CAN actualy talk to them.i hope i helped...:)
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I am 15 years old and have never had a boyfriend. Is that normal? (link)
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yes it is maybe u haven't cause ur intimidating or to good 4 them but ya it's normal.
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I was obbsessed with this guy for like 6 months. I just got over liking him but my one of my best friends told me she went to a party and asked him to slow dance and they danced together 3 times. When she told me this i was speechless even though i stopped liking him. I am kinda mad that she danced with him-or i think i'm mad. I'm not sure whether or not i'm mad or just jealous...i still might have feelings for him. Do you think i'm mad at her or just jealous? (link)
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ur JEALOUS y cause i've been through the same thing and i was jeolous but its just DANCING it's not like they kissed or anything u should tell her how u feel and hope 4 the best.okay if this advice was kinda HARSH im sorry but im just try to be staight up with u.
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Saturday I was out at the mall with my friend. We go out together almost every night, but we never really have set plans...just hang out and find random things to do. While we were shopping, my cousin called to ask if I could babysit. I told him I would call him back and I told my friend. She told me to do whatever I wanted and I asked several times if she would rather me hang out with her. She said it was fine and I apologized because I felt like I was ditching her. She still told me it was fine. Well she hasn't talked to me since. I've left messages on her computer and her phone and still nothing and I dont' know what else to do! Did I do something wrong that I am not seeing? And should I just give her time to come around? (link)
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yes u did do something wrong because she said NO its okay cause she didn't want to be mean and the point of her say it's fine was to kinda tell u yes it's a big deal dont go and i think she thought u weren't gonna go but U DID!but really give her some time she will certainly come around.good luck peace and hope yall talk soon...:)
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AHH my dad treats me like I'm 5!! I mean I can't do alot of things by my self..I can't wear tank-tops in front of him...He thinks I can't take care of the dog because I'm too young? HELLLO I'm 13!! I'm a freshmen..at this age it's really hard to keep high grades..yet I still have to keep my grades above 95? Plus I'm alot more mature then a 13 year old..because like ALL my friends are 14-15..and he expects me to do alllll this work and stuff..and when I get hurt he thinks it doesn't hurt at all..but he still treats me like Im SO little!!! I swear he talks to me like Im 5...gR I've tried talking to him...but it doesn't work? What should I do? (link)
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your dad treats u like a little girl because he doesn't want to get over the fact that his "little gurl" is growing up but give him some time because soon u will be off on ur own and u will miss him.but in the other hand if he bugs u so much about dumb things tell him ur growing up and u need to be responsible 4 some things and so on and if he doesn't get it then bug him till he gives up thats wut i do but im still not aloud to do wut most my friends do but it sucks!!but i get use to it cause they wont be there forever.u know wut i mean? well good luck..:)
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my friends are super skinny and i feel left out cause all the guys are like in love with them and they dont pay atteintion to me at all :( do you think i need to lose weight or just ignore them like ive been doing forever im 5'4" 135 lbs :(
and im 14 yrs old please help any advice is good advice (link)
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i know wut ur going through im going through the same thing most boyz like my friends cause they are all perfect shaped and i guess thats wut they like.but in my case i just am myself and u shouldn't even think about trying to be a lil like them cause thats not u.if u lose waight do it because u want to not empress guyz but because u think its best 4 urself but be urself more then anything but i bet there is a boi that likes u.good luck i hoped i helped....:)
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OK this relates to the other questions ive asked. I'm really shy around girls and its hard for me to not studder when i talk to a girl. I get all sweaty and clammy when i have to talk to a girl i like. My mind goes blank and i cant think what to say. Got any pointers on how to fix this? (link)
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u shouldn't be shy at all cause either way one way or the other ur gonna HAVE 2 speak 2 gurlz.but to help u out when uspeak to a gurl be urself don't look at the floor when u do cause thats annoying i know that 4 a fact.if u studder then when u speak to gurls think of them as just another 1 of ur homiez but don't ack the way u do when ur with ur friends but just think of gurls as just ppl or ur normal friends cause if u act weird thats wut scares them off all i can say look at them in the eyes when u speak to them and think twice about wut u say...good luck
Ivanna
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MY AUNT married this boys DAD so I guess you could say we are cousins? But not full blood? Well its the weirdest thing because I sorta do like him, and it's just a different feeling, and I know or like can tell that he sorta likes me too, but its sorta weird so we haven't said anything to each other, but does that make us cousins? If his dad married my aunt ??/ thanks!!! (link)
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well not by blood but kinda leagaly he would be like ur step cousin but if u like him then thats kinda akward y dont u tell him but keep it in the DL cause ur legaly crushed on ur STEP cousin.i hope i helped go luck.
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Thanks and im not gonna give her up.I know how it feels to be given up so im gonna keep her.Ill try to raise her the best i can.My parents,his parents,and the father are all bein as supportive as possible so I think i can manage or at least i hope anyways.Ive been told im really strong and if im as strong as they say i am ill be able to support her and raise her right without giving up.Thank you so much again for the advice. (link)
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no prob just wanted to help out at least a little.good luck really i honestly mean it.:)
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I am only 15 and I already have a kid and pretty much my life is ruined.I hate bein a mom at 15 it really sucks.The father of my child is wonderful though.He helps and supports my child as much as he can although both of our lives are pretty much over.I can't stand gettin up every 2 hours to feed her.I really regret getting in bed with the father.It was the stupidest thing ive ever done.I now hate my life.I have a beautiful baby but a messed up life.I ruined my life to fast.I should have waited till I was older and well now I just don't know what to do.I love my baby very much but im just not so sure that i can handle raising a child along with going to school and working to pay for the expences of my child....Plz someone help me.I really need to know what to do.I don't wanna give it to an adoption center but that might be my only choice.I really need some advice so someone plz help.
Desperate for my life back and confused!! (link)
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oh ur in a really bad situation but u know that already so im not gonna go over that.but this is a life ur talking about giving her up is like giving up on urself and u brought her to this world so u shouldnt give someone else the right to raise her cause thats the best thing u can give a chld a home with her parents and if u want ur life back so much ask ur parents 4 some help or goto a councilor because u might think they dont help but they do alot.im sorry bout wut ur going through but i hope it all works out for the best.
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