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my boy friend is always calling my bf a bitch..shes like awsome though and i tell him not to call her that infront of me..but he still does..what do i do?
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you should always pick friends over b/f's tell him to stop or tell him it's over
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My boyfriend is exactly the same. He's really rude about all my friends. You just have to ignore it and blank the comments about your friends. Everyone is entitled to their own opinian and that's obviously just the way he feels. Maybe you could start insulting his friends to see if that changes his attitude. OR you could confront him again and tell him that you don't like what he says about your friends and that it hurts you.
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You should tell him that it really bothers you and your friend also when he calls her a bitch. If he does this, there has to be some certain reason as to why he's doing it. If he continues to call her a bitch around you, then you should think about whether you should be going out with your boyfriend or not. Your boyfriend should be able to get along with your friends. If he can't get along with your friends, then he's not a good boyfriend. Well, I hope I helped you out! If you have anymore questions for me, just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try to answer any questions that you might have for me. Bye hun!
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ha .. i have the same exact problem. if your boyfriend is anything like mine then he's stubborn and is going to do what he pleases. my boyfriend cannot stand my best friend and he says the meanest things but in front of her he's sweet as pie. unfortunately all you can do is talk to him about it. tell him how you feel. let him know she's your best friend she's going to be in your life and he needs to respect that and get over his immature reasons as to why he does not like her. i don't necessarily think it's anything to break up with your boyfriend about. especially if you and your boyfriend have been together awhile. hopefully he'll just be understanding and cool it off a bit.
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try calmly to tell him to stop again. Then if that doesn't work, tell him if he doesn't stop dissing ur friend, then it's over. Friends are more important then guys.
Hope i helped!
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he dosnt get along w/ ur girls he aint worth your time!!!!!
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aw thats mean! that's not a very good boyfriend. if you say you dont want him to do it in front of you he shouldnt!.. talk to him
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i say tell him to cut the shit n grow up or as me n my friends say...chicks over dicks!
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maybe u can talk to him...tell him how cool she can be maybe u guys can all hang out more and let him get to no her more and see wut happenes! good luck!
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ok gurlie...if you really want your boyfriend to respect your friend then you need to talk to him about it instead of just letting it go on like this. you know what i mean?
love ya
~sammie~
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Ask him why he is calling her that and tell him to grow up! If he still continues, stay away from him for a couple of days so that he knows you are being serious... I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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you should just tell you boiifriend to just stop calling your friend a bitch because its your freind you don't want your friend and you boyfreind not friends. So if you tell your boyfriend then he SHOULD understand because if he is a true boiifriend he should understand. And tell him you don't like it how he calls her that. The last thing you migth wanna do is force him to do things i don't reallt think people like to be forced to just try to tell him how you feel.
Hope we helped and we hope it gose ok,
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why doesnt he like her? well if he doesnt like her you cant force him to but just tell him to keep his rude comments to himself n if he doesnt...den it shows what kinda person he is...
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If he <i>does</i> continue..just keep telling him to stop! Raise your tone in your voice, so he knows you are serious. Or maybe ask him why he's calling her that. Talk to him, and if worse comes to worse, break up with him. Friends are SO much better than boyfriends :) Good luck
lAter :P
casey
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Tell him if he doesn't appreciate who your friends are then you don't want to appreciate him anymore and if he does it again say you'll dump him. He'll probably stop in fear of losing you! =c) Hope I helped!
<blink>Love, racheL</blink>
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Well, even though you said that you have told him not to call her that in fron t of that..you should really try and put your foot down and expressed to him that he should never say that about not just your best friend- but any girl. You need to tell him how it makes you feel and what you think when he says that. Also, tell him you would like him to apologize to your friend and you, or at least stop for good. Give him a few days or so to do this-if he fails to do so..I say ditch him if y'all aren't that comitted because he obviously doesn't respect you or your friend orvalue what you have to say. Stand up for what is right! :)
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