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My boyfriend has just gone away for just three days!Even so,I'm already missing him as if he had gone a year ago,or as if he had gone for a year,I cannot focus on my things,I'm thinking about him all the time,I'm going mad,it's not normal,what can I do till he comes back to hug me and kiss me?thanks:)

It's really difficult to be separated from someone you love so much. Remember that your boyfriend loves you too, and thinks about you and misses you when he's not with you. Write him a letter about how much he means to you and everything you feel while he's gone, and give it to him when he returns. He'll be very touched! I know what you mean that you can't focus, and think about him all the time. It's totally normal. I felt that too when my boyfriend wasn't with me. Try distracting yourself by watching TV or reading a novel, etc. Good luck :)

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I am trying to run at LEAST one mile a day. Usually two. I also have summer swim team practice for an hour 2-3 times a week and a meet every Saturday. I've been drinking 80 ounces of water a day and eating very healthy. No junk, lots of veggies and fruits.
I have lost 3 pounds so far and want to lose at least ten more. How long do you think it will take? Sorry, so impatient and want to see results in my body already.

Everyone's body works differently, so you can't really know. But if you continue dieting and exercise, you will not only get into great shape, but you'll really see an improvement in the way you feel. Filling yourself up with lean protein builds up muscle, which revs up your metabolism, making you lose weight faster. Good luck :)

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I'm live in Canada. So a while ago I asked a question on this site about how to tell a guy how i feel about him and everything.. Someone said to message him on facebook to tell him that i like him and how I feel about him and everything.. But I really confused on what to say! Any ideas?

You can start off with something light, like hey! I was just thinking of you, and see how he replies. Don't start off with the heavy stuff. He might feel really uncomfortable. Good luck :)

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I had a boyfriend of 2 years but he was acting like a jerk and if 18 and still doesn't have a car or a job so we broke up cause he was stressing me out. it wasn't a bad break up and we still are kinda more than friends. the problem is i have another guy. me and this guy have been friends for so long but i just started liking him like that. idk what to do because i still like my ex but really like this guy. i cant keep having them both but i'm worried about screwing up with my ex cause i occasionally think about dating him again if he gets it together...what should i do?

Try making a list of the pros and cons of dating your ex and the pros and cons of dating the new guy, and see which one outweighs the other. Think who makes you feel truly happy and cared for. Who can you be yourself with more? That's what matters most. Good luck :)

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hi i'm a 17 year old female, about to be 18 in july. my boyfriend is 18, turning 19. anyways, we've had quite the past where before he was really very bad to me, lying all the time talking to other girls. but now everything is better (that happened over a year ago). but i can't seem to get over the trust issue, i try really hard but i can't help it that little things make me upset and i easily get jealous. he's in the marines so i never get to see him, and i get a little worried when he goes out to the bars with his friends, and i worry his friends will talk him into going to the club since that's something they all like to do. i'm more worried about girls going after him, than him going after someone else, but still. okay, so i kind of like to know who he's friends with on facebook, and this is my problem currently...but he added a girl i didn't like so i asked him to delete her, so he did, there was no problem. but then she magically appeared on his friends again...so i got a little ticked off, cause obviously he approved this, and i asked if he could remove her again, so he did. but now he's hiding his friends from me.. is it because i'm too controlling? or is he hiding things from me? i don't care that he has girl friends, it just depends on the girl, like some random girl i wouldn't be okay with, or a slut that i know of, or a girl who has a history of trying to ruin our relationship (she happens to fall in the last two categories) i just don't want to push him away, but i'm curious as to why he did this? i want to ask him but i don't want him to get pissy. we're usually really open, and we've been together almost 2 years now. thank you for your help! sorry for the length haha

I believe you should have a frank talk with him about your concerns. I would be mistrustful too if my boyfriend had cheated in the past, it's totally normal. If this girl freaks you out, let him know that, and he shouldn't be hanging out with her if it causes you so much pain. Good luck :)

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Alright well my boyfriend or fiance I should say, has dedicated a few songs to me, so I need some for him and I need a good nickname for him too, his nickname for me is "Boo" and he wants me to come up with a nickname for him, but I can't think of a good one that suits him...
we've been together for about 8 months now btw

He's real sweet, he's understanding, he's caring, he's funny, romantic, very athletic, just plain out amazing :3, tall, has brown eyes, brown hair and his eyes sparkle whenever he sees me :) oh and he's 15 almost 16..

Can you think of a word you say to him that lights up his eyes and makes him laugh? That would be perfect for a nickname :)

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Ok so I broke up with this guy, lets call him brendan. So I broke up with brendan a couple months ago because I got pressured by this other guy... =/ Brendan is so sweet and funny and nice and cute and totally the perfect package. (Note: I wont use the guy's real names) Anyways, this guy uhm call him Ryan pressured me to break up with brendan and then he asked me out and I said yes =( I broke up with Ryan after realizing what a jerk he is (only lasted a week) Its been 3 months since I broke up with Ryan. Yesterday, we went to Canadas Wonderland for a band trip. Brendan is in band but Ryan isnt. I've always liked brendan and we've come to be good friends. I flirt with him occasionally, he flirts back =) After playing 3 songs at this band thing we got to go on all the rides at 1pm and had to meet back at 6pm. Me and my friend decided to ask Brendan and one of his friends that she likes to be in our group. They said sure and so we ate lunch then went back to the bus to get our band instruments. After we played our instruments, we went to the bus to drop off our instruments and then get clothes to change in to. We went to the bath rooms to get changed and we told Brendan and his friend to meet us outside after. They both ditched... =( I was SO pissed off!!! After at 6, I saw him and went over to him and said "Your such a ditcher!" On the bus he walked by and smiled and I said, "I've never seen more of an asshole to ditch someone" His friend didnt feel well so me and Sydney had to switch spots and surprise surprise, it was behind brendan... He turned around and said "Im sorry for ditching, why was it so important to you that I was there anyways?" and I said "if you knew then you would understand" Brendan:"You like me dont you" Me:"how did you know" Brendan:"its obvious" Then I wore his hat for the rest of the 3 hour drive back home. He asked Sydney for a pen then started writing hand notes to me saying, "I dont know if I can do this again, if you liked me then you shouldnt have broken up with me in the first place" ANd I said, "I know, Im so freaking stupid. I understand..." and then we got home and he leans over to me and whispers into my ear "What I miss the most is your hugs" and I almost started crying. TOday, his friend comes over to me and he says " DO you like brendan?" me:" what makes you think that?" him:"he told me everything, he likes you too" and yeahh. ADVICE? All of this is overwelming. My other friend Emily told Brendan the real reason I broke up with him. So um opinions? I dont know what to do! HELP!!

Brendan is a wonderful guy, who is willing to give you a second chance, and I believe you should grab it with both hands. Tell him exactly what happened, and how sorry you are, and also how grateful you are to him for giving you a second chance. Good luck! Hope it works out for both of you :)

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I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months, and he's amazing... He is very respectful, funny, so caring, and absolutely selfless. He does everything for me. I have a prince charming. But I'm selfish.
I've always been a very depressed person, and lately I am so off and on. He gives me everything, and I'm never happy. I always bitch and get jealous and freak... and I just feel horrible. He stays by my side no matter what but I am so close with just breaking it off because I know I shouldn't treat him this way.

The fact that you are looking to change this situation shows that you are not selfish, you are hurting. You are a wonderful person, and you deserve this wonderful boy, but you need to get help for your depression, so that you are yourself again. The way you act under depression isn't you. When you're not so depressed, try to explain to your boyfriend that you don't mean to act that way, and you would never ever want to hurt him. Saying "I'm selfish" and "I just feel horrible" is an oxymoron, and I hope you realize that. If you were selfish, you wouldn't care about hurting him. Good luck, and don't break it off! You are both very lucky to have each other :)

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I'm 13 years old. Nobody understands me. I hate life for many reasons, and think of how I could end it the most painless way. I can not help but think that death is the only way to get out of my situations. I feel as though if I don't care what's happening in my life than no one else should. I think about what I would say if I were to follow through with ending everything. I just hate the lies I hear every day. I hate the harassment and judgement I have to bare with every day. The only true reason why I don't kill myself is because I couldn't do that to my family. My dad told me that if I was to ever need to do anything he'd want to just think I ran away with a friend and I'm safe and not have to identify my corpse and have a funeral for his child he couldn't image that. I almost feel that is selfish. My mom offered me counseling but I didn't want it and now I just want help and she won't listen. I am the ugliest girl at my school and spends the weekends by myself. I must sound as though I through a pity party for myself to others but they just don't know what I go though. I don't know what to do to just be happy, can anyone help me? I tried actually socializing but I felt fake for I had to put on an act as though I'm having fun, when in all actuality I am in misery. Someone please help me.

This situation sounds very familiar to me. It's true, life isn't always all bliss, but life can be wonderful. Please go get help for your suicidal feelings. You are a wonderful person, and if someone doesn't like because of the way you look, they don't deserve you. You shouldn't feel forced to live, you should want to live and love your life. It is possible to be happy again. I'm a living breathing example of it. I used to be suicidal all the time, and my family was the only reason I didn't kill myself, but now I'm so happy I didn't. You deserve the best life you can have, and wonderful caring friends, who love you no matter what. I'm sure you'd prefer that to death. Your life is really really harsh right now, but remember that it's only temporary, and if you go get help, and work hard to combat the despair, you are going to be really happy again. You are so young, and shouldn't be dealing with this. No one should. Fight until you reclaim your place in this world, at the very top, because that's where you belong. Don't let those losers bring you down. Good luck and I hope you feel better soon :)

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How far can I go after beating depression? Is there still hope for someone after facing that to ever be really successful? I'm 18 btw. I know it's stupid but my perfectionism and depression have caused my time in high school to just be a downward spiral. I'm going to community college in the Fall, but I'm planning on transferring after 1-2 years to a good university and etc.

But I just feel defeated already. I'm trying hard to focus on the present instead of only seeing the end point, reaching my dreams, getting up to my PhD, getting in relationship (never have), and getting a good job. But I don't even know if it's possible when I've messed up like this. It's like, I'm very hard working and meticulous when I'm focused, but when I'm not it's easy for me to procrastinate. You know, the whole perfectionism thing (I need to learn how to just be a high achiever, and accept my mistakes in the past and etc but I don't know how to not constantly feel ashamed of myself), except I'm mainly facing the downsides of perfectionism right now. Please help, I know it's pathetic but I don't feel comfortable around anyone else to share such personal things, so here I am asking strangers on Y!A. I've started going to a therapist (a bit too late, though) but I only see her once a week. I just have so much to get off my chest and nobody to tell that I feel comfortable to tell, cause I'm afraid of them using my insecurities against me or just criticizing me for things I already criticize myself for

It is definitely possible to be really successful after depression. I've suffered from awful depression and suicidal thoughts, and several near attempts, and I'm bipolar, and my life is slowly turning out to be what I've always dreamed of. My dreams are coming true even faster than I thought they would. So yes, with hard work, and proper skills on how to make the best of who you are, you can go as far as you dream. Don't ever give up on yourself, and don't let anyone bring you down. You are a queen, and should be treated like one. Good luck :)

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I know what you think oh how stupid she want to kill het self... But if you where in my place you would have done it long befor now...
I can't say the country but let's say I am from country (A) but I grow up in country (B)... I had a lot of dreams and I worked hard so hard studied up all night to go to the best universty... But the country(a) and (b) got in a war so country (b) took my father and we don't know where they put him and my mom left me my bro and my sis to go out and try to help... but she did not for 4 years but after 4 years we meet my mom onther country that is (c) we stayed there for 1 year and then came to other country that is Sweden and we asked for help here but they said no you can't stay here go back to country (b) now my mom is about to go crazy and I am not Going to school also my sister and we don't know what to do if we go back to any of the countrys we will get killed like my dad... I don't know what to do all I am thinking about is killing my self... Pls help... You don't have to tell me a way out but keep me alive till I get a way out...:'(

I'm really sorry that you are going through so much pain. Always remember that you are really brave, and you are going to fight this. It's good that you want to stay alive. That shows that you can see beneath the pain. Believe me, you are going to be happy again, if you give it the chance. I was suicidal a few months ago, the main reason, was also because of terrible war and strife, and I felt so bereaved. I cried myself to sleep every night, on the pictures of those who had been killed. Then I took a turn for worse, and I told my friend that I was going to kill myself on the weekend. I've been through so much, but today, I'm really happy, even though I'm bipolar. I wrote lots of songs when I was sad, and now my songs are becoming awesome hits. Try to write down your feelings. The awful pain, stark despair, the longing for a normal and happy life, and everything else you feel. It really really helps, and keeps you alive. If you can't write songs, try keeping a diary. You were born with the strength to survive this, and the world cannot afford to lose you, because you are so unique and special, and irreplaceable. You cannot deal with this alone though, so seek out help. You won't believe how much better your life will be. Do things that make you happy, and remember that you light up this world. Good luck, and I hope you feel better soon :)

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I am 13 years old. I have a friend that is 27 years old. In a month or less I will be moving to California . My friend is supposed to be moving with us. BUT a few days ago he had told me he's good at making out and I should try it with him. And I'm like huh ? And then he told me how he liked me and stuff. But my mom had just asked 3 days before, if Dustin (the friend) was weird or if he made me feel uncomfortable,etc. (basically if he was a pervert). And I'm like no , because I didn't know yet and she's like okay . Because he claims to be gay also BTW. And he has this crappy job with crappy people and lives in a small crappy hotel too. And IDK if I should tell my mom 'cause I would be the reason his life sucks and I don't think I'm in the place to take away dreams just to feel more comfortable. Help me! Should I tell or not?

I believe you should definitely tell. It might feel really uncomfortable, but it's the right thing to do. You might really regret not telling her. A 27 year old should not be starting up with you. This is totally crazy, and you shouldn't be the victim of it. You are moving to a new place, starting a new life, don't let this friend ruin it for you. Good luck :)

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My anger problems are'nt getting better, I feel like I want to punch a wall or beat something up, I can't speak to friends because they wouldnt understand, I can't speak to family because I would get more angry.
Alexis jealousy and anger do not mix.
My anger problems are really really bad and I just can't find a way to relax and enjoy my life when I'm always angry all the time.
I dont know if im bipolar or if I'm just really fucked up. I just get so angry at such little things, I can't even look at myself in the mirror without getting angry at myself for being the way I am.
everything I look at makes me want to scream for no reason, I can't even look at the people I love without thinking im a failure to them, I let them down, I let myself down, I let them watch me ruin my life, I let my anger get the best of me...

Wow! You certainly seem to be in a lot of pain. If you think you might have bipolar, talk to your doctor about it. I'm bipolar, and because my meds are still being adjusted, I have those crazy ups and downs. My highs are usually full of terrible uncontrollable anger, and I know exactly what it means to not be able to control your anger. First of all, you should always remember that your anger isn't you, and it isn't your fault. You are trying very hard to get better, and you are really brave. You are NOT fucked up. Don't say that to yourself. I believe there's a good chance that you might be bipolar, but I'm not a doctor. You need to get help, because you don't deserve to live under such unbearable conditions. You deserve a wonderful life, and no one has the right to deny you that. I highly suggest that when you're calm, you talk to your family and friends about how you don't mean to hurt them, but you don't have any control over your anger. Go get a good therapist, you'll be surprised at how much she'll be able to help. The fact that you asked this question, shows that you are a wonderful person, who hates hurting people, and you are looking for ways to get better. I'm really proud of you. Good luck :)

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Hi. Im a 14 year old tall girl who has a big butt that never stops growing. I'm sick of guys pointing out my butt to me, even though it doesn't really bother me, it just gets annoying when they're always staring at it. It's disrespectful, and I don't like it. This isn't really the reason I want to make it smaller though. It's just an extra. The reason is that I love skinny jeans and when I try them on in the stores, they're fine, even kind of loose, but when I wear them about a month later, I either;
1) Notice that they are getting tighter and tighter by the day (and no, it's not because if the dryer)
2) Notice they don't close when I actually get them up, or
3) See that they no longer fit since my legs are STILL growing (I'm 5"9') and my butt always grows along with it. 

Is anyone going through what I am? What would you do in a situation like this?

I've heard of so many different excerises that make your butt bigger, but that is definately not what I'm looking for. I want to know if anyone out there knows of an excersise to make it smaller. Thank you all for answering in advance!

You can try working out on the elliptical. It really worked for me, and shrunk my butt in half. Whenever guys are disrespectful to me, I give them a piece of my mind. Don't let them be gross!

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19/f. About four months ago my first love and I broke up after he confessed that he cheated on me. We were not together for a very long amount of time, but the feelings I had for him were both very real and very strong. For a few months after that, I wanted absolutely nothing to do with him. A few weeks ago we had a very long chat, and the memories of the great times we had together came back and washed away any bitterness I might have felt towards him. Since then all I can think about is trying to get back together with him when we are both back at school. I just feel so silly. I know he's moved on and I should too, but I also just want to be with him again. What do I do?

First of all, let me tell you that what you're feeling is very normal! My first boyfriend lied to me about his sexuality, and cheated on me. I broke up with him, and I was really really angry and disgusted with him. Even though he is a disgusting awful person, I still long for him a lot. You can't cut yourself off completely from someone you once loved so deeply.
This might just be a phase, where you're really lonely, and all the great memories come back, and all you can think of is getting back together. But if you feel you really really want to get back together, and it isn't just a passing phase, approach him with the idea, and see how he reacts. But make sure he's changed and is reliable. For all you know, it might be that he really wants you back, and regrets what he did, but is afraid to approach you... Be careful, and good luck :)

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14/f
I've been going through a ton of stress for the past week (and will be for the next two weeks) due to the fact that my teachers thought it would be appropriate to assign major projects all due this week right before final exams. So, I've been stressing out lately, and last week I worked for about five hours a day to try to make a dent in all of these stupid projects I have. Anyway, I worked a ton last week, and then over the weekend I hung out with some friends (a normal thing for a teenager to do) and relaxed to try to de-stress myself. Well, whenever I relax my mom always gets mad at me and says I should be doing my homework. Then she goes on about how she never sees me work and all I do is lay around and listen to music. Whoa whoa whoa. Not the case AT ALL. I do my homework, then to relax (I'm very introverted) I listen to music. However, whenever I go upstairs to do my homework my mom assumes I'm goofing off, even though I tell her otherwise.

So I worked some this weekend, but not a ton because I wanted to relax. Today after school I was telling my mom how stressed out I was from all this work, but instead of being the reassuring motherly figure you always hear about in books and stuff, she yelled at me about how I never work and I need to stop complaining because I don't work. THIS IS NOT TRUE!!! That's what drives me crazy!!! And when I tell her this, she gets mad at me for "fighting everything she says."

So today after school, to prove to my mom that I work a lot, I came home and did five and a half hours of homework straight. Guess what? She yelled at me for "managing my time horribly." Then tonight she said to me "if you want to go to a bad college, that's okay!" and then she called into my brother "congrats on your straight A's, love you!" Well I am very stressed out right now, so what she said actually hurt me. I don't know what to do or what to say to her. Her comments about my work ethic are bothering me, and I feel like she gets mad at me no matter what I do. She's making me feel really stupid and she's adding unnecessary stress to my already stressed out state of being.

Tell her what you just posted here. You need to let her know that she hurts you. I don't think that's her intention, but she probably doesn't realize it. My mom does a lot of things that really hurt me, and when she calms down, I tell her that what she just did was very painful, and she usually apologizes, and tells me that it wasn't her intention. When she does it again, I tell her that she just hurt me again, and usually she stops right away. Sit down with your mom, and have a frank talk. You deserve to relax, and you're not stupid! Always remember that, and always believe in yourself! Good luck :)

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Okay so I've seen the answers to a previous question that I asked. in my eyes I think that I am very mature for my age. It's really not a good thing of why, but I've been through more than an average 20 year old has went through. I've been abused and misused over and over agian. When I lost my stepdad it's ike everything got worst. I started having sex with any and every man that wanted to. I let them take advantage of me and kept letting it happen. I met a guy my age and we stayed together for like four months until he thought that i was pregnant then he left me without any last words or anything. I stopped looking for love and stayed to myself. Then in July of 2010 I met my current love. We didnt start dating right away. We just talked all the time and hung out alot. He was and still is my best friend, then we started dating as of November 17, 2010. I fell hard for him and he showed me how much he loved me and wanted to be with me every day from that day. Here's the catch though: He's 25 (as I stated earlier) and i'm 17 (18 in july)People call him a pedophile but I don't see how (well i know how) but he's not off or anything. PLEASE HELP!

The most important thing is that you are safe and happy. If this guy makes you happy, then that's all that matters. Those losers weren't there for you when you battled your hardships, and they have no place in your life. You are very brave, and you certainly seem very mature for your age. Always believe in yourself, and don't let anyone bring you down, or ruin your chances of being happy.Good luck :)

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14/f
i have been cutting myself since my mom would not let me see my dad(alittle over 2 years).
i have not told anyone,but am considering telling my bf. we have been going out for 5 months and i knoow he will go beserck saying *why havent you told me before*.
i know he will say this cause he is very protective over me.

please help i dont know what to do, lately i have been useing a very dull and small knife,all it does is leave a red mark on me for about 4 hours.
and i want to use a sharp knife, i have willed myself to stay away from sharp knives so i dont get the temtation.

please? any advise is very thankful!!

The most important thing, and the best thing you can do to yourself is go get help. Self-harm is very serious, and the lives of people who do it are UNBEARABLE as they are currently being lived. I used to self harm in the past, when my pain was so strong, that I had no other way to feel better. Self-harm may seem like the solution to you, because when you bleed from a cut, your body releases hormones that make you feel better, but in reality, it's very dangerous, and it's not a solution. Go get help for your pain, and you'll learn how to overcome your sadness without cutting. There are ways of handling these emotions without taking it out on yourself. Once you learn the skills on how to do it, it'll not only help you in this area, but in every other painful situation. Good luck and I hope you feel better soon :)

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Thank you so much for your advice. Would you mind telling me how you managed to pull out of the depression and situation? I have tried talking to numerous resources for help, but there really is none. I have tried everything and nothing has worked or helped. Even the medications for depression have not helped. In fact, it is still getting worse with each day. I would enter a psychiatric facility if I thought it would help, but that would change nothing and make everything actually worse for me. Thank you so much for your kind and sensible thoughts.

First of all, I personally don't believe in going to a mental hospital unless it is really crucial, like someone is very severely depressed and refuses treatment, or someone is very suicidal. I've been hospitalized twice, and it has only made me worse. Climbing out of depression took me over a year, and after a year, the doctor realized that I'm bipolar, so my whole world came crashing down again. I was on several antidepressants, Abilify, Zoloft, Lexapro, plus I was misdiagnosed a few times, so the psychiatrist prescribed me meds that made me progressively worse. I don't believe in taking medication, unless it is absolutely crucial, because the side effects can destroy a person. If your doctor believes you need to be on an antidepressant, than you should. If the medication doesn't make you feel better, than it's not the right one for you. Antidepressants can actually make a person's depression worsen, or cause them to become suicidal. Zoloft, for instance, has helped many people overcome depression, but it made me suicidal, and landed me in the hospital for the second time. For starters, you need to make sure that your medication works for you. Everyone is different. I overcame my depression through very very very hard work, but guess what! It paid off! I practice DBT a lot, which works wonders. Unfortunately, because I'm suffering from bipolar, the depression can return at any time, so I constantly have to fight it. But I'm really happy, because thanks to the lessions I learn in DBT, and the queen treatment I give myself, I know that I'm destined for greatness. I always stand up for myself, and fight the people who try to bring me down. I know that I am irreplaceable, and I deserve to have the best life I can have. I know my rights, and I never settle for less than I deserve. Above all, I know that I deserve to be happy and I deserve the realization of my every dream. You need to believe that too. Also, I know that my illness isn't my fault, and it's impossible to deal with it alone, so I'm open to any help I can get. I've been to awful therapists, one of them was really evil, so I understand you're predicament. I used to feel like that a lot, and I won't lie, I still feel like nothing will help sometimes, but then I sit down and write a song about it, and I feel better instantly! It's of utmost importance that you find a good therapist. Someone who's right for you. I don't know which question you asked, because I answer so many about depression and suicide, so if you want to e-mail me at alexisgirlie@gmail.com and tell me which question was yours, I can try to give you direct pointers on what to do. Overcoming depression isn't as easy as 1-2-3. It's very hard work, but it pays off, and turns you into a wonderful understanding person, who's loved by all. It gives you a more meaningful life, and you learn to appreciate the little things in life. I wish no one would ever have to go through that, it's crushing, and tears a person apart. But fight! Fight until you're happy again, because one day, you will! Good luck :)
P.S. Whenever I start to feel down, I listen to some upbeat music or I treat myself to a hot bath or great snack, and I instantly feel better. Exercising and playing sports are also great ways to improve the way you feel. Make sure you're on a healthy diet. Junk food can kill you. Feel better soon :)

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my boyfriend threatens to commit suicide if i leave him i dont know what to do

Your boyfriend needs to get help immediately. Do him the biggest favor you can, and tell this to a responsible adult. Feeling suicidal is not normal, and he probably has a serious chemical imbalance in his brain. This is no way to go about a relationship, and if your boyfriend gets the help he so desperately needs, he'll be a new person. He'll be very angry at you, but ultimately, you'll save his life, and one day, when he'll be happy again, he'll realize that, and be eternally grateful to you. Do the right thing! Good luck :)

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