Let me get this straight...

You screwed up. You got yourself grounded.

Yet YOU expect HIM to comfort you, and give up his fun?

I'd love to sympathize, but I think you're being a little self-centered. I'm sure your boyfriend has a life other than you.

That's what you don't get.

They don't!

They actually have to have occasional erections to keep blood flowing to the penis. It's perfectly healthy and normal, and pretty easy to conceal/deal with.

No. Absolutely not.

Simple vanity is no reason for seeking possibly harmful medical treatment against the wishes of your doctor. If they didn't think you were short enough for it, it means you're not.

If you're past the age of 20 or so, you've likely stopped growing, and there's nothing you can do to get any taller. If you're still a teenager, just eat healthy, avoid caffeine, and make sure you drink lots of milk to keep your bones healthy.

Other than that, there's nothing you can do. Embrace the body you were born with!

The fact that someone's lips 'curve in' shouldn't be a deciding factor!

If you get along with him as well as you say you do, give him a chance. Trust me; those little physical things that you just COULDN'T get over seem to magically disappear when you start to have feelings for them.

P.S. The dorky ones are the best ones to date. They actually appreciate what you have to offer!

Don't get a really tight one, or else you won't be able to wear sweaters underneath it without looking like a sausage.

As for the hair, sounds good.

Check out the band Dogs Die In Hot Cars. They're really different, and I'm definitely hooked.

Stop worrying! You hair won't all fall out.

Even though strands of hair seem to be continually falling out, there are new strands coming in all the time.

Hair has to fall out once it's past its prime. It's absolutely normal.

As for making it thicker, there's no way to actually make it thicker. You're stuck with the hair you're born with!

It may surprise you to hear it, but I envy you... I have superthick but really fine straight hair, and it's such a pain! I've been getting my hair thinned since I was two years old :S

Hand jobs don't require a guy coming in your mouth; if you're with a guy who said so, he's lying to you...

As an addition to the person who responded before me, they don't 'have' to come in your mouth when you're performing oral sex, either. You can always use a flavoured condom or he can come elsewhere.

To answer your question, though, it's not that gross. You can spit it out, but I find the easiest course is to swallow it quickly. Less mess that way.

I know this isn't the answer you want to hear, but you need to mature a little more before going around telling guys that you love them.

Love is when you would do anything for a person; when you can't imagine living your life without them. When you love a man, it means that you want to spend the rest of your life with him... and at thirteen, you're not capable of feeling this sort of thing.

You're probably seriously crushing on the guy, and that's great. Just make sure you find out what love actually means before you dive into it.

Here are a couple I go on every day...

www.i-am-bored.com

www.collegehumor.com

www.ebaumsworld.com

Silica is a desiccant, meaning that it removes moisture from its surroundings. If you ingest it, it will absorb moisture from your stomach, which could make you sick.

I always have the compulsion to eat them though... I'm glad it's not just me!

Absolutely not. Masturbation is a healthy way to get rid of sexual tension that you may not be ready to fulfill in other ways.

It's totally normal for both men and women.

No, you don't!

I'm 19 years old. Until university, I had only ever dated one guy. I thought, like you, that guys only wanted pretty, skinny girls.

I weigh 185 pounds, and I'm a size 14. I used to be really self-conscious; I was always trying to lose weight so I could be like those other girls.

Then I moved away to university, and all of a sudden I was meeting guys who were interested in me for myself. They liked me even though I was (I thought) ugly and overweight.

I've been with my current boyfriend for six months now, and I'm really in love with him. He likes the way I look, even if it's not the standard.

Long story short, there's someone out there for everyone. Guys grow up a lot in the next couple years, you'll notice.

It's all in learning to rock the body you have. Next time you look in the mirror, don't think of the things you don't like... think of what you do like. I took comfort in my skin and eyes. Being confident in the body you have is more important than looking like Mischa Barton!

Just love who you are, and others will love you too. Good luck!

Don't sell a PS2 for cash to buy a PS3. You won't get very much for it, and the PS3 is really expensive.

As for the wrestling room, everyone has interests. It's pretty normal. Your interests might change as you get older, but don't give up your dream just yet .

1. I was 18 years old. I know that's comparatively pretty late, but I decided to wait until I was sure I was ready to deal with the consequences.

2. I'm perfectly fine with my choice. I have absolutely no regrets whatsoever.

3. I would definitely suggest 18+. You have to be old enough to deal with things if they go wrong (STD, pregnancy) and mature and educated enough to deal with things like taking care of yourself and birth control.

Canker sores are just irritation caused by too much vitamin C.

You're definitely thinking about cold sores. They're a form of the herpes virus, herpes simplex.

If you have a cold sore, you can give a guy genital herpes.

I moved away from home at 17 to go to university.

It's a lot harder than you might think. All of a sudden, you're responsible for things you never thought of; paying rent, utilities, grocery bills...

You have to cook for yourself, clean up after yourself and do your own grocery shopping and laundry.

If you're planning on moving out without financial support from your parents, you're going to have to work at least one full-time job to support yourself. If you're planning to go to school, get ready for some really hard work. You've got to pay for your tuition and books and transportation to and from school. All of this while trying to work your minimum wage job (because you won't get great pay at age 16).

I know that living under someone else's rules really sucks, but too much responsibility too soon sucks even more. Trust me, I know. I'm 19 and I've been supporting myself all year while going to university full-time.

So enjoy being a teenager while you can.

If you don't mind needles, Depo Provera is a great way to stop menstruating. It's an injected form of birth control. It lasts for 3 months.

I'm on it, and have been for 6 months now. I have only experienced light spotting a couple of times... no menstruation.

I'm in sort of the same situation (36DD), and here's what I've found.

Your breasts are always going to look 'saggier' than smaller ones. Unfortunately, losing weight will make them MORE saggy, or not change them at all. What will help with that is exercise. If you really work your pectoral muscles, it gives your breasts a lot of lift.

You really can't compare yourself to other girls, because everyone's breasts are different. I know it takes some work, but get comfortable with your body, and you'll realize that you're actually pretty lucky! Most of my flat-chested friends are all jealous of my size.

And trust me on this... men love it.

Pink Floyd's "One of My Turns" has a really loud glass breaking sound in it... it starts off slow, but then the guy singing it freaks out and starts breaking stuff.

As for explosions, sorry, can't help you :)

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