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"Though its been a while now
I can still feel so much pain
Like a knife that cuts you the wound heals
But the scar, that scar remains..." -Poison, Every Rose Has It's Thorn.




My name's Ammo and I'm here to give any help or advice on anything that I can. :] Firstly, if you were kind enough to come here and read up on me, I thank you.

I've been through a lot when it comes to relationships and life in general. I've seen and heard many things and have always felt it's nice to be able to share my experiences (both good and bad ones) with as many people as I can in the hopes that I can help others not make the mistakes I've made (and sometimes still make). Who knows, maybe there's a lesson or two I can learn from you as well.

I don't really use chat programs much anymore so e-mail would be the best way to get in touch if you wish to chat but if you really need to chat then I am able to do so via Facebook, Yahoo or MSN. I'm a very social person so don't mind anyone wanting to chat. ^_^

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i dont know if this is weird but i love talking to random people. not like, aol chat rooms where you talk for 2 seconds and then someone ims you wanting sex from you but just casual conversation. are there any websites that are safe and let you talk to people your age (16-18years old)??

p.s. i really love talking to foreign people. like from england, ireland or france (i speak some french)

Hi.
I'm a lot like yourself, and also love talking to new and random people, especially those who are from abroad (I'm in England myself).
There are a number of chat rooms and social network web sites which you can join (bebo, myspace, netlog etc) but when it comes to finding a place that's safe and that part could very well be a problem. If you're strong willed and can take some crap from people and know where to draw the line then you should be safe enough from perverts and annoying 'go on cam and strip' and 'send me pictures' people on them. There may be places who offer chat rooms where they are moderated which may also be safe to use (but being harassed by IMs can still be a problem.
Most social network web sites include filters where you can block certain age groups accessing your profile or contacting you and block annoying people which is always a handy thing to know if you're afraid of strange people contacting you.
Be aware though that all this only helps to a certain degree since many people have the tendency to make fake profiles (having studied netlog in particular a fair bit - it happens a lot over there).

Searching for penpal sites in google may give you some results as well.

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do guys know when a girl is a newbie at sex?
ive only had sex once, which was about 2 years ago. and i made a complete idiot out of myself. he told me to get on top, so i did, and i kind of just sat there...i didnt know i had to move around. anyway, it was just embarrassing. so i think thats the reason why i havent had sex again. [ive gotten plently of offers]
i know 'practice makes perfect', but i dont want the second guy im with to know i havent done this in a long time, and that i prolly suck hardcore at it.
hellppp

No one is an instant expert at sex - EVERYONE had to start at the beginning so don't think you're the only one or you made yourself look stupid. Believe me when I tell you whoever you were with probably made themselves look an idiot too at some point. More to the point though don't feel you made yourself look stupid because when it comes to sex everyone is different (I speak from experience). The key to it is commuinication. Both have to know what the other likes and doesn't like and if you're not sure about something don't be afraid to say so. It's not a bad thing to admit you don't know or anything like that. IF the person you're with is going to laugh about it or say your an idiot then clearly you're with a dumbass so kick his ass outta bed and find someone better.

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Well Me and my boyfriend have been dating now for a year & a month. There isint any reason why i shouldnt trust him , but there is a reason why he should'nt me but he does anyways because he says it just makes him feel better and is alot easier to just trust because he would be miserable thinking " what if she's doing this , or what if she's talking to that boy ". Its so hard for me to see him even talking to another girl ; he says he doesnt know how much he can take and im really trying to change its just hard :( Like his friends always go off with my two best friends like to the movies and stuff and [ sometimes ] i cant go with them and his friends want him to go but he always says no because he doesnt want to make me mad & he says he is tired of doing that now & i need to trust him , i mean i know my two best friends would never try anything on his , its just they are both find of the flirting type with out even knowing it. And not being there would just KILL ME , for real ! Just thinking about him actually going with out me hurts but i know he is tired of not having fun just because i cant . He doesnt care if i go with his friends because he trust all of us & i have been to the movies with my friends and his friends with out my boyfriend but that was only because i have no choice , please help .

-Dont sit here and tell me there isint a reason why i shouldnt trust , actually give me ways to learn to trust . Thanks :)

Trust is something that comes with time but being together so long you both still have clear issues with trust.

You both need to sit down and actually talk things out to get to the bottom of this issue because it can be the kind of thing that will cause the relationship to come under a lot of stress - which is clearly what is already happening. First things first you both need to decide where you both stand when it comes to trust. Do you trust each other or not. If you don't then you both have a major problem. If you do then you both need to realise you do have lives away from each other as well. You both have your own friends to hang out with and do stuff with- you cant constantly be around and with each other all the time, you'd only end up driving each other crazy. Both of you will always have some people trying things on regardless - the trust comes from where you both are able to say no thank you I'm happily taken and not let anything happen. Trying to force yourself to trust will not always work either because at the back of your mind your fears will always be there growing until the very smallest things will spark off doubts. You both need to sit down and talk things through.

Sorry I couldnt be much more help than this.

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OMG!!!!! am like DYing[SEriously}! okya my question is:
Whata' is a Heating PAd.... were can i get one?! PLease i really need one!!!!!!!

Heating pads (if these are the ones you are referring to) are pads that look like a thick piece of bandage (hence being called a pad). When applied and used it will emit heat and is very useful on muscle pains where a gentle heat can help the healing process.

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okaaay so heres the story, me and my bf had reggg sex, then anal, then reg sex again in the same daaaay. welll he wore a condom and he sai dhe checked it and it didnt breaaak, but when we were having anal i felt really light headed and dizzzzzy after he stuck it in. then the following weeek my stomache was acting up so i got really sacared and took to pregnancy tests and both came out negaaative..but its been two weeks now and my stomache is really like feels like its pushed out or i get sharp pains in itttt and right under my breast bone? i dont get my period im irregualr ive only gotten it twice in my lifeee and the last time i did was last summmer..i dont get morning sicknesss or anything like that. am i paranoid or could i be pregant? im going to the doctor on monday..do you they do prenancy testing? sorry this is soo lengthy..14/f

Hello.

At a guess the stomach pains could be nothing more than just the after effects of anal (I'm guessing it was the first time you had both tried it).

However, that said I am at a loss to explain the pains right under your breast bone. So the best thing to do would be to consult with your doctor to make sure everything is okay and there's been no damage from the anal sex you had taken part in. I'm not sure if your doctor will conduct the test himself or not but more than likely he will refer you to someone else who will conduct the tests - I am actually uncertain on this but your doctor will certainly be able to help.

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Okay, me & this guy have been friends for a while. Around the end of April we started talking I guess, but we weren't dating or anything. I ended up falling for him pretty hard & I guess I can say I'm in love with him. We were talking until the end of September. He left for basic training then, but last week he sent me a letter. Here's parts of it:

"Hey, I got your letter and your pretty pictures. Thanks. I really like them... You don't have to spend every waking day of Christmas week with me, but I do want to see you. Don't take that the wrong way either because I really don't care if you were at my house everyday I'm home. That would actually be cool, I want you there. I just don't want you to get tired of me. I don't know why you would, you haven't seen me in a while and you said it yourself you miss me. I miss you too though so its okay. One more thing, you can think I was trying to be funny when I said I luz ya, but I really do have love for you because I believe you would do anything you could do for me. I could always tell you had feelings for me and I'm sorry for always ignoring them. Anyways, I just wanted you to know that. I need to go now, write me back soon. Love you"

I'm not really sure what he's trying to say; if he's saying he likes me or what. It's hard to tell! But if anyone can help me out, I'd appreciate it a lot. Thanks guys. :)

Hi.

From the sounds of it, it seems he realised only after he had left that he should have said somehting or done something about how he felt about you and how you felt about him because he knew you liked him.

However, playing devils advocate there is something he wrote in the letter which made me uneasy, "I believe you would do anything you could do for me..."

I'm not sure if that's simply him saying how much he thought you like/love him or if he's using reverse psychology to put into your head that you'd do anything for him ecause of how much you love him. The only reason this stood out so much is because it sounded like he was trying to convince you of this more than he was himself and with him coming back soon AND you visiting him soon at his... could it simply be a way for him to get into your head, have his fun with you while he's visiting and that's it? Would also fit, considering he only admits he knew you like dhim and how he regrets not doing something about it so close to coming back and seeing you again.

As I said I'm only playing devils advicate so I could very well be wrong.

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14/f
this year has been the worst/best year of my life.
its been the worst year of my life because my step dad went to jail got out was getting better from drugs, got his bond revoked.we got evicted.my (brothers dad considered my real dad)dad moved away.moved back.my brothers got something wrong with him (like adhd or something) i lost my job that i absolutely loved where i got to meet some of the best people you could ever meet. and then one of the guys who basicly became family died.:'(
all my mom & (not real dad)dads friends keep dying or getting sick.And my real dad keeps coming in and out of my life,now i havent talked to him in about 5 years. i was about one when he first left and ive only talked to him for about 2 years of my life. when i need him the most he isnt there but when i dont need him he shows up.

the best part of my life is my b/f.he has been amazing and hes the only reason i havent screwed my life up. (cutting,partying,smoking,etc.)
but lately ive been SO stressed thinking about it all,getting in some trouble at home and school,crying for no reason,starting fights and ending them because i dont want to fight anymore.

i want to relax so bad. but i dont know how.i try to stop thinking about it so i can relax but its always on my mind even when im trying to forget it, every little thing helps it come back too.

the only time i find myself not thinking about it is when im in my boyfriends arms and all i can think about is me & him.:'( and i know he is tired of hearing me cry and being upset. and i cant be in his arms and forget about it all, all the time.
What can i do to relax?
something to calm my nerves?
Something to make me not start fights between me and my boyfriend? I dont want to cry anymore. and i dont want him to hear me cry anymore. what should i do?
I dont think i can handle this all.im only fourteen.no one should have to go through this.and i know there are kids out there going through worse. its horrible.i hate it.

What should i do?
sorry this is so long. thanks in advance.
~*~Michelle~*~

Hi.

Like you said, there are people out there going through a lot worse but that said - it still doesn't make it okay that you are having to go through it.

Life can deal us some funny cards sometimes. I myself have had a very troubling year as well with a lot of tragedy in the family and can't wait to put the year past me.

It seems you have a lot going on in your life and it's starting to take its toll on you stress wise which in itself is never a good thing. I think first and foremost you may want to consider counselling. Your school should have someone available who you can talk to (speak to one of your teachers who you feel you can talk to about it when you have a moment with her alone and ask about wanting to see the school counseller). They will be able to help you put in touch with the counseller (unless they have an in-school office in which case just go see them directly) and they will be able to listen to you and try to help you deal with all these things that are happening.

There are other ways you can also try to get rid of stress but this will depend on what you like doing. I found martial arts to help as well as meditation. You could read or better yet write - it gives you the chance to put your feelings to paper and express them. There's a many number of things that can help but I would strongly advise that you seek help from your school counseller first and foremost as they might be able to help you a lot more than you trying to deal with so much stress on your own.

Good luck and I'm sorry I couldn't give more details but I've to get to my class. :( I hope things will all work out for you sooner rather than later. Feel free to message should you need to talk though.

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I've known this guy in my school for awhile now. We're not really friends but we've been in classes and what not. I do not have feelings towards him at all, but there's a few things I noticed. During classes, he completely ignored me. Not saying I particulary noticed that, but we just didn't pay attention to each other. Randomly, this year especially [even though I noticed it a bit before], whenever I pass him in the hallway, there's always eye contact not on purpose. I don't mean to look his way but if I'm just looking around while I'm walking down the hall, I'll see him with other people & look at them too, but notice that I'll accidently look at him directly in the eye and he does it too. I'm not saying "Oh does he like me!" because like I said, I don't like him. I'm just curious why this is. Does anyone have any ideas/opinions on situations like these? I wouldn't have thought anything about it, but it's almost every day. For example, if I'm doing something & turn around & turn my head, I'm staring right at him & he sees me & then turns his head & keeps walking. It could just be coincidence & for no apparent reason, but it happened too many times. It's just weird & I was just wondering if anyone had any opinions on it. Thanks!

Hi.

It's hard to say what it could mean so it could be he finds you interesting or likes you (although ignoring you in class wouldn't seem right if that was the case) but then it could just be nothing but coincidence because if someone looks my way my initial reaction is to look back and look them in the eyes. This will generally cause people to look away (even I do). It could just be coincidence but on the other hand it could be any number of other things too.
Personally though I think it may just be down to coincidence - at least for now.

As for the title of this question which I found to be unrelated to the actual question, I don't hold looks in very high regard myself BUT saying that looks do play an important role. Unless you find someone attractive you wouldn't look at them let alone want to persue them to make something come of it. So looks become an important part unless you're involved with someone who you've never before actually seen. When someone had said beauty is in the eye of the beholder they were very right. Each individual has their own version and outlook on what 'beauty' means to them. Your definition of it might be completely different to mine so where you find one person very attractive I may not. Although many say looks mean nothing to them I find it hard to believe that someone can become involved in a relationship where they have no physical attraction to the person at all.

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I simply cannot trust my boyfriend. and now this friday i will not be in town and god only knows what he is going to do. he has a crush on his best girl friend and he says he doesnt. he has cheated on me already and lies. but i havent broken up with him. we have been together a year and we decided that we are going to start over and now the next couple of weeks i am not going to see him every second of everyday because i have other things i have to do. and i am afraid. afraid of being hurt my this man that i am in love with. he is going to hang out with his best girl friend without me, everyday. i dont know what to do. how do i get past this and not care so much about what he does? I JUST DO NOT WANT TO CARE ANYMORE, I DO NOT WANT TO CRY EVERYDAY BECAUSE I KNOW HE HAS OTHER THOUGHTS THAN ME. HOW DO I JUST LET WHATEVER HAPPENS HAPPENS AND BE HAPPY IN THE MEAN TIME? in conclusion, how can i stop caring about someone i love?

First and foremost if you feel you have no trust in this relationship then I will be quite plain and straightforward in saying this is may well be a dead end relationship. When you lose trust in your partner it becomes close to impossible to be able to trust them fully again. Every moment they are not with you you'll find yourself wondering what they are doing or if they might be doing something behind your back. Then when they tell you what they were up to you begin to question their honestly becaue if they lied before how could everything they are saying not also be a lie?

Trying to ignore it will also not help you because you will always have it floating around in the back of your head driving you crazy and as i said before even if you ask him about it and he says nothing happened you will then start wondering if he could be lying about it.

As for stopping caring for someone you love - you can't. The only way I learned to was to give myself time to heal and get over it and move on. It took a long time too but I think I made it eventually. There's no switch you can throw to just turn your emotions off Im afraid. it doesn't work that way. :(

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okay so im on my second week of the second pack of ortho tryclen lo, and ive been having unprotected sex(but he pulls out) since the 11th day of the 1st pack, now i have two questions,once im done with the first pack, am i protected right away or do i have to wait 7 days again?, and my second question is, i want him to start "going" inside me, what is the chance of getting pregnant?

A couple of friends of mine have also had the same experience as babiigirl mentioned. No formof protection out there is 100% safe. The pill is obviously very reliable but willnot guarantee that you won't get pregnant.

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What would be the best method for piercing my own tongue web.
I know you're gonna say it's stupid and self piercing is bad.

I have quite a lot of experience in self piercing. I use gloves, make everything sterile and also use proper needles.

I haven't found much information about this piercing, but I love it.

I can't afford to go to a proper place, and I prefer self piercing.

Don't ''give advice'' if you're gonna say something like it's stupid!! Ewww Don't do it yourself.. etc.
Those don't answer my question.

I've also not been able to find much information regarding this piercing but judging on the location of where it is (and the risk if it's misplaced being dangerous to the sublingual salivatory glands) it seems it really wouldn't be very easy to do yourself.

If you are looking for reliable information and you just HAVE to do it yourself then I strongly suggest speaking to a professional piercer to get all the information you need from them as well as details on aftercare (considering where the piercing is located the aftercare involved would be a lot more complicated) and you need reliable and accurate details on this and not bits of information from questionable sources.

Let me be very clear here too... I'm NOT saying don't do it yourself because if you feel confident you can safely do it then by all means do so but since information is very limited on the net on this I just suggest speaking to a professional about the details you require or checking up on a reliable piercers web site.

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Hey!, I'm Ashley. I'm 16.
i've known my this boy Henry for almost three years. He is friends with some of my best guy friends. We flirted on and off for about two years but never went out because we hardly saw each other. This past summer Henry started hanging out with my neighbor and best friend Ryan who i've known my entire life. This put him closer and we saw each other more and more. Then he asked me out and we were dating for two and a half months. we recently took a break but now we both want to get back together but Ryan now likes me as more than a friend and is jealous of Henry. When ever he can he tries to separate us, and tells me lies about Henry. He advises me not to take him back. I only see Ryan as a friend so I don't have feelings for him but I don't want to lose him either. I feel that he will get very angry is Henry and I start up again as a couple. I don't know what to do.. advice please? :)

thanks so much-
Ashley

Hi Ashley.

I think to be totally honest in some ways you've already lost Ryan as a friend at least in the sense of what he was before because he is lying to you about things and such in the hopes you will now go out with him instead of get back together with Henry.

I think firstly you, and no-one, should have to choose between a friendship and the person they want to be with purely over jealousy - which is what this is. If you really do like Henry and want to get back together with him then i think you should do. At the end of the day if you don't just because you're afraid how Ryan will feel or react you are giving into his tantrum and in effect putting your own life on hold simply because he cannot accept the truth. You shouldn't have to do this especially since you only see him as a friend. Talk to him and tell him you only see him as a friend and nothing more. If you are going to get back with Henry then dont lie to him and then let him decide what he wants to do from there. It might just be it's painful for him to see you with Henry in which case just give him some time and he will soon get over it.

Under no circumstances though should you not do what you want to do simply because you don't want to make Ryan angry or mad at you. He is being manipulative by using his friendship with you to sway your decision on what to do when it comes to Henry (like him saying not to take him back). If Henry had treated you bad or just dumped you out the blue and such i can understand why he may not like you seeing him again but if none of this is the case then his opinions on what you should do are simply biased.

Good luck.

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This is really frustrating me.... Everytime I try to buy clothes on IMVU, the page doesn't load all the way, and it's just blank, but at the top it says "IMVU - Processing" then the load bar, would either be blank, or just stay half way loaded. Next to the loading bar, it says "SSL Secured (128 Bit)". Why is this, and what can I do to make this work? I have promo credits, and there's no use for the credits, or IMVU if I can't buy anything =\

Thanks! :]

The IMVU web site is very, VERY laggy as well as their chat messenger which is even more laggy due to the bandwidth it eats up. When you buy something do your credits actually drop, does it charge you but not give you the stuff? If yes then you will need to email IMVU drectly for support or post a message on their forums for help on this but before doing that I would also suggest loading up IMVU messenger and then having a look in the list to see if your new clothes have appeared in the list there. If not try refreshing the list and check again - if still nothing then do as I suggested above.

If the credit are not being taken off your account because the page gets stuck before you even get that far then one suggestion I have is to close the IMVU messenger before rying to buy stuff since it eats away very harshly at your bandwidth. If that still doesn't work you will either need to just wait it out and try again a bit later (could be the server is under strain from so many people on there) or you may need to post a message on their forums about the problem to see if they have a solution or fix.

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ok srry if its long... ok so i like my best guy friend and he is seriously my best guy friend...he tells me stuff that he doesnt tell his friends..and he used 2 go out with my best friend but she broke up with up with him. .and i just found out a couple months ago that i have feelings 4 him and like i asked him if he wanted 2 go with me and a couple friends and he said that that would be cool and i said cool and my soon to-be uncle asked him on aim if i asked him out what would he say and he said he would probably say no because were just really really good friends but he said yes when i asked him 2 the movies even though i no its not a real date or anything...anyways later that nite on aim my soon 2 be uncle asked him if he thought i was pretty and he said that i was and then my uncle said i thought u didnt like her and he said i dont but she is pretty...but idk wat 2 do about any thing anymore plus im getting a cold that i dont want because i want 2 go 2 the movies with him plus were getting our report cards this week and i no im gonna get grounded because i have"D" in english but i wanna go 2 the movies because of him and because im getting surgery next monday on the 19th on my knee and i wont be able 2 go any where..oh yeah and he said that he was definitly gonna call me as soon as i get out of surgery...(when were on aim he gives me a winking smiley everytime 1 of us is about 2 log of)....but i think hes giving me mixed signals... and since im sitting out of gym once hes done gettin his gym clothes on he always comes and sit next 2 me and when gyms over he always comes and sit by me until its time 2 go then he just walks me 2 my locker or my next class.....

thanx in advance!!

Hello.

I think it might actually be that you're looking far too deeply into things (the little things) he is doing.

He might have lied to your soon to be uncle about liking you but if you think he has no reason to lie to your uncle then it may just be how he feels and that he doesn't want anything to get in the way of the friendship. I've had really close friendships where we've done pretty much what you said and a lot more to the point everyone was asking if we were going out and if we're not why ain't we becuase we seem to get along so well. But the truth of the matter was we were both really close as friends we also didn't want anything to spoil that (when her new bf came along it did but that's a whole new story).

Firstly, don't worry about the cinema thing, just wait and see what happens becuase it sounds like there's a lot of things that may prevent you going but if you can't I'm sure you both will work something out (rent a movie and stay in at yours after your surgery or somehting like that).

Reason I had said you're probably looking into things too much is because it could very well be he is just being friendly since you both are really close friends. Sitting with you to chat till either of you have to go or saying that you're pretty (I think all my friends are pretty but I wouldn't go out with them or anything) and just all these things could be nothing but stuff friends do and nothing more but I will say that he was uncertain in his answer to your uncle. He said he 'probably' wouldn't and probably doesn't really mean no. So what I will say is by all means see where and how things go but take it easy as well and it might just be he's a little uncertain yet but may soon decide to change his mind. ;)

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Okay I move way too fast with guys. I don't think I'm a slut because I don't go out with that many guys I'm kind of picky. I'm in this relationship with this really great guy and we have been together for 9 now and on the 7th month we had sex on the 8th month we did four play (hand jobs,fingering etc)and oral. he doesn't have a problem but i do is that bad?????

I think overall if you feel you have a oroblem with it then you shouldn't have to do it. At the end of the day the guy is not going out with you for the sex he is with you becuase he likes you and wanbts to be with you. If he is with you just for the sex then it's a guy you don't need to be with - you deserve better than that.

If you feel what you are doing is not right then by all means stop. When you feel it is the right time it'll happen in its own time. But in any relationship sex should never be the focus of the relationship. If it is then its not really a relationship.

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I have a router and i have a wirless internet adapter thing. Whenever i connect to the wireless internet a message comes up saying it's unsecure. Now i know you need a WEP key, but i'm not sure how to get/make one!

If anyone knows, please help!

If it helps, my router is branded D-Link.

Thanks in advance!

Kronix

Hi. Try the following site and see if it is of some help:

http://www.techduke.com/2007/05/18/how-to-encrypt-your-wireless-connection-on-d-link-wep-key/

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I have sex quite often with the same person,we've done it mannnnny times.
Tonight i was on my period and he knew that but still wanted to do it.
So i didnt mind,so we started to do it and he pulled out with blood all over his dick
He ofcourse got extremly grossed out and ran in the shower and obviously wanted me to leave.
I'm scared that ,just that will change things forever.
Do you think that things will go back to normal? or Do you think he's that grossed out that he'll never wanna do it again?

I just have to double what Elle2619 said. He knew exactly what he was getting himself into so I don't see how this can be your fault at all. It seems he let his sex drive get the better of him and he's now paying for it. Certainly not your fault at all. And to be completely honest I've been in the same place as him and I knew exactly what I was also getting myself into yet it didn't phase me It all depends on the person and he may just not be so good being around blood as most people aren't. Let him chill out and calm down and things will be just fine - don't worry. For things to change simply becuase of this experience would seem very, very strange because I personally don't think it's all that big a deal. At least not enough that it would put him off sex completely or for it to cause any problems with your relationship - especially since he was the one who wanted to do it knowing you were on your period.

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so me and my bf have been going out since the begining of summer and i dont like him anymore how do i tell him that??

I guess it depends on what it is you want to do. Are you looking to end things completely with him because you just plain don't like him anymore or are you looking to try and fix things between you and him? If you are looking to try and fix things then you should sit down with him and explain that something is missing between you both (the spark maybe) and that you both need to talk about it. Try and figure out what it is that's wrong because I can't advise you on how to fix something (nor can you yourself fix something) if you don't know what it is that's broken.

On the other hand if you are looking to just plain end the relationship then I would suggest probably doing so in person (unless he's prone to get violent) and just explaining to him (pretty much what I said above) that the spark has faded and you're ot sure you feel the same anymore about him. Just be honest with him and tell him how you feel. When it comes to something like this it's all about speaking from the heart and explaining how you feel.

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I have an extremely high resting heart rate. The average heart rate is around 100 beats per minute mine is always between 180 and 192. I'm 5'5 and 132 lbs with a body fat percentage of 23. I'm not over weight so that can't be the problem. My blood pressure is 64/92, I believe that's low. My uncle is a nurse and he said I'm on the verge of a heart attack. I'm going to the doctor soon, but does anyone know what could be wrong with me? I'm really concerned.

To be honest, considering your uncle is a nurse, he would be the best person to ask this question to. Many things can have the same symptoms so in effect it could be any number of things (or it could be nothing at all) but there wouldn't really be any real way to tell without testing... at least that is what I believe. I think a visit to your doctor as soon as you can would certainly be a wise choice as he/she may be able to get to the bottom of it and be able to tell you what's going on. Try not to panic yourself or anything in the meantime though since doing so would also not do yourself any good. If you are worried though I would suggest ringing up your doctor and explaining your situation (and the readings you have taken) and asking them to advise you over the phone on what you should do and what's going on. I know that most doctors require you to make an apointment which can be a pain when you have to wait a week or so before they will see you (by which time you're already better anyway!) but if you ring you can explain that you are very concerned and didn't want to wait until you had got in to see them (if your apointment isn't on the same day you call that is).

I do hope though that it's nothing at all and you're fine. Do keep me posted if you can as it would be nice to know.

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was the the juce named Tropicana called that cause it was made in the tropics? i looked for it but i cant find it. lol its extra credit in my class cause we were wondering about that.

mm that juice was tastey. now im thirsty.

My guess would be that it was called Tropicana because the drink is made up of tropical fruits. It was the only conclusion that I could come to after doing a search all over the net and not turning up anything.

Got me thirsty too now...

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