18/f here-does anyone know a really good deoderant to use? Not for smell, but to greatly reduce sweating? I have to change my shirts all day because they keep getting wet, it's gross and embarassing. And if no one has found one off the shelf, is a prescription one expensive, do you have to see a doctor (no insurance) or just ask a pharmacist? Deoderants I've tried are secret platinum soft solid, and adidas smart technology. And botox would be too expensive (it's supposed to stop excessive sweating). thanks guys.
Well I use Sure anti-perspirent which is quite good and stops most of the sweat. I've heard another good one is Mitchum-it's very strong. If things don't stop then maybe you should check it out with a doctor or ask at a pharmacy.
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UGH!! everyday before cheerleadin i always put on loads of deorderant on!! and i put perfume on...but my stunt group is always complaining about someone having B.O.! and i think they are all saying its me!! but i dan never smell anything when they say it smells...and i dont get how it could be me cuz i wear sooo much deoderant and sweet pea perfume. UGH!! its getting soo aggravating....does anyone know of any really good deorderant!!??? and fast!!??
If you don't smell anything, how can you be sure it's you? Just always make sure you wear deodrant and you'll be fine. Good ones are Sure, Dove and Mitchum.
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Ok here is my problem!!...
There is this guy i like.. Lets call him rascal..
He brings me to school everyday and takes me home when he has time. He offers to do this 4 me!! IDK y tho. I like him A LOT!!! he knows that too. But today he asked me to go to the Mt. Pleasant Halloween Parade to watch him. Im going anyways because my little sister is a cheerleader and shes in it too. But anyways.. Does this sound like he likes me? Or what the heck is goin on?
He also told me that hes gonna make sure i c him in the firetruck!! Should i be scared or not?
Then this weekend we're going to this party for halloween. Do you think anything special will happen? I hope.. I like him very much!!
We text messege each other all day while hes in tech. and while i have freshman classes.
What should i do?
Signed..
Alf Alfinator
Yeah he likes you..definatly. It's ok to be a little scared, you obviously like the guy so that's only natural. He wouldn't have asked you to come if he didn't want you there would he? Calm down, he likes you, you like him...good can only come out of the situation.
Alf Alfinator? Could have sworn you were Christine...
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Okay, so i was going out with this boy for a 2 months. i loved him so much and i still do! but my friends were really mean to him and stuff and so i dumped him because i thought it would just be better for him and everyone else since they like hated him. but then i found out that they didn't really hate him they just like him. But i dumped him before that and then he got really mad at me. Was it right to dump him in the first place? sorry this is long and i hope that made sense!
No, you weren't right to dump him. My friends never like my boyfriends, it's just them being over protectitive because they care about me. I had to learn to work things out so I made sure I didn't forget them and try and get them to like Jon. You should always always always put friends first but you shouldn't have dumped him. Having said that, they were wrong to say they hated him. Try explaining this to your ex, hopefully he will understand and take you back. If not, then leave it and let him cool down.
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yesterday i had sex with mi bf.we have had sex b4 but we hadnt ad sex in about 3 months.he is quite big.it hurt when he entered me and after we finished the condom has split and the end had came off n gone inside me,im not worried about bein pregnant because i am on the pill but this mornin i went to the toilet and the condom came out and i was bleedin like it was mi period.i had mi period like a week ago so i dnt no y this is happenin.please can someone explain this too me.thanx.
It's probably fine. He probably just injured you a little when he entered you. The condom came out so there's no risk of infection but if you're really worried then maybe you should see a doctor. Plus, if the condom split you may be at risk of STI's so you might want to see your doctor anyways to get that checked out.
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Hey everybody!
I asked this question before and I really got some good answers, and some had me thinkin. So i am going to be more specific.
I am a 14yr old boy who likes girls (typical). But just over the summer i knew i was bi. right now in october i still like other
boys and i have a crush on one too! however i still like girls as in
emotionally and socially, but i like boys for all 3 emotional, social, and sexually. i would still go with a girl, but i prefer a boy because it's something diffrent. i think i know i'm gay but i still need to know if i should just be completly gay and forget girls!?!
You don't just BE gay. If you haven't forgotten girls yet then you can't make yourself. That's like me waking up in the morning and saying: 'Today I will like peppers.' It's never going to happen. Over time maybe your feelings will change, right now, just go with your heart and what you think is right.
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Are any of you vegetarians? If you are, what are your reasons for becoming one?
I'm not a vegetarian but my friend is. The reason she is one is beacause she was brought up that way and she's never eaten meat in her life-with the exception of chicken flavour crisps. Personally, I think being a vegetarian is pointless because that is what animals were originally here for, for us to eat and use their skins and bones etc.
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Ok, I'm a 16 year old girl and I've got this really great friend who happens to be a guy. We've been friends for a really long time and he lives right next door to me. Since the Homecoming dance was coming up, I asked him to the dance without thinking. (he's the only guy friend who I know that I'd have a good time with and we've gone to the past couple years' dances together so it seemed only natural that we'd go together again) He agreed to go with me so I thought that everything was ok... so we went and had a great time as always. Nothing interesting happened (we are JUST friends afterall) Later, I found out that he was planning to ask his secret crush out to the dance and now I feel really bad because I hadn't considered this when asking him to the dance. I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW HE HAD A SECRET CRUSH! Now he refuses to talk to me and won't even let me have half of the pictures from the dance. What do you suggest that I do? I can't take back going to the dance because it's already happened and now his crush hates me!
Oh dear. This is a tricky situation. But although you might not have thought, he isn't being entirely fair. If he didn't want to go with you, he should have just said, he also shouldn't have gone with you THEN tell you he was mad at you. Do you know who his crush is? If you do, then talk to her, tell her you didn't realise and you are sorry. Also, talk to the guy himself and tell him that you're sorry but you didn't know he had a crush and you would have understood if he had just told you he couldn't go with you. If he doesn't understand this and still dislikes you, then there really is nothing you can do. He is being selfish and unfair to blame this on you when you didn't know and although things are changing, he still shouldn't have let you go with him if he didn't want to.
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I have a problem wit mi boyfriend.we have been goin out for like a month or 2 now. we dont talk or kall each other n wen we hang out we always talk o one of or other friends that r there.we go to the same skool n always see each other in the hall n everything.n i think dat he doesnt like at all.wut should i do. plz help me.......
Arrange to meet up outside of school. Go to the movies, shopping, pizza or have him come around your house or something. Plus, you should call him!!! If you start calling him it might encourage him to call you more. I had a friend who went out with a guy for 3 weeks. They only had 2 conversations the entire time. The second one was to break up with each other. Please don't end up like that, save it before it gets worse. :)
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hi everybody! hehe. okay, so how exactly do you get strech marks? and how can you get ride of them (without buying any products)? please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
xokatie
When you're growing, the skin streches, leaving silvery/grey marks on the skin. It also happens during pregnancy. There isn't really a remedy for them except waiting. Over time, the marks will fade until they are barely noticable. Don't worry though, almost everyone gets them at some point (although I think girls get them more.) and they're nothing to be concerned about. Hope I helped ;)
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ok my friend thinks she may be pregnant because her stomach is really warm, and the smell of food makes her sick and shes ALWAYS hungry. She has had her period but shes still scared and she also told me she is taking a depression medication called lortex (i think) and she doesnt know if its because of that or if shes prgnant and shes too scared to ask her parents! Please help asap! Thanks!
Well I read that it is possible to be pregnant and still get a period. Just to make sure, get a home pregnancy test.
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my friend knows guys for liek 1 day and she'll have huge crushes on them...i tried to tell her you don't really liek them sooo much if youve only known them for one day but she is just like..yeah i do so how else and i convince her to get to kno the guy before she crushes on him?
Honey, people work in different ways. Some people DO have crushes after just a day, some people don't. You can try to talk with her but the chances are you can't change her.
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hi im 13/f and my mom still wont let me babysit. its rlly embarrasing bc i am 13 but she thinks im not "matture" enough. i feel like im being treated like a baby. how do i get her to let me start babysitting so tht i dont hav to hav a babysitter? thanx ~steph~
I know how you feel. I'm 13 and my parents wont let me either. It's all very well talking to her about it but you need to actually show her you're mature enough. Clean around the house, don't argue with her, do what you're asked the first time and don't stay out late. In time she will see that you are mature enough to look after children.
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i took a girl on a first date with a girl and she is a sophmore and i am a freshman. she made me pick the movie and i accidently picked a blood and guts movie. she said she liked it and i asked her the next day for a second date and she said yes. do you think this is a second date out of pitty?
Give her the benefit of the doubt. If that was me and I didn't enjoy a movie, I wouldn't get rid of the guy if I really liked him. Plus, I wouldn't arrange another date if I didn't like him either. You never know, she might enjoy that kind of movie. So arrange to see her again and see how things go.
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hey! i was putting all these cool codes and stuff on my site and now it took off all the advice!!! if u want to look at it my names sunset_roo18 thanks!!
No, if you click on 'advice column' once you get on your column then you'll find your advice. It's all a little mixed up though. When you first go on the column, it goes to 'feedback' and when you click 'advice column' a thing comes up saying 'thanks for coming' when you're not even leaving. I suggest you take off the little pop up messages, it can be very annoying and distracts people from what they're on the column for. Also, your font is very hard to read, you might want to make it a bit darker. hope that helped a little ;)
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this is to all the girls is it norrmal to masterbate, if i dont am i weird, i mean is it like the guys if u dont jack off ur gay
If you want to, then that's fine. Sure many girls do, but it's totally up to you.
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I hate life sometimes. I really wonder if i should just run away or kill myself. Why do i hate it so much, i'm only 12 and want to die. I don't cut and do shit like that but i'm so lost and dead. What should i do?
You want to die? Imagine if you did, how do you think that would make your friends and family and people who care for you feel? You wouldn't solve any problems by killing yourself, you'll just create them. And as for running away? You can't run away from problems honey. You just need a more positive outlook on life. The next time you feel down, SMILE. It is a proven fact that when you smile, your body thinks you are in a good mood and makes you happier. (something to do with hormones.) Think about all the good things in your life, there are people who care about you and love you out there. Life is such a great thing, think how lucky you are to be alive. You know that some people are dying and you're not, you're so lucky. Be positive and in time, you wont have these thoughts anymore. Try seeing a guidence counciller or something to help you get back on track. Also, spend as much time as you can getting out and having fun with friends/family etc to take your mind off stuff. Hope that helped, stay happy. xxx
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ok, i asked a question on naming my pups a few days ago and now im back.... theyre all girls. one of them is brown and ive named that one brownie. the rest is four black ones....with a few brown or gray spots here and there...two are really fat and two are pretty chubby. what should i name them? thanx
Pudding, Coco, Muffin and Gateau. Hehe, cake puppies!!
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If anyone has Internet Explorer, please help me..
You know how you click the arrow on the right side of the address bar, and all the sites you've recently been to show up?? Well how do you clear it? My friend told me how to "Clear the History" on it, but I forget and I forget who told me. But if anyone knows please tell me, thanks!!
1) Go onto internet explorer
2) Click on 'Tools'
3) Click internet options
4) Near the end of the box that comes up is a button which says: 'Clear History' Next to that is a box where you can set how many days you want windows to keep visited sites in the history for. Change the number to 0.
5) Finally, just click on the clear history button and away we go!!
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To all the guys: why is it that you like girls/ what is it that makes you ask them out?
i think right now i just need to know that not all guys are shallow.
Well I'm not a boy but this is what a few of my friends who are said:
(Thanks Tom, Dan and Jon!)
-If they don't know the person and they just see them then looks first cause they have nothing else to judge them on.
-If they already know them then it's personality, like their sense of humour, opinians, etc.
-It helps if they are intelligent, they don't like dating a bimbo. Also if they just have something special that makes them different, you know what I mean? Like, a certain sparkiness.
Hope that helped :)
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