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hey im a new student and i just moved from CA to ND its horrible i got you guys sn from a friend any way i am a new student and im really upset because nobody knows me and they all have there own little cliks and nobody wqants me in theirs

PLEASE HELP

signed,
no friends

ok, just do this
1.act friendly to people
2.ask people if you can sit by them at lunch
3.be nice to EVERYONE
4.dont talk about people
5.DONT start rumors
6.be polite
7.be outgoing
8.give people a big smile in the halls
9.dont judge anyone
10.be YOURSELF

hope that helped and if you need anything else just ask!

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Would it be possible if a 14 yearold boy would like a 12 year old girl? She's sorta developed for her age. Or is it a waste of time?

Friend wanted to know

of course. i mean i might be alittle tough to get his attetion but if she is built good i think she might have a chance!

♥ leah

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My friend.. is on the edge of not being my friend anymore. She's driving me insane. All she ever talks about is how sucky her life is. She hates her parents, car, job, school. She hates everything and is CONSTANTLY complaining about how sucky her life is. She thinks at 18 she's had the hardest life ever. HA! If her life really sucked that bad, she would change it right? No, she just likes to nag. How can I tell my "friend" (in a NICE way) that if she doesnt stop B!tChing than Im going to have to start ditching?

look, your friend is oviously having a tough time in her life right now so you need to be there for her. tell her you love her and your gonna be there for her when she REALLY needs you but you have a life too. tell her that you cant ALWAYS be there to listen to her complain all the time. also tell her to try to look on the bright side of things. you might want to tell her all the good things she has going on for her. dont be mean about it because that just causes problems. i hope i helped and tell me how it works out for you.

♥ leah

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Ok see im 13 and im normal weight for a 13 yr old girl, but it seems like all the boys in my grade are smaller.. i mean literly smaller than me- shorter and less weight. i don't no what the " deal " .

Help so i can undersatnd

ok, im gonna make this short. girls grow faster than boys. they mature faster than them too...mently and phisicly. lol ok i hope that solved it for you!

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There's this guy that I really like, and we're in a couple classes together. The problem is, we never really talked last year. But I'm really shy. How can I get over my shyness and just talk to him, or even say hi? Rate 5's for good answers.

ok, i used to be the SHYEST girl in school but now im the most outgoing person in school so i hope this helps you too.
1.take really deep breaths before talking to someone
2.be friendly to people
3.make a good first impression
4.think of what you are going to say BEFORE you say it
5.try not to studder
6.think of things to talk to him about
i hope that helps!
p.s. tell me how it works out...id like to hear about it!
♥ leah

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can you describe how yur periods supposed to look and feel please im kinda freaked. . .

ok well, you feel all mushy inside and your gonna get cramps right below your stomach. then its gonna feel as if your dripping down there. plus it will feel all wet. and the worst part is you feel like you want to yell at anyone who comes near you. and you can take things WAY out of perportion. i hope i helped! and good luck!

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Forth, as in so on and so forth, is not spelled like this: Fourth. It's spelled like that when you are talking about the fourth grade, for example! Just thought I'd let you know!

OOOOOOOOO sorry lol. i have trouble in spelling. i just ALWAYS have. wow...i feel dumb...ok well, thank you for telling me!

♥ leah

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I am bored out of my mind I've been at the computer for hours mostly because i'm waiting for this guy to sign on but he wont and I have nothing else to do besides this and watching tv im SO bored please give me ideas!!

color
dance to funny songs
call a friend up
sing
put on make up and do your hair
take pics
start a diary
do cartweels or at least try to do one
listen to music and draw how you feel
go to www.gurl.com and play games
go to www.quizilla.com and take fun quizzes
i hope that helps!
♥ leah

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i have been in private school my whole life since pre-k now im going into eight and im a little worried because after this year im going to a public school im a little worried is private school all that differnt from public ps people at my school think im a misfit b/c i dont rly fit in with the whole private school thing so plz help

lol, im going into the eighth grade too but ive always gone to a public school. look, a public school isnt that diffrent except
1.you dont have uniforms
2.the teachers anrt as...formal i guess you could say
3.some schools may be alittle bit more rough.
look, just be yourself and dont try to fit in.
be friendly to everyone and dont start rumers..you'll do just fine.

if you want to know anything else about public schools then just ask me!
♥ leah

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Any ideas or things i could do to meet new people?

1.be friendly
2.dont judge
3.just go up and say hi
4.smile to people
5.talk to them about sports
6.talk to them about teachers
7.be polite
8.dont be mean to anyone
9.be yourself
10.join a club or sport
if you need anything else just ask!
♥ leah

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Is it weird for an African-American girl to say things like "Dude", "Narley", "Hot", etc.?

HECK NO! look, we have rap singers that are white and thats not weird. its not like white people made it up or anything! come on now! dont be racist! im sorry if that sounded rude but im TOTALY against racism!!!!!!!!!!!

come one people! where is your heart?
♥ leah

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sry this is really long but I rate really high!!

well i really fell for this guy over the summer and hes been away at summer camp for like 6 weeks and I was wondering weather or not i should tell him because i dont know if he likes me back and hes rarely online so if i do i have to tell him when hes actually online because i cant call him and then I have another problem, I'm not really allowed to have anything to do with boys both my parents think its crazy to have boyfriends at this age!! im 13/f by the way so i cant be with him if he likes me back, I've had a boyfriend before but i had to sneak calls on my cell phone with him and we never actually went out on a date and i cant talk to my parents about it, i mean my mom is ok but my dad would TOTALLY freak out even if i mentioned boys hes so overprotective in that way!! well I'm really sorry this is so long but i need advice!!

i have a friend that is in that situation. i think you should tell him how you feel. or if your nervous to tell him yourself then have a friend tell him for you. it works for me. and if he likes you back and if he asks you to be his gf then go for it sista. i mean, i know its wrong to lie to your parents but if you dont start living life then your really going to miss out. your only young once right? ok, if he asks you out on a date then dubble with friends. just tell your dad your going with your friend to the movies or something. that way he will think that you and your friend thats a girl are the only ones going. i hope it works out for you bc if i was in that situation i would do the same thing. good luck and feel free to ask any thing else...O and tell me how it works out.

&heart;s leah

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tomorrow i made plans with two of my best friends ... tori and erin to go shopping... and erin put it on her away message... this girl that i REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY (i think you get it) hate (and so do tori and erin)Nicole... saw it and shes like I THINK I'll MEET YOU GUYS AT THE MALL TOMORROW! I dont want to tell her no... what should I do... she will ruin our day ! and please dont say GIVE HER A CHANCE... because believe me... i have given her millions.

i know your NOT going to like this advice but here it is. you only really have two choices. 1. to try to have fun and pretend you like her or 2. dont go shopping. im sory but you have to decide. personaly i wouldnt go because it could be really boring bc of the fact you HATE HATE HATE her. i hope it helped even though it probably didnt and you probably already sending nasty feed back...O WELL!

♥ leah

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this is a very long story... i will give you the short version... i am going into 7th grade.. in 6th grade i started middle school... i only had like 13 friends cuz most of my friends went to a different middle school... well anyway i met this girl that i thought was my friend... but she turned me really really really mean. Down at heart i am nice but i cant help what comes out of my mouth! I met this boy... brendan... i fell for him... very hard... but i was mean to him so he hates me now!!! And it kills me inside... i cant tell you how many times he has made me cry! Well i want to start 7th grade on a clean slate and be nicer to EVERYONE especially brendan... how can i do that?

ok, im going to make this short, sweet, and to the point.

treat people how you would want to be treated.
or if you belive in god then say to your self, wwjd which means what would jesus do? ok i hope that helps a bit.

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ok, i've recently decided to become a vegitarian, but i was wondering is chicken considered meat, or poultry, and is poultry considered meat? so basically can i eat chicken?

yes chicken is considered a meat and vegitarians dont eat chicken. but i strongly sugest that you start off with not eating cows or something. then after awhile stop eating cows and pigs. and so on and so fourth. because wat usualy happens is your gonna quit right away. so just work your way on up. hope it helped

♥ leah

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okay so i started liking this guy who moved back from cali and he knows and everything, i think he likes me back but im on 25% sure he does. what can i do to get his attention more and find out if he likes me...asap!

ill rate 5 no matter what but it has to be serious

smile alot when your around him
wave to him when you see him
always be friendly to him
dont act clingy
put on make up
get a hair cut
paint your nails all diffrent colors
say hi to him
talk to him alot
and i hope i helped!

♥ leah ♥

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ok i have worn uniforms for EIGHT YEARS and im sick of them. WHat can i do to bend the rules but not break them and dress up my uniform .OUr unifrom rules are pretty leniant. I rate high!!

start a protest. get awhole bunch of people together and stand around chanting. or sign a petition. get alot of people who are agaisnt it and give it to the principle.

♥ leah

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Okay! Im 13 and have the oddest fear. I go to bed at like 1 30 AM and than ill go to the bathroom at like 2 and ill go to the bathroom and than go to leave but ill be too scared. So ill end up sleeping in the bathtub!! Its cuz im afraid someones in the house but no one ever is. Is there a way to get over the fear?

i think you need to take a REALLY deep breath. just run into your room as fast as you can. think about something else while your at it. or sing a song in your head as your running. it helped with my fear of the dark *embarased*. but now im better and i hope it helps you.

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a song where theres a car crash and im pretty sure its into a cornfield, but anway the song is about this guy watching his gf die, i think it was rock? well it was sad and quite popular a year or three ago? lol

i think you might be talking about the song reason by hobastank.

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can you masturbate during your period... && this is my first period ever in my whole life...there isnt alot of blood is that normal? what is it like when wou first get it? pleaseeeee hellppp

yes you can masturbate when your on your period but it will probably be somewhat messy. and when you first get your period you get some cramps, not bad ones but you will feel some presure in your stomach. it wont be very heavy your first day or two but it gets heavier. i hope i helped!

♥ leah

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