sun poisioning
not sure. call a doctor.
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I attend an adult ed. program at night. I'm 19, female, and I really (really) like one of my (older,he's 31)teachers. It drives me insane to bottle all of it up inside. My friends say I'm crazy but he does little things to make me wonder, certain things he'll say or the way he'll look at me. Basically I pass his class no matter what, he never expects me to do the work, and I've had people that had no idea say that he was seriously checking me out. Should I try to talk to him, or wait until he's not my teacher anymore. Would it be so morally wrong of me to approach him about it seeing as he's my teacher? I don't know for sure what he feels but I know what I do, and I can't keep a secret anymore.
I would wait until I am out of his class to approach him. Because if this little romance goes bad, so does your grades. You need to focus on doing the work whether he is just going to pass you or not because you need to learn this for your future.
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Hi all i had a misscarriage april last year and ever since we have been trying for a baby but no luck it is a year later now.. i am due my period but am 5 days late i had few cramps that been coming and going and have very sore boobs more then normal but i dont know wat to do i took a test 2 days after i missed but was negative please help me i would like sum advice thankyou..
clairesie. x
It may be too early to check for pregnancy. I am not an expert, but I have heard anecdotal evidence that if you relax you have a better chance at getting pregnant. I know personally someone who couldn't get pregnant, adopted, and then became pregnant. Maybe you should plan a nice getaway for you and your husband. It's really hard emotionally when you have miscarried, so it may even help if you seek some counseling to help you with your loss.
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my behavier in school has always been quit bad..
i carnt sit still for more tahn ten minutes. im also dislexic anyway i over herd the teachers talking about me and they have been writing a kinda diary of me...my english teacher left her diary on the desk and it had written down every thing ido. i dont know why they are doing it,has anyone been in this situation?why are they doing this? i feel like i carnt be myself anymore.has anyone got any idaes?please reply soon xx
In a strange way, they may be trying to help you. They are either using it to figure out how to deal with you, show your parents, or get extra help from a counselor. If you want a better report, start acting better. Try to refocus every time you feel yourself straying.
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http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=304652
That was the first, and the only one I answered. The other two:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=305233
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=305155
I appreciate your help. - K'
Hey K,
They aren't from the same IP but they have multiple accounts, except the first one. It is probably fallout from being on the front page for a day. So it's gonna take me a while to investigate this crap. Gee, at least they could spell their objections a little better.
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Today, I bought a sketch book called, "Fine Art Scratch And Sketch." It wasn't some expensive art book, it was only $12.99. But, it had black coated paper, with a weird pencil ith no lead, and you just scratch the black coating off and it would be really silver, or glittery under the coat of the paper, and I found myself to be very great at this, I love doing it. But, I am almost out of pages, so I needed to know what type of paper this is. Like the actual name so I can look for it at an art store near by. Its black, and you can take anything thats sharp and scratch it off, and its very neat looking, you can make your own pictures on it. Does anyone have any idea what this type of paper is?
I believe it is called scratch paper, and most art supply stores have it. It doesn't always come with a pencil. I thought I saw it at Hobby Lobby if you have one. It is usually near all the other art papers.
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no, you see there's this website that is a myspace thing and he was leaving girls comments that looked like he was flirting but they were inside jokes and i over reacted A LOT and got us into a fight this whole week so he doesnt think i trust him now.. and i have to prove to him that i do trust him.. but idk how to. because i do trust him a lot
That's wasn't really cool of him. He could at least tell you before he starts "faux" flirting with other girls. I think I would have gotten mad too. For goodness sakes, you are a human being with feelings.
I don't know what to tell you other than let it blow over. It's like he wanted you to get mad at him, which is sort of controlling. What was he thinking? He owes you an apology. He is blaming you for a stupid stunt that he did. Not good. So yeah the ball is in his court.
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heyy.. me and my b/f are on a break because he doesnt think that I trust him but I do.. we got in a huge fight and blah blah blah.. How can I prove to him that I do trust him?
Trust is earned. So let me get this straight...he doesn't trust you that you trust him. Ouch my head. Well, are you nagging him to death and calling him every minute of every day just to find out what he is doing? That wouldn't make him feel secure.
All I can think of to say is let him have some time to himself, and when he is ready he will miss you and call back. If not, let him go. If you love him, set him free. I know that it sounds super cheesy, but it's true that he will be back if he misses you. Bringing it up is just going to make things worse.
I hope this helps. If not, feel free to ask again.
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How do you make a guy aquaintance like you again if he's liked you before? Preferably fast, to the point where he's ready to be snatched up and locked in quickly.
He used to like me and I don't know why he stopped. What would catch his interest and lure him in? I think I've gotten a little louder. Do guys like quiet girls? Or girls who are the life of the party? His last gf was really, really quiet and he adored her. He has a gf now so whatever she's like, I have to surpass.
Cause I swear I cannot wait much longer.
Well, the fact that he has a girlfriend now doesn't help your case much. My guy acquaintance kept calling me occasionally and would ask me out to lunch (sometimes dutch, sometimes not). and was just there for me while I was being stupid. I was dating someone else, but he let me know that the lines of communication was open. So eventually we were both freed, and the long story short, we are to be married next year. So don't pester too much, but little notes, short conversations, and meeting for coffee goes a long way. Because eventually you realize the person you are using to stand up straight is the person you need for the rest of your life. Best wishes.
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i belive in no religion and i think i need a purpose in lif. does anyone know a good place for me to find about every religion since there is so many out there.
Have you thought about visiting a few local churches in your area? You most likely will want one close to home anyway. Best wishes on your search.
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For prom saw this awsome dress for my friend that was with me and she bought it the dress was a macys it was a off the sholder black top and a pink ribbion and then a skirt the is black and white pokidottied! I showed my frinds courtney the picture of it and i told her that our friend lexi got it with me she is really lyk emo and it itsh her really well but courtney went out and got it and i dont want this to be it is our 8th grade prom its like the first time we ever get a prom like thing and i dont want the omg she is wearing my dress thing to happen
It really isn't a big deal to wear the same dress. You either take yours back or handle it like a lady. A lady would complement the other on her good taste, and have a nice laugh. And either hang out and start and conversation or move to the other side of the room. This happened to me when I was a 9th grader, but I my "twin" wouldn't come near me. Besides, I filled it out much better and had a great time.
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Along with all three of our mothers, my two cousins and I are all really close too (we're all females). One is 2 years older and the other is 2 years younger. Well, we've always done the "hand-me-down" thing and we've always been right around the same size--all three of us, but still. I would be my cousin's clothes and then my other one would get mine. But my two cousins are both now sharing a room (my youngest one is now living with my older one) but the thing is, she rips up all her clothes and sews them up. But every time my older cousin cleans out her closet, the clothes are supposed to go to ME. And even she agrees with that. Because no 1, I'm the next oldest, and no 2, because I'll wear the clothes as is and I won't tear them up. When I'm done with the clothes, she can have them and then rip them or whatever. But lately she'll go through her clothes before I do, and before telling my older cousin and it pisses me off. I'm supposed to get her clothes next, but she just goes through it. She took a really good pair of jeans (my older one just went into the Navy, so she cleaned out her closet). I've always had my eye on this pair of bootleg jeans that she had. Well, my cousin went through it the other day AFTER my older one said she wanted me to go through it first, because she knew I would wear them as is, and they're my type, well my other one took the pair and now she's going to sew them up (she's a "punk") and she'll ruin them!! God, what should I do, because she ALWAYS does this. The clothes aren't even her type--she'll take them and ruin them to fit her. I'm next in line, not her and its always been that way. What should I do??
Why don't you get a job and avoid this drama altogether? Have you tried asking your cousin nicely about a few specific pieces of clothing that you would like before the would be fashion designer gets a hold of them? Pick your battle. If there are a couple of pieces, then ask for them. Don't sit around being angry already over "stuff". It's all stuff. At least you have something to wear. There are people who have to wear the same shirt everyday of their life. Some choose to do because that's what they want, and some have no choice. And then there's the people whose house catches on fire, and they have absolutely nothing. So deal with it.
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Hi, I'm a 19/f and I've been with my boyfriend for about three years. Instead of just doing things or getting him gifts only on special occasions, I like to be spontaneous and surprise him on a random day "just cause".
Over the period of these three years, I've done a lot like make him crafty cards, cook for him, and etc, but I feel like I'm running short on ideas!
Keep in mind I am on a budget since most of my money is spent for my college tuition and textbooks. What I'd like to ask is if you all have any good ideas on what I could do to surprise him and remind him of how much I love him that is creative and affordable? My target is to get him something that he'll enjoy and that could possibly be useful (it doesn't have to be romantic), because I've given him a lot of love mementos already.
Here are some of his interests if it helps:
-cars
-computers
-video games
-movies
-food (the guy loves to eat)
Thanks!
All these ideas are good. This is the only thing I wanted to add. Slip notes in his car, lunch, favorite shirt. Just little pieces of paper saying I love you help. Rubbing his back is good too.
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ok, i graduated early, woopdy doo and all that but my mom just lost her job and now im doin my best to help out with the bills but im runnin ragged because im also doin all kinds of side jobs like mowin and stuff, but im still having the hardest time getting everything paid, my moms tryin her best and she has found a job, but its gunna be a lil bit cuz she has to take classes first, dude im about to crash, wtf do i do?
Well, the good news is that if you hang on a few months while she takes classes, then thing will get better. People can live on beans and rice. It isn't fun, but it can be done. As long as you are paying on the bills, they cannot doing anything. It takes several months for certain things to be repossessed or any action taken on them. Just keep plugging away knowing you are a credit to your mom by helping her out.
Just take a few minutes for yourself every once in a while. Take a breath. Read an article. Take a walk. A few precious minutes can make all the difference in the world.
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Hi. Yesterday I reported someone for "talking rude" to me in reply to my advice paragraph. Just to make things clear, I saw you had taken care of it and also commented something like, "... Talking rude isn't a crime. Use common sense and ignore these idiots". Well, I didn't make the report because he was talking rude. I made the report, because I felt he was harassing me, and harassing IS a crime. So that's why I decided to take action. So that's what my "common sense" told me.
Thank you for your help.
Ignore him. You really don't need the stress of some idiot who is obviously in here just to entertain themselvces. If you can't take the good and the bad (yes the admittedly really bad) then don't use the site. Good grief. I did ban him, but we can't ban every idiot on the site or I will lose my privileges. I would highly suggest that you pick a few people to ask your question privately if young, mean, trolling, children bother you. Most people aren't rude when it is asked personally.
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My best friend is really rich and she always likes to brag about her $3.2 million mansion and how mine is only worth $1.2 million. I never really had a problem with her being so "Oh mine is better than yours" because shes done it with our cars, our clothes, etc. But its beginning to bug me because she wrote me this really long email about how she went to Hollister Co. and bought $3,000 worth of stuff. She began listing it one by one. 37 logo shirts ($721), 7 pairs of capris ($276)...and she listed it all the way to underwear, flip flops, mini skirts, shorts, bathing suits, and fragrance. Is that just a little too much? Because I think so. See my family is rich, but we like to save our money. But her family, blows it all on stuff they dont really need. Her $3,000 wardrobe will be thrown out when spring/summer is over. The email really bothered me...I'm not jealous. I can go to Hollister and spend a lot of $$ too. But, how can I teach her that money is not everything...and tell her she can save money while still looking great in all the latest fashion and styles?
Volunteer at a homeless shelter. No kidding. It will make you grateful for what you have. And encourage her to donate her wardrobe to a thrift store or some needy family who would be happy to have something fairly new on their backs. It would be more fun if you go together, and ask some people about their lives.
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I have a friend who is heavily into drugs. She isn't doing it to have fun, she is doing it to escape problems in her life. She has had a very difficult life, so it isn't like an emo thing. I am too close to her to help her. I have been through this with her many times. My question is, what can I do to try and get her away from all of the drugs without making her mad at me. Also if there is anything you could suggest, where I could help her, it would be much appreciated. Thank you all so much in advance. This problem has really got me down.
~Nokomis~
Extreme problems need extreme measures. You may have to make her mad to get her to do something. She will not change unless she wants a different life. The best you can do is show her the different life without drugs. You may have to threaten to not be her friend. I would recommend talking to a counselor for further help. Sometimes tough love is the only love in this situation.
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I used to date this boy(we'll call him john doe) for two months. Everyone at school told me a lot of bad things about him. Stuff about how he cheats on his gurlfriends and stuff. I talked to him to get to know him for about 2 weeks. I was straight up w/ him and told him that I wasnt sure if we should hook up b/c of all the things i had heard about him. He told me that they we're true & he did used to do those things, but he really did changed. He told me that it pisses him off when people say that about him b/c a lot of gurls wont date him b/c of it. He's the guy that all the gurls wanna date and he said that they're just jealous b/c he dont want them. Well I started hearing stuff about him the first day we started goin out, but I didnt believe it b/c I trusted him. He seemed really ginuwine when he told me all that stuff about him. 1 month after we got together I was in the hall w/ one of my friends. She was talking to one of her friends that I didnt know at the time. Me and her b/c kool and around lunch she wrote me a note saying I think you're a really kool gurl and I cant tell you love " John Doe " and I know ou would never cheat on him. but he having sex w/ a gurl at school( we'll call her jane doe). I called him cussing and yelling at him for about two hours. He swore to me it wasn't true. I didnt really believe him and he knew it, I told him I was going to trust that he wouldnt do that to me and I let him know that it does make me look at him differently now. Things got worse after that b/c the gurls knew they had got to me and they had me not believing him now. We'd been together for exactly two months when everyone told me that he was going around telling people we didnt go together. Everyone, well a lot of gurls & my friends, told me that he said that, or had heard someone telling people he said that. The whole school was talking about it, so I just assumed it was true. He tried talking to me, but I just ignored him. He asked one of my friends what was wrong and they told him that I said we didnt go together anymore & I did tell her that b/c of what I had heard. He stopped coming to school and went off to job-core. He started dating someone else that went to my school. He came back to huntsville but didnt come back to school. I called him on his birthday to tell him happy b-day & he was surprised that I called him. We talked for a while and we continued to talk. He still goes w/ that other girl, but he says he wants to go back out & that he's gonna break up w/ her. He said that he never said he didnt go w/ me & he tried talking to me, but I wouldnt listen to him. Do you think what everyone says is true or do you think he's telling the truth?
Why do you need this loser? If you don't or can't trust someone, you don't have a relationship. He isn't in school; he is making promises he doesn't intend to fufill. Yeah rumours happen, but sometimes there is a bit of truth. Would you want him dating you and trying to get back with some other former girlfriend? I don't think so. Find someone with a future.
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so i leftmy binder in my dads truck and he read through one of my notebooks...a very private notebook i might add...he read how many guys ive had sex with and diifernt drugs ive tryed and shit like that...he told me this tonight as he pulled it out of his briefcase....and read me all the passages...how should i handle this...cuz hes not handling it too well...:/
There are no rules about privacy when it comes to trying to raise a decent human being. Why not try handling it like an adult? Yeah dad it's true.
Are you more sorry for what you did or that you got caught? He just doesn't want you pregnant, addicted, or in jail. It's never to late to ask for his forgiveness and start out on a new path. You will probably even feel better for it. Maybe have a notebook burning to signal a new beginning.
At least it seems he is willing to talk about it. That would be a good thing.
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how long does it take for leg hair to grow back? I'm 13.
Usually I get prickly in about a week.
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