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Member Since: May 29, 2012
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Last Update: May 31, 2012
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Im a female in my 20's with a lot of uncertainty. I was with my ex for 6 years. Our families grew up with each other so we spend many holidays and events together. He was way too jealous which is why we broke upp. I moved to another state with a new boyfriend that did not work out and continued with my life, but always having him in my heart. He began dating his fiance. I then met and married my husband feeling that there was no chance. Well, my husband has been the worst relationship ever. He has lied and cheated on me dirty from the beginning and i didnt find everything out till after we had a child. Now going through a divorce. Every year when i go back home for the holidays, my ex contacts me. From what my family says, his current girl is super clingy. Well, 6 years have gone by and theyve been engaged for five with a 10 month old. He has been reaching out to me after my telling him that i still have feelings and it would be best not to talk. He says its on a friendly note. Not true because on some occassions, hes asked me for a dirty picture. Of course i said no. But i know he is not happy. My feelings never went away. Im planning on making the move back home since things havent worked out and i never really liked the state i live in, especially not having any family around. Why does he keep reaching out to me? What should i do? I know he is not happy as his own family says he isnt. (link)
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He keeps reaching out to you, because you probably remind him of a good part of his life. But you two broke up for a reason, and if that reason hasn't been solved then there’s no point in even thinking of getting back with him. Both of you have moved on in your lives, and if you can still be friends that’s great, but you both should move on.
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I am 26 years old and I am a female. People say and I read in a medical book that a girl shouldn't drink coffee or caffeine when she has her period. I was just wondering why sometimes I want coffee when I have my period I am a coffee lover and if I could have any bad health consequeces because of it.Or any suggestions what I should do. (link)
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I honestly don’t think it’s that bad if you drink coffee when you’re on your period. If you want coffee, then drink some coffee. If you’re really worried, then see your doctor about what you shouldn't have when it’s that time of the month.
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I'm 17 and female.
So I'm hooked on coffee! Like I'll have a minimum of 5 a day.
However I am trying not to take coffee anymore as the caffeine in it stunts growth (and I wanna grow more!) and can give you cancer and bad teath etc.
What would anyone recoomend for stopping-because I just can't help it! (link)
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Well, to start with you’re going to want to slowly start to wane yourself off coffee. You can still have it, but try one week four cups, then next week three, until you can do around one cup every other day. To make up for the addiction, you need to find your "natural high" to replace the feeling drinking coffee gives you. It can b anything, from riding a bike, to singing your heart out. Think of stuff that makes you happy, and try to do it more often.
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Okay so I've seen the answers to a previous question that I asked. in my eyes I think that I am very mature for my age. It's really not a good thing of why, but I've been through more than an average 20 year old has went through. I've been abused and misused over and over agian. When I lost my stepdad it's ike everything got worst. I started having sex with any and every man that wanted to. I let them take advantage of me and kept letting it happen. I met a guy my age and we stayed together for like four months until he thought that i was pregnant then he left me without any last words or anything. I stopped looking for love and stayed to myself. Then in July of 2010 I met my current love. We didnt start dating right away. We just talked all the time and hung out alot. He was and still is my best friend, then we started dating as of November 17, 2010. I fell hard for him and he showed me how much he loved me and wanted to be with me every day from that day. Here's the catch though: He's 25 (as I stated earlier) and i'm 17 (18 in july)People call him a pedophile but I don't see how (well i know how) but he's not off or anything. PLEASE HELP! (link)
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It doesn't matter what other people think, if you love him, and he loves you then that’s all that matters. If other people want to judge, then let them be jealous of how you two feel for each other.
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This boy asked me out at school. I said I didnt know and I really don't I keep thinking 'yes' but then I think 'No!' amd i really don't know what to do... I don't really fancy him but I do like him.
I'm 10 years old btw.
So if any of you have been through this situation
Or think they know what to do please do say!
Thanks! (link)
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You may be young, but everyone goes through a “puppy love” stage. Whether or not it actually turns into anything, you should go with what your gut tells you.
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I'm Married to my hubby because of our child now I'm in love with this guy who is also Married,I love him a lot we have been together for 3 years now, the problem is its not easy for us to see each other coz we Married and now he is upset with me. He say I don't take an effort of seeing him so we must end the relationship, I can't affort to loose him. What can I do? Love him so much. (link)
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You’re cheating on your husband with the guy you love, who's cheating on his wife? If your marriage was so important you couldn't just be with this guy, then why are you even with this guy? And if this guy was so important you had to be with him even though your married, then why are you still married? Just think it over, and you'll know what to do.
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I need help. What stores can I go to & find nice clothes for my graduation. We have to wear black & white. I don't really like dresses & heels. Is there anything else cute I can wear? (link)
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Simple, you can wear black slacks (dress pants) or a black skirt (probably pencil, mini might not be appropriate) and flats are always acceptable, just make sure their stylish.
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I really want to learn to dance and take some lessons, but I'm 15 and everyone I know who is in dance classes has started at a young age and I feel like I won't be able to keep up because I have NEVER danced before, not even at school dances. Help, please. (link)
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If you want to learn to dance, then you want to learn to dance, no question about it. It doesn't matter what age your starting out at, if you want to learn, then get your butt out there and start taking lessons.
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I am a 21/f and "Joe" is a 24/m. We have been dating about 3 and a half years now. When we started dating, I was 2 months pregnant. He has turned out to be the most wonderful father and was by my side the whole time I was pregnant. We always got along and I kbiw he really loved me. I moved in with him a couple months after i had my daughter. My mother moved 600 miles away, but I was going to move in with him anyways. I know I love him.. in the beginning I was in love with him but I guess that fades away with most ppl over time. I have alot of self image issuesbecause of being cheated on in the past. But I am a thin person and I don't think I look that bad. Within the past year I have caught him lying about girls numbers etc. Thick has happened multiple times. I even found a half way naked pic of.his coworker on his computer. It makes me feel not good enough and makes me.depressed because I don't know what I can do to be better. Of course he says he nver cheated on me, and I have never caught him, but if you lie about little things, you lie about big things. We have been ok these past.couple weeks, but I can't get images words and all that in the past out of my head. I would love for him to continue being a wonderful father to my daughter. They are so close. But if we are not together I will move to my dads house in another state. Should.I try to.stick it out for my daughter and try harder to build a healthy relationship or move.. take the easy way out. Sorry so long (link)
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It sounds like you really love this guy, and that you don't completely trust him. The problem with giving advice is that it doesn't always work, but one thing I can tell you is that you should talk to him about how you feel, and tell him that you’re honestly thinking of leaving. If he really loves you, then the decisions easy, if not you need to make your own choice.
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