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My past life and my present love
Okay so I've seen the answers to a previous question that I asked. in my eyes I think that I am very mature for my age. It's really not a good thing of why, but I've been through more than an average 20 year old has went through. I've been abused and misused over and over agian. When I lost my stepdad it's ike everything got worst. I started having sex with any and every man that wanted to. I let them take advantage of me and kept letting it happen. I met a guy my age and we stayed together for like four months until he thought that i was pregnant then he left me without any last words or anything. I stopped looking for love and stayed to myself. Then in July of 2010 I met my current love. We didnt start dating right away. We just talked all the time and hung out alot. He was and still is my best friend, then we started dating as of November 17, 2010. I fell hard for him and he showed me how much he loved me and wanted to be with me every day from that day. Here's the catch though: He's 25 (as I stated earlier) and i'm 17 (18 in july)People call him a pedophile but I don't see how (well i know how) but he's not off or anything. PLEASE HELP!
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Don;t listen to what other has to say. the hell with their opinions. if he loves you and you know you love him and if your happy with each other than go for it and don't mind the people around you.
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if he treats u right why not?be mindful of your choices of men if youve been abused in past..sometimes we put the victim air out and it on a guys radar..if ur hapy gret its not a pedo where im from legal is 16 justkeep urself safe
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Okay swettie you 17 hes 25 its okay just because your not 18 doesnt mean that its wrong people may say that its rape or hes a pedophile so what you want him no one can change how you feel but you so as long as hes a good man and treats you right thats the only thing and make sure he cares about you and that he is not disrepectful to your family and you treat he family the same dont act wierd or anything just be yourslef.
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The most important thing is that you are safe and happy. If this guy makes you happy, then that's all that matters. Those losers weren't there for you when you battled your hardships, and they have no place in your life. You are very brave, and you certainly seem very mature for your age. Always believe in yourself, and don't let anyone bring you down, or ruin your chances of being happy.Good luck :)
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It doesn't matter what other people think, if you love him, and he loves you then that’s all that matters. If other people want to judge, then let them be jealous of how you two feel for each other.
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