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i became mean
this is a very long story... i will give you the short version... i am going into 7th grade.. in 6th grade i started middle school... i only had like 13 friends cuz most of my friends went to a different middle school... well anyway i met this girl that i thought was my friend... but she turned me really really really mean. Down at heart i am nice but i cant help what comes out of my mouth! I met this boy... brendan... i fell for him... very hard... but i was mean to him so he hates me now!!! And it kills me inside... i cant tell you how many times he has made me cry! Well i want to start 7th grade on a clean slate and be nicer to EVERYONE especially brendan... how can i do that?
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It seems like you have caught the HABIT of being mean to people. Perhaps criticizing a lot, or saying things that need to be kept in your mind. It's hard getting rid of this habit, because once you start you just keep getting used to it, to the point where sometimes you don't even realize it.
You can start off by getting rid of that friend who was a bad influence on you (if you already haven't). Maybe you should keep quiet a little more, and hang out with people who won't provoke you to say something mean. Hang out with friends who you have nothing to say about because you don't wanna hurt them. I don't know about you, but everytime I start a new year (in school) I tend to stay quiet during the first weeks. You can even go to a school counselor and tell him or her about this. There are many resources to use, and a school counselor is definitely something you should think of. Good luck! Hope I helped
Uniq :)
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Apoligize for how you acted and say you have changed a lot and arent soo mean anymore and say you really wanna be friends but if u dont thats cool. It sounds gay but works
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think about what you say....make sure its something you wouldn't mind if someone said to you...treat others how you would like to be treated...and if you think something will hurt someones feeling...just dont say anything at all
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You are already on the right track to being a better person. You should let people who you feel you've hurt alot in the past know that you are truly sorry and that things will be different from now on. Most people will respect your apology and will to change. Do the same with Brendan. Let him know that the past is the past and that you two have had a rocky one. Simply talk to him, tell him that, and ask him how he feels about a new start between the two of you. He probably feels the same about the way you two treated eachother in the past, and a clean slate is just a short swipe away! Here's to a new start!
-SilentHelper
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ok, im going to make this short, sweet, and to the point.
treat people how you would want to be treated.
or if you belive in god then say to your self, wwjd which means what would jesus do? ok i hope that helps a bit.
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