Okay, I got this male best friend, he is one of the most sweetest boyz in the world, and we both know eachother EXTREMELY WELL. But see I hooked him up with on of my buddiez, and I just realized how much a cared for him when I noticed how jealous I was when they both started talking. Now he knows my situation and we still good friends and all. But now it's gotten to the point to where I can't look at him the same. And I feel bad cause I am jux that jealous. But he knows my heart and he knows the kind of person I am. So do anyone think he'll come around or anything like that? I know I got him thinkin about it cause I tell him all the time. I really really do love him alot, and I'd give my life for him anyday and he knows it....it's just weird cause he is my bestfriend....so what should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? KrazyAdviceLady answered Thursday August 26 2004, 10:22 am: Ooh. Ive been in this situation before. See i have a friend, who hooked up with a friend..blah blah. Its Jealousy not necessarily because you care for him as more than a friend, but because you love him more like a brother. It kills me to see my best friend date other girls, because i get so jealous, but its really because im afraid that im not gunna see him so much and not going to be able to be with him as much. But you've got to realize this yourself before you do anything. You cant make him feel bad about going out with other girls. If he likes someone else, try to support him. Thats what real friendship is all about.
12345 answered Thursday August 26 2004, 8:53 am: hi
i no what u mean something like that happened to me but u hooked him up with one of your friends and you have to think about how she would feel because as much as your hurting she will feel the same pain if if that happens to her so u might have to remain friends for the time right now [ 12345's advice column | Ask 12345 A Question ]
MissIiVannaH answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 6:50 pm: He must sound like a really good friend because of wut yall been going through and im also going through the same thing cause now when i see him with others gurls i get JELOUSE i don't know y but i just do but i think wut u should do is tell him honestly how u feel because if u 2 r really close friends then he will understand 4 sure i bet he already know how u r feeling by just the look on ur face.i think he will come around but wutever does happen alwayz stay friends. [ MissIiVannaH's advice column | Ask MissIiVannaH A Question ]
SimPLy_II_SwEeT answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 6:14 pm: maib he feEls thu saYme wai buTt just isn't ready to teLL u .. if he dOes he will cOme arOund jus give it sOme tyme. its gOod to be friendZs w/ a guY befOre u date em cauZse u knO aLot abOut eachoTher n besideZs havin a bOifrnd iZs liek havin a best frnd .. u shOuld be able to teLL hiMm anithing!
XxSXyKaYlYnXx answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 5:42 pm: Maybe he feels the same way but just isn't ready to tell you. but im thinking he will come around just give it some time! BeiNG friendz w. the guy befor a relationship is usually a really good thing b/c yall know eachother, feel comfortable around eachother, and besides having a boyfriend is like having a bestfriend- yall do alot together and tell eachother everything! [ XxSXyKaYlYnXx's advice column | Ask XxSXyKaYlYnXx A Question ]
xObRiTT answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 5:37 pm: well try tellin him how u feel but tell him that u dont want ur friendship to change, he should understand u well since hes ur best friend, just try talkin to him nd see what happens [ xObRiTT's advice column | Ask xObRiTT A Question ]
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