okay i am super shy. i am almost sixteen and i cant seem to get a boyfriend for nothing. i just dont really know how to approch a guy. like not neccessarily a guy i know but how do i approch a guy if i am like out of state and just want to hook up and hang out. like what is a good line to start with if you are just meeting someone. help would be great.
ps. guys: what do you find attractive in a girl? like how do you like girls to act around you?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? mystical_breeze answered Thursday March 29 2007, 1:03 pm: It's not a bad thing to be shy, don't worry about that. When you meet someone new, give them a big smile (guys love nice bright smiles) and introduce yourself. Say random things to start conversations, and make them laugh. I say the word 'sexy' a lot (weird right?) but it makes people laugh and makes them comfortable. Talk about things you have interest in, and if you feel like you've said something dumb, don't think about it. People don't really care if you mess up, and if they find it funny for a second, they'll forget about it later. Just be yourself.
Igotamonopoly answered Wednesday March 28 2007, 11:12 pm: Mm. Can't help you too much with the first one. Guys pretty much approach me, or I meet them through extracurriculars.
Don't act.
I was just talking to a boy and he told me that he liked this other girl. He asked if I liked her (if I would "recommend her," per se), and I told him," Well, it could be that the two of us have grown apart. I am different mainly in that popularity and being seen with the right people aren't my priorities in life."
He said, and I quote, "Oh. That's not good. :/. Lol, but that doesn't matter at least to me. :) You're nice and a sweetheart and easy to talk to and that's all that matters." [ Igotamonopoly's advice column | Ask Igotamonopoly A Question ]
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