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i need a guys and a girls point of veiw!!!!! HELP!!!!
ok srry if its long... ok so i like my best guy friend and he is seriously my best guy friend...he tells me stuff that he doesnt tell his friends..and he used 2 go out with my best friend but she broke up with up with him. .and i just found out a couple months ago that i have feelings 4 him and like i asked him if he wanted 2 go with me and a couple friends and he said that that would be cool and i said cool and my soon to-be uncle asked him on aim if i asked him out what would he say and he said he would probably say no because were just really really good friends but he said yes when i asked him 2 the movies even though i no its not a real date or anything...anyways later that nite on aim my soon 2 be uncle asked him if he thought i was pretty and he said that i was and then my uncle said i thought u didnt like her and he said i dont but she is pretty...but idk wat 2 do about any thing anymore plus im getting a cold that i dont want because i want 2 go 2 the movies with him plus were getting our report cards this week and i no im gonna get grounded because i have"D" in english but i wanna go 2 the movies because of him and because im getting surgery next monday on the 19th on my knee and i wont be able 2 go any where..oh yeah and he said that he was definitly gonna call me as soon as i get out of surgery...(when were on aim he gives me a winking smiley everytime 1 of us is about 2 log of)....but i think hes giving me mixed signals... and since im sitting out of gym once hes done gettin his gym clothes on he always comes and sit next 2 me and when gyms over he always comes and sit by me until its time 2 go then he just walks me 2 my locker or my next class.....
thanx in advance!!
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You know really he might really like you and not tell you and he definitely will not tell your soon to be uncle because he know's that your soon to be uncle will tell you and either he is playing had to get or he's smart because you see how great yall are together as best friends well he might not want to risk yall's relationship as best friends and yea he might feel the same way that you do but he just doesnt want to lose you as a very close friend while risking that if yall do get together and then yall were so close that it really messes up yall realtionship as friends But you i really feel that if you can sit down with him alone and talk to him and if it comes to yall going out just take it slow and im telling you right now dont let people tell you that you will never last together because if you keep communicateing and take it nice and slow or how ever you feel yall would like to go. So just sit him down and ask him go for it.
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I think it might actually be that you're looking far too deeply into things (the little things) he is doing.
He might have lied to your soon to be uncle about liking you but if you think he has no reason to lie to your uncle then it may just be how he feels and that he doesn't want anything to get in the way of the friendship. I've had really close friendships where we've done pretty much what you said and a lot more to the point everyone was asking if we were going out and if we're not why ain't we becuase we seem to get along so well. But the truth of the matter was we were both really close as friends we also didn't want anything to spoil that (when her new bf came along it did but that's a whole new story).
Firstly, don't worry about the cinema thing, just wait and see what happens becuase it sounds like there's a lot of things that may prevent you going but if you can't I'm sure you both will work something out (rent a movie and stay in at yours after your surgery or somehting like that).
Reason I had said you're probably looking into things too much is because it could very well be he is just being friendly since you both are really close friends. Sitting with you to chat till either of you have to go or saying that you're pretty (I think all my friends are pretty but I wouldn't go out with them or anything) and just all these things could be nothing but stuff friends do and nothing more but I will say that he was uncertain in his answer to your uncle. He said he 'probably' wouldn't and probably doesn't really mean no. So what I will say is by all means see where and how things go but take it easy as well and it might just be he's a little uncertain yet but may soon decide to change his mind. ;)
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