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HIS sex drive died! how can I get it back?
So, i'm like, a sexaholic with my boyfriend, and he used to be the same way, but we've been together for over a year now, and sex has become rare. MAYBE once a month, if i'm lucky. I constantly want it, once i get it i'm good for a day or two, then i want it again. idk if it's because it makes me feel attractive or because he's so good or what it is, but it's driving me NUTS that he doesn't want to do it anymore. he's always too tired or has to work in the morning or is sore or spends all night on his video game and doesn't get off of it till he's ready to pass out. I want him to want me! i've tried sexy dances, sexy clothes, talking sexy, everything! i even bought whipcream and handcuffs..... what can I do to bring his sex drive back? he says it's not a personal issue, no depression, nothing wrong with me, but idk. i don't know what to do.
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Everyone has different sex drives.
It may be that yours is stronger
than his is. As he has said it probably
isn't anything against you.
It could also be that you are being
to aggressive and not letting him be
the one to initiate things. Try backing
off a little and wait for him to approach
you.
If that doesn't help at all, you may
have to re-evaluate the relationship.
Decide if you are compatible sexually.
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no homo but you are very attractive but if you and your boyfriend have been having sex nonstop then i hate to bust your bubble but you need to look deep into that because no boy is just goin to stop gettin some if he has it their it might be a sign that he is cheatin on you let me no what happens when u get this
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in my opinion, this situation may take time.
you guys need to spend more time with eachother doing other things & getting back into the old routine of first relationships. once all those attractions come back, then his sex drive will eventually fire up.
the longer you both go without sex, the more you both will want it.
& maybe next time you guys both agree to have sex, maybe you should ask him what he likes best & what positions are best for him & do everything that HE likes. don't make him do all the work. even if you barely get any pleasure from it, try to make him enjoy it so that he'll realize what he's been missing out on.
:) hope i helped
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Okay,
It sounds to me that maybe you and your boyfriend might have has sex so much it wore him down. He may need a break. You can still kiss him, cuddle with him etc.. but the sex thing might need to hold off at least for a few days! The same thing has happened to me before. Slow things down a little bit ;)
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maybe he is just going through something emotionally, try connecting with him on another level. and ask him if how you feel like the sex is so great, maybe he doesn't. talking here is key.
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