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y do girls stereotype guys so much? I mean, we may think about "stuff" some of the time, but girls always jus automatically assume thats wat guys r thinking about 24/7. And u also always assume that in a relationship, the guy is always wanting one thing and he will always make the first moves towards it. And another thing that bothers me is y girls are such feminist. ok, back then guys were thought to be superior to girls, but now days we r equal. however, lots of girls are always arguing how they have to go through so much pain, or how they have to endure so many more hardships. it really annoys me. And also, y is it always sexist if a guy does something or says something to a girl, but no one cares if a girl does or says something about a guy? i mean, a male teacher can favor guys and not pay much attention to girls, and automatically he is sexist and fired....but a female or male teacher can favor girls, and no one cares b/c no one thinks that is sexist except the guys who are on the short end of the stick. i jus want to know y.

Not all girls sterotype guys. Including me. Some do because they may have dated a guy who treated them badly and that has made them dislike guys. Some girls are just like that. As for the sexism thing...well...boys are generally stronger than girls and girls are usually more sensitive. That's why when a guy hits a girl or treats her like dirt then it's frowned on more than if a girl did that to a guy.

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does anyone know a website that can help me with translating french to english?!...or if there is anyone on this website that can help me!!

http://www.freetranslation.com/

On the translator, in the yop left hand corner there will be a box that says 'english to spanish.' scroll down until you get to 'english to french.' Then just type whatever you want translating and hit 'free translation.'

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Well, i'm having some problems. I talked about a sorta-friend behind thier back and they heard about it and got really upset, and now im in the middle of a big mess. Help?

Okay. So as you might have worked out...this situation if your fault. The only thing you can do is apologise. After that, it's their choice whether they choose to stay friends with you.

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Ok I accidently forgot my password to on of my emails (I know i'm dumb!) but now I really need to get in to it!! I have a saved email from a while ago that has important info about applying to University, and I don't know where else I can get it from!!! So does anyone know a way to "hack" into your own hotmail account?? I have sat around trying to figure out my password but icant!! someone please help!

Click 'help.' then forgotten password. It'll guide you through the steps.

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I really need some advice :(.... I'm trying so hard to get over my X boyfriend that i had for 9 months, and he was my first love but every1 says i need to move on. So i have a new boyfriend but i don't know if i can give my heart to my new boyfriend because im still stuck on my X... but it doesnt work out with him so its so hard!! ... please help :`(

You need to be true to yourself. Is it really fair to stay with this other guy if you still love your ex? No. Exactly. So you know what you do? You break up with your current boyfriend and you don't get a new one until you are fully and totally over your ex. I don't know how old you are but seeing as your ex was your first love I'm guessing you're somewhere in your teens (correct me if I'm wrong.) You will probably fall in love again and again until you find the right guy. Just get out and spend lots of time with friends. Eventually you will stop thinking about your ex and be able to move on.

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ok im 13/f and lik everone i no has a boyfriend, and like im ok with that cept lik i need a boy in my life, and so where do i start? ive never had a bf before. i mean all the boys r cute and jerky or just not my type

Ok. I really don't believe that 'everyone' you know has a boyfriend. If that's true, then maybe you don't know enough people. Sure, I'm 13/f and I have a boyfriend but that doesn't mean 'everyone' has. In fact, none of my friends do. You can't just decide that you want a boyfriend. You don't just wake up one morning and say: "I know, today I'm going to get a boyfriend!" Life doesn't work like that. If you don't like any boys right now, chances are you haven't met the right one just yet. Sooner or later you will probably hook up with someone but don't beat yourself up about not having one this second. And don't give me all that crap about 'I need a man in my life.' Once you get your boyfriend, you'll probably find yourself more miserable then you were to start with.

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How would be the best way to get trust as a Guy? Girls think all we want is ya know!!!! 17 male

Act sensitive and don't try anything on too soon. Talk to them more instead of just making out with them all the time.

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i LUV cuttin up big shirts n makin them tight n cute like bows down the side but i almost always do the same thing with the bows n im soo tired of it.does nyone kno anythin else thatll b cute to do to shirts? ill rate u a fvive if u answer! thnx

Oooh! Well....this idea is kind of similar to the bows but not the same. Instead of putting bows down the side, have different coloured buttons. You can get really nice shaped/coloured ones quite cheaply at most places.

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i just got my period any advice on pads, tampons
ill apreciate any advice!! ill rate!

Well. If you've just started, it's best to use pads but tampons are way better and you should get into using them as soon as you can. Always ultra pads are good because they have wings which make sure that the pad is even firmer in place. A good tampon brand is tampax because you can choose either applicator or non applicator tampons. Non applicators are harder to insert though and applicators have a cardboard outer tube which makes them really easy to use.

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okkay i have this weird prob..i have a habit of biting the inside of my mouth..and i really wanna stop but its such a habit!! ne1 tips?
thanks!!

I do that all the time!! It's really bad and it can result in mouth cancer. Chew on other things like gum or something. Or have a sweet that you suck and keep it in your mouth for a long time.

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actually noodles isnt that good for you...

good point. having said that...they are pretty tasty ;)oh and not to be a killjoy but you don't say: noodles ISN'T that good for you, you say noodles AREN'T that good for you.

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Ok i guess this isnt really a definite true answer to this question but rather ur opinion. What is True LOVE?

true love is knowing someone. not knowing them as in you know things about them but knowing them as in...it's hard to explain. it's an emotion, a feeling kind of thing.

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My best friend is dating this guy that my entire group of friends can't stand. This guy has NO personality. Plus, he's mean to people. Do we say something to her or let her figure it out? (they've been dating for almost a YEAR!)

Look. Sorry to be rude but if they have been dating for a year, then she obviously likes him. I know what it's like to have all your friends hate your boyfriend and it's really not nice. Let your friend date the guy, if he turns out to be a jerk then be there to comfort her. Don't break them up.

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I'm 13 years old and a girl, and I'm about 4'1'', and i think 77 lbs. is this average or what? And also, is there anything I can do to help myself grow faster? or 'mature'? I'm not very large chested; I'm about a 32AA, and fairly skinny.
thanks
-short stuff

Well. I'm 13, 4"10 and I weigh 97lbs. Yeah, I'm fairly short compared to most of my friends but I'll grow. The same goes to you, some people just mature faster than others. Relax, you're fine.

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Hey, I have a gf, and she says she loves me, and we have been going out for about a week. The only times she says "I love you" is on the computer. I even say it when we are in person and she doesn't say it back... she has told me her feelings and she says she really loves me, and she is like crazy about me, but my question is: How come she won't say it back?

I never say 'I love you' to my boyfriend in person. He knows I do and I know he loves me, we're both too scared to say it in person. You too have only been together for a week. Give it some time and let everything get settled and hopefully she'll start to say she loves you back.

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Okay how do I change my user name because I really want to have a new nickname for my column. PLZ tell me how!!!!!!PLZ!

You can't. If you're really that bothered, you can start from scratch and make a new column but I don't think you're really supposed to do that.

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sometimes, my armpits sweat for no apparent reason. I dont even have to run around..and they start to sweat...it leaves these horrible sweat marks underneath my armpits and i dont even want to raise my aroms up...does any one have any ideas on how to stop this??? Oh yeah, and they even sweat when it is cold out!!!

You could try a strong anti persperiant. They are better than deodrant as they are designed to actually stop the sweat. Most of them don't prevent all of it but they reduce it by quite a lot. You might want to try out a few different brands to see which one suits you best.

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my boy friend is always calling my bf a bitch..shes like awsome though and i tell him not to call her that infront of me..but he still does..what do i do?

My boyfriend is exactly the same. He's really rude about all my friends. You just have to ignore it and blank the comments about your friends. Everyone is entitled to their own opinian and that's obviously just the way he feels. Maybe you could start insulting his friends to see if that changes his attitude. OR you could confront him again and tell him that you don't like what he says about your friends and that it hurts you.

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ok so i really want a thong badly, but i have alot of problems
1. what if you have your period
2. my mom wont let me she thinks im not old enough yet, but im almost in high school
3. my friends tease me about it how i am not
wearing one
4. i dont want to sneak a thong in my bedroom i would feel so guilty
what should i do

Well I had the same problem. Talk to your mum and tell her that alot of your friends wear them. Compromise with her and ask if you can have, say 3 thongs to start off with so you wont wear them all the time. You can wear thongs on your period, I know I do - but you gotta wear tampons. As for the friends thing, if you follow my advice, it wont be a problem anymore. Besides, if they tease you, that's your problem.

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Why is giving others mean advice actually considered ***FUN***, yes, it's not a typo, some people considers it fun. However sick and disgusting that is, I would like to know why?

Because they are bored, because they live boring and sheltered lives.

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