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sex help
do guys know when a girl is a newbie at sex?
ive only had sex once, which was about 2 years ago. and i made a complete idiot out of myself. he told me to get on top, so i did, and i kind of just sat there...i didnt know i had to move around. anyway, it was just embarrassing. so i think thats the reason why i havent had sex again. [ive gotten plently of offers]
i know 'practice makes perfect', but i dont want the second guy im with to know i havent done this in a long time, and that i prolly suck hardcore at it.
hellppp
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sex isn't something you're born as a natural at.
it takes time & effort, and you have to have a partner who understands that & is willing to help show you what feels good & what positions are best.
you should research around on the internet for tips & tricks on how to turn a guy on.
if a guy is insanely horny before you have sex, then no matter what you do during the sex, it's going to feel amazing to him.
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Everyone's first time is akward so don't feel bad. You have nothing to be ashamed of. However if you want your sex life to be better I'd get to know the partner your doing it with. Wether you guys are dating or not is besides the point. Point is however that you to do feel comfortable enough with eachother. Get to know eachother as friends first. Don't just jump into bed with somebody. Have floor play first; have him feel you up or perform oral on you. That way things will be less akward for you and him, because whether or not he wants to admit it, I'm positive it's akward for him. And for the record, unless he asks you if your a virgan, he won't be able to tell. Hope I helped.
xoxo,
dottie4
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No one is an instant expert at sex - EVERYONE had to start at the beginning so don't think you're the only one or you made yourself look stupid. Believe me when I tell you whoever you were with probably made themselves look an idiot too at some point. More to the point though don't feel you made yourself look stupid because when it comes to sex everyone is different (I speak from experience). The key to it is commuinication. Both have to know what the other likes and doesn't like and if you're not sure about something don't be afraid to say so. It's not a bad thing to admit you don't know or anything like that. IF the person you're with is going to laugh about it or say your an idiot then clearly you're with a dumbass so kick his ass outta bed and find someone better.
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