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i feel like ive been spyed on


Question Posted Monday April 11 2005, 9:06 am

my behavier in school has always been quit bad..
i carnt sit still for more tahn ten minutes. im also dislexic anyway i over herd the teachers talking about me and they have been writing a kinda diary of me...my english teacher left her diary on the desk and it had written down every thing ido. i dont know why they are doing it,has anyone been in this situation?why are they doing this? i feel like i carnt be myself anymore.has anyone got any idaes?please reply soon xx


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grandiosobsessed answered Friday April 15 2005, 12:30 am:
I can totally relate to this situation. Teachers only do things like that because they are concerned about you and want to help you. Teachers don't make a lot of money, so if they are teaching, they must have some sort of dedication to helping people. It is perfectly natural to feel like your privacy has been invaded. There is nothing wrong with wanting to live your own life. It may feel like other people are trying to take over your life. They aren't. They just want to help. You just have to accept it and tell yourself that you can still be yourself even if people are watching you. I would say that you should talk to your teacher(s) about this, but it sounds like you didn't read the diary type thing with their permission and if you were to talk to them about it they may get angry with you for reading it. Keep in mind that they probably feel that you reading things that were not intended for you is an invasion of their privacy.

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SeXoNtheBeAch answered Monday April 11 2005, 6:01 pm:
maybe ur teachers have secret crushes on u and cant stop thinking of u! just keep acting urself or talk to them about it!

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chaos answered Monday April 11 2005, 1:14 pm:
In a strange way, they may be trying to help you. They are either using it to figure out how to deal with you, show your parents, or get extra help from a counselor. If you want a better report, start acting better. Try to refocus every time you feel yourself straying.

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_eMiLy answered Monday April 11 2005, 9:51 am:
They are probably just making a diary on your behavior. Like you said, your behavior isn't the best in the school so they are probably making a diary to later show your parents or something.
They've done that with a few kids in my school that have behavior problems. I guess the only way to stop it is my behaving.
I know it's hard to keep still for all them hours, even I find it hard but it has to be done.
♥Em

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