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i don't want to be a level 1 anymore. I don't know why...i just don't like it i don't like the responsibility that comes with it. is there anyway i can like stop being one. i don't want to get reported or anything like that i just want to know if i can just go and hit a button to stop being one. (link)
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Simply stop doing L1 things. Its not
mandatory. If you don't want to do that,
contact dangernerd. dangernerd@gmail.com
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So, i'm like, a sexaholic with my boyfriend, and he used to be the same way, but we've been together for over a year now, and sex has become rare. MAYBE once a month, if i'm lucky. I constantly want it, once i get it i'm good for a day or two, then i want it again. idk if it's because it makes me feel attractive or because he's so good or what it is, but it's driving me NUTS that he doesn't want to do it anymore. he's always too tired or has to work in the morning or is sore or spends all night on his video game and doesn't get off of it till he's ready to pass out. I want him to want me! i've tried sexy dances, sexy clothes, talking sexy, everything! i even bought whipcream and handcuffs..... what can I do to bring his sex drive back? he says it's not a personal issue, no depression, nothing wrong with me, but idk. i don't know what to do.
:( (link)
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Everyone has different sex drives.
It may be that yours is stronger
than his is. As he has said it probably
isn't anything against you.
It could also be that you are being
to aggressive and not letting him be
the one to initiate things. Try backing
off a little and wait for him to approach
you.
If that doesn't help at all, you may
have to re-evaluate the relationship.
Decide if you are compatible sexually.
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alright i gave my bf head yesterday for the first time. we did it multiple times actually. but, i thought when he'd cum, i'd be able to feel/taste it..but i didn't. he said he cummed at least a couple times. is there a reason why i had no idea he did? (link)
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If you had no idea, he didn't.
Really, you would know for sure.
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How Many years of college fulltime/partime to become a Medical Examiner? (link)
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full time is a long time. You will be a doctor,
you just specialize in medical examining.
Formal education and training requirements for physicians are among the most demanding of any occupation-4 years of undergraduate school, 4 years of medical school, and 3 to 8 years of internship and residency, depending on the specialty selected. A few medical schools offer combined undergraduate and medical school programs that last 6 years rather than the customary 8 years.
For more details.
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_are_the_educational_requirements_for_medical_examiners
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my question is how do you get her to be over him and she want's a realtion ship with me (link)
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The best way to get over n ex is
to start dating and focusing on
someone new. Those relationships
don't often last though. They call
them rebound relationships if you
want to look into that further.
In all honesty you might be better
off not having a relationship with
this girl right now. Let her use
someone else be the rebound guy...
unless you just see it as a short
term thing on your part too. :)
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19/f
So a lot of people that know me think that I'm a player or a tease, but they really don't know what I'm going through. My problem is, is that whenever things are going good with the guy I'm dating, I seem to always find something wrong with them that really annoys me and eventually I stop talking to them. Then I just move on to a different guy and the same thing happens. . I don't know what's wrong with me?!?
I did get out of a relationship, but that was like 7 months ago. My ex has already moved on and starting dating other girls. Things didn't end very well with him and me, we fought a lot and the situation was just bad. Long story short I still had feelings for him but he couldn't stand the fighting.
I just wanna know, could that be the reason I tend to push guys away when things are getting good???? Do I need to wait longer before I date again?!? What should I do!? Am I just a Tease?
Thanks in advance :) (link)
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You're not a tease. There is also nothing
wrong with dating a while and moving on to
the next guy. Thats how its supposed to work.
Long term commitment comes when you have
tried a wide variety and then found that
special one you are compatible with like no
other. Sticking like glue to one guy from
an early age probably isn't the way to go.
Many seem to do that but its not natural.
In my book a tease is a girl who flirts
and dresses in a suggestive manner, may
even rub up against a guy in a suggestive
way. Then when he's ready to take her up
on what he believes to be an invite, she
gets a don't touch me attitude.
So, I think when you find a special guy
you will do fine. In the meantime, there is
nothing wrong with what used to be called
playing the field. :)
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I'm looking for a pair of these:
Nike Women's Tempo Track Short:
http://i61.photobucket.com/albums/h79/i-love-you-24/pG01-2791346p275w.jpg
Can someone give me a list of stores that sells them? Thanks! (link)
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Problem is that some stores aren't nationwide!
You can get them at Dicks sporting Goods,
Eastbay or almost any store specializing
in sporting goods. :)
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I think im really closing on this whole thing with him. I dont know. i miss him i know that..but i dont know..half of me wants to be friends and half doesnt..and i think part of me actually wants to be with him like boyfriend/girlfriend..it hurts to even realize that..and if he comes around and says he wants to be friends..i wouldnt be able to accept that...and i dunno..i just kinda realized i want him more than just a friend and best friend..i started to cry, it hurts..and i dont know.. today was senior cut day and i wasnt allowed..so i went to school and 2 of the gym classes combined since there was no one in..and so he was in the other class..and i couldnt help but stare and watch him play volleyball in gym, and think how much it hurts and how much i miss him.
ehhh but im getting better i suppose..just now what do i do? :( (link)
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Start looking at other guys.
Honestly nothing cures you
like directing your thoughts
to someone else. It is hard
to get over someone, even if
you were only friends. If it
is meant to be you will reconnect
in the future. :)
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I have test anxiety and was wondering if I could use Valium (prescription med) to calm my nerves?
Does it make you drowsy, or will it still allow you to stay focused?...meaning, can it calm you down just enough, or is it a bit much?
Also, is valium habit forming? Thanks, I am just trying to see what I can do about calming my nerves, it's really getting in the way of my concentration and ability to perform well on exams. (link)
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One of the side effects is drowsiness.
I wouldn't recommend you trying it.
any anti anxiety drugs will cause
drowsiness. Thats part of the calming
affect.
Yes Valium is habit forming. It also
has a half life (time it stays in
system) of up to 200 hrs per dosage.
So someone who is taking it daily
will have it in their system long
after they stop taking it.
Here is a site that could be helpful.
http://www.wikihow.com/Stay-Calm-During-a-Test
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how far up is ur hymen in vagina (link)
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Many people are under the impression that the hymen is located within the vagina. It is not. It’s a mucous membrane that is part of the vulva, the external genital organs. It’s located outside the vagina. The hymen is a layer of tissue, just like the tissue around the opening of your vagina that partially conceals the vaginal orifice. You may or may not have one, most females do. The hymen is not an indicator of virginity; a girl is a virgin until she has been penetrated by a penis.
From http://www.coolnurse.com/hymen.htm
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21/f
I am getting married soon, but there are still some issues bugging me that I thought my fiance and I had resolved.
- He smokes
I know this is a personal choice for him but it does affect me. If I really don't like it, shouldn't he at least try not to smoke in front of me? He only started doing this recently, before this he used to hide the fact that he smoked (cause he knows I hate it) and lie to my face when I would ask.
- He brings home his friends porn
He swears up and down that it's not his. Fine, but if you know I don't like it then don't bring it into our home. If it is your friends property then let your friend keep it, no?
- He has MOOD SWINGS like you would not believe. One minute he is all sweet and cuddly and the next he's scowling with a nasty attitude.
- He doesn't like to think about the future, aka he has no idea what he wants as a career (although he has a good job for the time being) and he doesn't even put thought into it.
I don't know what to do. These are things that seriously bother me. I've brought these issues to his attention and nothing changes, or it changes for a week or two then we're back to square one.
There is also stuff from the past and I try to let it go but then he shows me that he doesn't have the will to change.
I'm supposed to be getting married in 3 months! HELP. (link)
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I hate to say it but your relationship
isn't ready for marriage. Don't make the
mistake of getting married and trying to
fix it later, that just doesn't work.
If you have a problem with smoking, and
he isn't willing to compromise and smoke
outside you have a problem. You probably
have one anyway because if he smokes a
lot you'll never see him. He'll go outside
or to a friends who doesn't mind.
Porn. If he likes it and you don't want
it around just tell him to watch it with
friends. You don't want it in your home.
Mood swings. This probably won't get any
better anytime soon.
The future. He may find that he is content
just doing whatever he is doing now. If he
doesn't give it a thought, thats probably
why. If what he's doing doesn't go along
with what you want in a husband, don't
marry.
You need to talk. I know you have already,
but I mean a "is this really going to work"
talk. Serious and honest. Communication
is the most important thing in a marriage.
If either has to lie about anything so the
other doesn't find out, it isn't going to
work. If there isn't compromise on both
parts, so everyone can do what they want
and be happy about it, it isn't going to
work.
Good luck. :)
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From primary to high school, my older brother has ALWAYS been ..well..a nerd. he worse glasses, braces, tucked his shirt into his pants, worse his pants really high, got A's in everything.
Then he went off to university.
We didn't see him for a year because of this huge family problem going on (long story) and then when he came to visit us over the summer (so he'd been in uni for a year) he was covered in piercings, some tattoos, cool hair, cool clothes, but then excellent grades.
My mom burst into tears the second she saw him.
She said that he wouldn't be able to get a job (he's intending to be a lawyer) but he's already done work experience, and at that particular place, they don't give a crap about his two lip piercings, tongue and eyebrow (the only facial ones, the ones on his ears are covered by his hair, and there's no way they're gonna see his nipples :D) so is my mom over reacting, since he said that if piercings cause problems in his career, he's more than willing to take them out.
He's a responsible guy, but my mom is almost convinced that he's ''the old man's child'' (i.e son of satan)
What could my dad, my brother and me say to her..? (link)
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Your mom was just shocked to see him
looking different than when he left.
Given a little time I'm sure she will
calm down.
Most lawyers wear suits. That should
cover almost any tattoos. Piercings
are removable when they need to be,
so there really isn't a problem. I
think your brother is smart enough
not to go into a job interview
looking all punked out. Just tell
her to let him be free to express
himself while he has a chance. :)
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I'm a worthless human being. I've been a worthless human being for a pretty long time, but I've just now come to accept it.
I've decided I want to die. However, I'm too much of a coward to go through with it. Perhaps it's the thought of pain, maybe it's the risk of failing at failing.
In any case, whatever some (Relatively) painless and (Relatively) reliable suicide methods, preferabley accessable to the common 20-something who doesn't work in a hospital? (link)
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Edit: I'm sure your no everything attitude
is part of your problem in life. Learn to
listen now and then. I've been on the planet
close to 51 years and haven't fell or knocked
myself off it yet.
I'm sorry you feel you are worthless.
Most who feel they are really aren't.
As has been said there is no painless
way to kill yourself. Even if there
were nobody here would give that advice.
Anyone giving advice that would cause harm
would be booted from the site.
Do more to improve your worthiness, if
you feel it is a problem. Get out there
and care for someone else, make yourself
worthy. Its not impossible to do. :)
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symptoms of concusion (link)
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Symptoms of a concussion include headache, dizziness, loss of consciousness, and a lump, cut, bruise or swelling on the head. Other signs are numbness, nausea, vomiting, mental confusion, or memory problems. You may feel tired, not see clearly, have incoherent or incomprehensible speech, ringing in the ears and have amnesia for the events just prior to the blow.
The symptoms of a concussion may last several minutes to several hours, with more severe, longer-lasing symptoms indicating a more severe brain injury.
If you have had a head injury, please see a doctor.
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I am a mother of 5, with the two youngest being my step children, ages 14 and 12. My husband and I have the children full time with the exception of every other weekend, they spend with their mom. Ok this is the situation. I have been their step mom for ten years.I have watched them grow, have attended school functions, teacher parent conferences, school trips, all althletic functions, etc... The birth mom, we will call suzy, treats the two different. The oldest gets everything she askes for.. from clothes, shopping, weekend trips, etc.. The youngest gets an occasional shirt or small item. She is very angry at her mom and says things like I hate my mom, I hate my sister, my mom loves her more than me, my mom promises me things and never keeps her promises, etc.. I am becoming very concerned with her anger. I have done very well at keeping my mouth shut when it involves their mother. And I want the youngest to have her lime lit, to feel special, etc..However, I do not want to stoop to the level of their mother and include one in something special and not the other... We always include all 5 of our kids, no matter what we do..we always have..I just dont understand how a mother can put one child so much higher than the other...And she is hurting...I always insure her that she is loved just as equal and all the other children we have...But she always poses the question, "why does my mom love ____ more than me." I dont have an answer for her..My advide has always been, I can't answer for your mom, thats something you will have to ask her. Is there any suggestions to help me out in this situation? What more can I do? Am I giving her the wrong advice? Please help....Desperate step mom.... (link)
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I don't know how you can explain this to a 12
year old but I think she will understand.
Their mom wasn't a good mom or dad wouldn't
have custody. Some women are just not mom
material. It wouldn't be talking bad about
their mom for you to explain this to her.
Its just the facts. So if she doesn't know
this already enlighten her in a caring,
"this is just the facts" kind of way.
Since they live with you and their dad,
you basically have the mother role. You
help make the rules they live by, you
help enforce those rules.
This leaves their mom only having to be
their "friend", Spending time with her is
a big slumber party. The 14 year old is now
at the age where mom can try to be the best
friend and confidant. Lets go shopping for
you,lets get you a great outfit to impress
that boy you like kind of thing. Mom is
having fun. She simply has more fun with
the 14 year old right now.
It probably couldn't hurt for your
husband to have a little talk with
his ex. Explain to her that she is
hurting her other daughters feelings
behaving this way. It could be she
doesn't have a clue she's doing it.
Its obvious she doesn't know a thing
about mothering children.
Step parents often get thrown into
the role of feeling like the "bad guy".
I want to tell you to hang in there.
They may not always realize it or tell
you right now, but one day those girls
will know who their real mother was all
these years. Just have to get past those
terrible teen years first. :)
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so i'm going to the obgyn next friday to get birth control, and i am deathly afraid. my mom has basically told me what they do, and i'm not sure if she's just trying to scare me.
so what do they exactly do when you go get a check up to get birth control and is it really painful? (link)
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Here is a site that tells you exactly
what happens at your first pelvic exam.
It also has a lot of other useful
information on it you may want to check
out. Write down any questions you think
you might have before you go in. Being
nervous you may forget. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/pelvic_exams.htm
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I feel so lost. I was working as a cashier 5 months ago and I stole a gift card worth $33 from my job. I am 30 years old and have never gotten in trouble in my life before that. I was arrested in front of my coworkers and humiliated, went to jail, went to court and faced petty theft misdemeanor 1 charges. I got the sentence reduced to M4 disorderly conduct in hopes of not totally ruining my life. I have applied for many jobs and gotten turned down for all. I am getting married in a year, have no money. I have applied for minimum wage jobs and am qualified for much better jobs. I do know that I can get it expunged in 2 years, but how do I live until then?How do I feed my kids? I paid my fines,went to theft course, paid restitution, paying $550 in civil fines. And will be punished for the next 2 years. My life is falling apart for $33.00. Ending it all has entered my mind, I feel worthless!! HELP! (link)
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It would be pretty silly to end your
life for $33 too. Not to mention your
children need you.
Unfortunately you committed a crime.
Embarrassing as it was for you, you
have to move on as best you can. Until
it is off your record you will have
to be very up front and honest with
potential employers. Hard as it will
be for you, don't let them find out
about it while doing a background check.
Tell them about it right up front.
Tell them you know it was wrong, you
won't do anything like it again and
that you have children to feed.
Apply for jobs that don't call for you
to have anything to do with a cash
register. Cooking, secretarial work,
those kinds of things. Go to hospitals,
nursing homes those kinds of places
and see what they have available.
There are lots of non-medical related
jobs to be had in those places.
You have a tough go to be sure, but
you will get by. Good luck. :)
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I have known my friend for about 3 months now. She lives far from me. She is a very cool person. My husband and I are doing things like yard work and having picnics in the evenings. She calls me or texts me even though I tell her ahead of time I'm going to be busy. I also tell her on text and phone whenever she does this that I am busy and I'll talk to her tomorrow.
Also, I can't get on the computer at night to check my e-mail or look up stuff for my husband without her instant messaging me. I put up my away message "busy cant talk right now e-mail me
and I will get back with you asap" It just doesn't help.
She says she has a learning disorder. But, I have not seen any signs of one except her reading that she has one. She says her disorder is the reason she does things like this. Is there such a disorder? Is it just an excuse? What should I do to make her stop? Thanks Bunches
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There are people with OCD
(Obsessive-compulsive disorder)
who might behave this way.
We have a user of this site
who writes us the same questions
over and over again. It can be
really irritating.
If she does have this disorder,
or something like it, there isn't
anything you can do to make her stop.
Its a mental disorder and sometimes
can be controlled with medication.
Unless she is someone you really
want to remain friends with you
will probably just have to stop
answering her calls all together.
You my have to go as far as changing
your phone number or IM sign-on.
She won't stop even if you are
rude to her.
If you want to remain friends
you'll have to simply ignore her
when you don't want to talk to her.
If you're like me, you feel bad for
a person like this. They can get
on your nerves and keep you on edge
constantly though. So don't feel
bad should you decide you don't
need that kind of tension in your
life. :)
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I like this one boy named Irwin in my third period Nutrition and Wellness. He is really cute and i sort of think that he might like me back. I think this because i'll sometimes see him staring in my direction and sometimes look at me. He's a senior and im a junior. I've never talked to him before but i really want to and don't know what to do especially because im really shy. does anybody know what i should do??? (link)
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Start with a simple hi and a smile.
He may be shy too and knowing you
are approachable could make all the
difference in the world.
Ask about something happening in
class. Make it something simple.
Whats our assignment for tomorrow,
for instance. I forgot to write it
down.
Just have to break the ice and you'll
do fine.
If you are interested in more tips,
here is a good search for you to look
through. Good luck! :)
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well it started when i was talkin to her sister and then i started to fall for her sis and how can i deal with it (link)
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You can't help who you fall for.
If you are dating one sister and fall
for another, chances are good that
the one you like will not do anything
about it. She does have to live with
her sister.
The only solution would be to break
up with the one you are dating. IF
you are dating her. Let some time
pass and then ask out the sister
you like. Its ok to talk and be
friends with her in the meantime.
Once the other sister starts caring
for someone else, she probably won't
care if her sister goes out with you.
If you and the other sister are just
friends, just ask the one you like out
and don't worry about it. :)
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