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Was it right?
Okay, so i was going out with this boy for a 2 months. i loved him so much and i still do! but my friends were really mean to him and stuff and so i dumped him because i thought it would just be better for him and everyone else since they like hated him. but then i found out that they didn't really hate him they just like him. But i dumped him before that and then he got really mad at me. Was it right to dump him in the first place? sorry this is long and i hope that made sense!
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well technically no.. i mean you should have talked to him first about it and see if it DID bother him about how your freinds were treating him.. but don't grunt over that because it's in the past and there's nothing you can do to change it right? so right now.. tell him that you were just scared he was getting hurt becuse of you.. which would just makes you feel so dreadful and terrible if it was true that you wer hurting him (gotta add in some sweet melo drama to make him feel bad for being angry lol). and ask him if you two can give it another shot and that you still ike him and that you hope that he stil likes you. goodluck
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Okay, if you really loved the guy and he did nothing wrong you should have listened to your heart and not your friends. Sometimes what friends say or do can really screw up a relationship... trust me I've had tons of problems with that. If you still love him explain the situation and admit you were wrong. Hopefully if he's as great as you say he is he will understand. I really hope it Helped u can email me if you need anything else! Karenh71061@yahoo.com thanks! :)
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Hey look i no how that is i mean im a guy and pletty of ghurls hav done that i mean like if u give him time 2 really think he will see that u mean alot 2 him i mean i no that ghurl that dumped me ment alot 2 me and iv leared alot from that and that was last year but yah were friends now but she never really liked me but i hope it works out wit u 2 well ok
always
Me
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hey hey! i think u should talk to him about this, and see what his point of view is..i think he'll understand if u talk it through :) i mean, i dont think it was ur fault when u dumped him because u didnt know that ur friends didnt hate him, and u had no idea til afterwards that they liked him..so no thats not ur fault, but just sit down and talk to him about this and maybe u guys can go out again!! :) well, i hope i helped!!! if u want, u can IM me...RachBayb08
much <3, good luck!!
~*rachel*~
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No, You really liked him and it shouldnt matter what other people think about him or the relationship. If you still love him then tell him why you broke up and see if he understands. He is going to be mad. But if he loves you then he will understand. Tell your friends that you dont want them bad-mouthing people you like or anyone for that matter! I hope I helped!
~***Hannah***~
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No, you weren't right to dump him. My friends never like my boyfriends, it's just them being over protectitive because they care about me. I had to learn to work things out so I made sure I didn't forget them and try and get them to like Jon. You should always always always put friends first but you shouldn't have dumped him. Having said that, they were wrong to say they hated him. Try explaining this to your ex, hopefully he will understand and take you back. If not, then leave it and let him cool down.
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you dumped a guy you loved cause your friends hated him??
I mean what kind of friends make people do that?
Of course they liked him..they were JEALOUS!
All you can do is apologize and wait and see. It is up to him to forgive you.
Lesson learned...any friend who is NOT happy for you..is not a friend.
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well it wasn't your fault in the first place all your friends peer pressured you into it and you ended up dumping him. the only thing you did wrong was listen to your friends and not your heart. so what im saying is you were right to dump him because your friends hated him (not really) and he should be through that type of discomfort and hummiliation, but if you still like him and hes fine with going out again do it. you never know when some one forgives you until you redo what was once real. well i hope i helped you.
-viva la raza
_translated- the race lives
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yes if they were rlly tht mean. i think if u explain it to him he'd understand and maybe take u bck. u nvr did anything wrong, it was ur friends, they shouldnt have been so mean. talk to ur friends and tell them how u feel. hope i helped ~steph~
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