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too early?
13/f
ive been going out with my boyfriend for a little over 2 months and i want to say i love you but do you think its too early? like i dont want him too freak out if he doesnt feel that way back. what should i do?
thanks. :)
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I know this isn't the answer you want to hear, but you need to mature a little more before going around telling guys that you love them.
Love is when you would do anything for a person; when you can't imagine living your life without them. When you love a man, it means that you want to spend the rest of your life with him... and at thirteen, you're not capable of feeling this sort of thing.
You're probably seriously crushing on the guy, and that's great. Just make sure you find out what love actually means before you dive into it.
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i would say that that's alittle too soon ...i personally always thought it was weird if someone told me that they loved me that early unless i loved them back... and are you really sure that you love him? don't get me wrong if you say you really do then i would take your word for it but your only 13 ya know? maybe you should wait alittle while until your absolutely 100% positive that you love him... but if thats now maybe you should either wait for him to say it or maybe wait until he shows some sort of sign that he likes you alot more then just "like" so i would maybe wait awhile he might get totally freaked out if you tell him that you love him that soon.
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personally, i would let him tell you first. just because i dont know.. thats how its always supposed to be, i think. But don't worry you're only 13, theres going to be alot more guys in your life thats you're gonna go out with or are going to say "i love you" so dont stress over it. at this young of an age, it really isnt true love. Hope you two have a long relationship ! Good luck & hope i helped!
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