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Married and inlove with the other man
I'm Married to my hubby because of our child now I'm in love with this guy who is also Married,I love him a lot we have been together for 3 years now, the problem is its not easy for us to see each other coz we Married and now he is upset with me. He say I don't take an effort of seeing him so we must end the relationship, I can't affort to loose him. What can I do? Love him so much.
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First of all, let me say that if the grass seems greener on the other side, maybe it's because you need to work harder at nurturing yours instead of giving up on it and opting for someone else's. What is your long term vision for each other? Do you expect to eventually marry this guy without causing anyone else any pain? Do you think he is gonna leave his wife for you? Anyone who will cheat on their spouse with you, will cheat on you. I would like to think you made the vow to your husband, for better or for worse. Fix your marriage, leave other people's husbands and stop living in a fantasy. All you are to him is extra sex.
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So your both married, having an affair, and hes angry because he thinks your not making an effort to see him? Why are you stringing along your poor husband? Is your marriage that bad that you have to ask for advice on how not to upset the man thats not your husband? You can afford to lose him because you didnt make vows to keep another womans husband happy, but YOURS. And marrying because you have a child together was your first mistake, just because you have a child together doesnt seal the wound over your relationship but it should make you think twice or even 3 times about making it work, not for the child but for you and your husband.
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You’re cheating on your husband with the guy you love, who's cheating on his wife? If your marriage was so important you couldn't just be with this guy, then why are you even with this guy? And if this guy was so important you had to be with him even though your married, then why are you still married? Just think it over, and you'll know what to do.
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