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Confused
I was obbsessed with this guy for like 6 months. I just got over liking him but my one of my best friends told me she went to a party and asked him to slow dance and they danced together 3 times. When she told me this i was speechless even though i stopped liking him. I am kinda mad that she danced with him-or i think i'm mad. I'm not sure whether or not i'm mad or just jealous...i still might have feelings for him. Do you think i'm mad at her or just jealous?
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BoTh- Your mAd cuz your friend would do that to you when she knows you liked him- and jealous cuz you wished you could have been the one dancing with him
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i think you're a little bit of both .. mad bc you used to like him and its not right how she asked him to slow dance...and jealous bc she got a chance with him even tho you didnt.
its normal to be a little bit of both. but i would keep on the same track of getting over him and moving on.
-aSh
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Well, I think you might be a little of both. If you have a crush on a guy, and your friend dates him, sometimes it feels like the worst form of betrayal. I totally understand where you're coming from. But remember that just because he doesn't like you, doesn't mean he's not going to like anyone at all. You're not the only girl in the world. Not every guy you like is going to like you back. Truth hurts, but it is the truth.
If you really feel like your friend did something wrong, talk to her about it. Tell her that you really liked this guy, and that now she's doing something that's really hurting you -- whether it's on purpose or not. Make sure she knows that whatever she does, you're still going to be her friend. See what she says. Hopefully, she'll realize that friends are way more important than guys!
<3 Holly
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jelous cause she got him befor you.
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It's probably a little bit of both, actually. Mad AND jealous, I mean. I certainly would be a little upset if she knew that I liked him so much and had just barely gotten over him, and then she went out and danced with him. But I'd also be jealous, that she just went up and asked him and he said yes, three times, and I hadn't gotten ANYTHING like that from him.
Just explain to your friend that you're a little upset about it. She'll probably say, okay, I respect that, and step away from the guy. But if the boy asks her out, she has every right to say yes. If she likes him, and he likes her, you may just have to step aside and say, hey, I hope you guys are happy, you know?
Getting into a fight with a friend over a guy is one of the stupidest things you can do. Friends could be with you forever. But I really doubt that some guy that you dated in Jr. High/High School (whichever applies here) will be the one to stick around for so long that you MARRY him, or he is with you for the rest of your life. There are more fish in the sea, as everyone always says.
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Maybe your jealous for not having the courage to talk to him when you did like him.
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ur JEALOUS y cause i've been through the same thing and i was jeolous but its just DANCING it's not like they kissed or anything u should tell her how u feel and hope 4 the best.okay if this advice was kinda HARSH im sorry but im just try to be staight up with u.
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well ii really thiink that yOu are just jealOus. iin a sense u miite feel mad because u feel as iif she has betrayed yOu, but remember that u just gOt Over hiim. So whats bOtheriin yOu iis that yOu liiked hiim fOr sO lOng and never gOt anythiing, and here yOur friiend cOmes alOng and hasnt spent the same tiime yOu have wOrshiipiing thiis guy, and she gOt everythiing...
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i know what your feeling. happened way to many times to me. well i think its really jealously along with madness. i mean like really... how did you feel when your friend went up to him and danced with him? i would be mad! lol then youd be jealous bc he can get your friend or your friend gets the guy... happens all the time. so really its a combination...
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i have been at the same spot u are in, and i hated hearing that he was with someone else and junk like that but i think u still like him alittle even if u think u dont... it shouldnt really bother u if u were over him... and ur friend should respect that u really liked him, not to jump in and slow dance with him, i mean one time as friends is ok but more then that, thats kinda wrong.
nicole
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I think your jealous. You know your over him, but your thinking why'd she get to dance with him... and I didn't. I think you probably still like him, deep down inside. I think you should talk to your friend and tell her that you like him. She'll understand and probably will back off a bit.
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I think you still have feelings for him..but you just don't notice it.You never know.Love leads you to crazy directions~!!Yeah~ I think you're jealous.Hope I helped!
-tori
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I think a lil part inside of you still likes him maybe if you even expressed your feelings to your friend about it that would probly help you feel better about it..hoped i help rate me
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