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Ok i dont no what to do i have this guy friend that has been my friend for over 2 years and i really like him alot more then just a friend but i no if i ever told him i like dhim then just a friend he would freak out and i dunno what he would do but i still want our friendship to be there and i feel if i tell him that i like him he wont talk to me or something
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Ok heres an idea. Something ive used once or twice. Sometimes its easier to do things yourself, but sometimes another girlfriend can help out alot. Send in a spy. Tell her to pump him for any information he might have about you, and his feelings for you. But dont get dissapointed if he says he dosent like you. Sometimes its nice to have a girlfriend who dosent want to go out with you. He might feel like your the only girl he can talk to carefree without worrying about the whole love thing. =D
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u dont have 2 seperate ur friendship over that, honestly. u can like him (and tell him) and u guys will still be friends. SO TELL HIM.
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That happened to me too. I think maybe you should just let him know, but tell him if anything were to happen you will always be friends. Good Luck!
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i think you should tell him that you like him and even if her turns you down tell him that you still want your friendship
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You can't control how you feel about somehow and don't stop yourself from telling him. Although you two are friends, you can still tell him and he shouldn't just ignore you and not talk to you if you tell him you like him. You two are friends after all. Just tell him something like "I know we're friends and all and I wouldn't change that for the world, I'm so afraid to tell you because I don't want you to freak out and then not talk to me again, but I've began to develop feelings for you and I want to know how you feel about me. And if you do have feelings for me, I want you to know it won't change our friendship, it will always be the same." Just say something like that and how you feel. Hope this helps and good luck hun! If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
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Hi darling,
I can appreciate how difficult the choice is. What I will say to you is - if you really like him as more than a friend and your really certain of that: go for it! Sometimes in live you've got to take the chance or you'll spend forever saying 'what if'.
Good Luck!
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weLL .. it sEems liek u guyZs r reaLLi gOod friendZs .. i dOn think he'LL be freaked out .. cauZse he mai feEl thu saYme about u .. u shOuld sTart flirtin n give him mOre hintZs that u liek hiMm :)
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thats not true. i have a really close guy friend and i had a crush on him for a while and i told him, and he was funny (as in ha ha) about it and took it in good humor. i'm sure if you guys are really good friends, it won't be a problem.
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he will be very happy bc i think he knows ur feelings for him.dont be shy.tell to him what u feel.its not wrong.bye
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if he truley ur friend you can tell him anything and maybe he would say that he likes u more than a friend all you have to do is talk to him about it
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Odds are, the reason you feel you like him is because you enjoy spending time with him. I honestly wouldn't risk your friendship in the hopes for a relationship that might not even work out.
You could try dropping him some subtle hints, though. He might like you too, but there are indirect ways to go about finding out. I doubt he'd freak out if you told him your feelings, though.
Best of luck. If you have any other questions, drop them in my inbox!
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well i personally think that a "boyfriend" or someone u wanna be with should be like a best friend.. cuz the realationship will be stonger. sometimes some things r better left unsaid. u could give him kinda-hints that u like him.. but it all comes down to do u want to wreck the friendship.. and i know u dont, SO i recommend u play it by ear just be friends for now and maybe something will grown between u 2. and he'll feel the same about u someday.
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