Member Since: June 1, 2012
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Last Update: June 1, 2012
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Hie, l would just like to know how l can stop caring about my husband. We've been together for 5 years and we have a lovely boy. He is an educator and he flirts with his female students(emails, whatsapp & messages) l am really tired of checking his phone and asking questions all the time. This whole insecurity is making my life miserable. l want to STOP caring about what he does. Am l obsessed?? He has hit on a family member & my friends in the past. Please advice me,l don't know how long l can go on like this. (link)
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If hes an educator, then he should educate himself on how to keep the vows he made to you. No marriage is perfect but for you to keep checking his messages and him hitting on family and friends, is a clear warning for you and him to get some marriage counselling. If you wanna fight for your man, then lets hope he startsto make a change FOR THE BETTER.
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I am 30 as of may eighteenth of this year. I was a recovering drunk and addict in aa for 1.5 yearz intil a month ago. I live in atl ga. I lost the great job through no action on my part on friday and the girl the next day. My beautiful flower. I have neen a fuckup all my life. I put forth great effort this time to have the world snd the people in it take a sbit on my face. I am going to kill my self in the am. I am going to steal alot of money. Get alot of crack and alot of booze. I am going out into a small.patch of woods near my place vet really f'd up and cut huge chunks out of my wrists. This is no joke nor is it a cry for help, if anything this is a declaration of intent. To wbom ever reads this our world is a nasty place and full of nasty people. We dont cberish anything but greed and deception. We use words and emotions carelessly. Be true, kind and genuine. Dont tell.someone that you love them unless its a certainty. I love you mom D.C. and i love you to brother....... sorry but i will.not alow my self to be a piece of loser shite any longer. I R.H.C. have had enough. Bye (link)
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Taking your own life is a waste I tell you. Obviously God has a great destiny for you, but someone wants to mess with you and His plans. You have to pick yourself up and fight for your right to live the life your meant to live, theres a reason for the season that youre in, its going to get better! This place is filled with nasty people but its also filled with people who im sure would do anything to see you happy, you mentioned your mom and your bro, dont do this to them, if anything they wanna see you recover. Take charge bro, you can stand up and defeat the demons in front of you!
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I'm Married to my hubby because of our child now I'm in love with this guy who is also Married,I love him a lot we have been together for 3 years now, the problem is its not easy for us to see each other coz we Married and now he is upset with me. He say I don't take an effort of seeing him so we must end the relationship, I can't affort to loose him. What can I do? Love him so much. (link)
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So your both married, having an affair, and hes angry because he thinks your not making an effort to see him? Why are you stringing along your poor husband? Is your marriage that bad that you have to ask for advice on how not to upset the man thats not your husband? You can afford to lose him because you didnt make vows to keep another womans husband happy, but YOURS. And marrying because you have a child together was your first mistake, just because you have a child together doesnt seal the wound over your relationship but it should make you think twice or even 3 times about making it work, not for the child but for you and your husband.
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We broke up a while ago, and he hooked up with another guy (Bi) a day afterward. Literally. A few months went by, and when I felt I was truly recovered, I found someone else. But this person happened to be a good friend of both of us--I know that wasn't wise, but I really liked her (also bi)--and he didn't react very maturely. He's threatening not to be friends with her anymore, and I'm concerned because it's really upsetting her.
I don't even understand, since he seems happy with his boyfriend, never contacts me and ignores me, makes fun me when he doesn't and overall just seemed over me up until now. (link)
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Hun do what you gotta do, an ex is an ex for a reason, and I dont know why they try and make their exs miserable when they dont know theyre the ones that are! Tell your girlfriend hes not worth trying to be a friend to because he obviously has jealousy issues. Good luck!
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I have been involed in a sexual relarionship with this guy for 6 years.when we started he was on thee outs with his ling term girlfriend of 9years then.out if the 6years he never took me out anywhere bought me anything and just learned my bday this year!he has had 3serious relationships and I toi have but my heart was with him a peice of it anyways idk why I love him but he seems not to love or want a relationship with me help me I need to know wat am I to him and shoukd I let go.im single now and clearly bettrr class than he date wats the problem? (link)
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Hun, seriously? Your a booty call straight up. He doesnt want a relationship with you, he just wants ins! If you know your worth then forget him and move on, seriously? 6 years and hes just known your birthday? You deserve better, a real man with a real heart.
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In april my dad cheated on my mom with her bestfriend and they have had a relationship ever since. My parents divorced and my dad is still dating my moms bestfriend. When my mom was friends with her, she told my mom how she cheated on her husband with her boss and many other people. Her and her husband are divorced now andI have no doubt she's already cheating on my dad too. Anyways, my mom has 90% custody of me so my dad has me 2 days a week. During those 2 days he is constantly texting her, we barely talk. I refuse to be around my moms ex bestfriend because I hate her and everything she does. My dad can't stand that I'm being so stubborn and neither can she. I already told my dad I want nothing to do with her, yet he constantly asks me to come along with them. I've tried explaining how I feel to him but he just gets mad. I want to spend more time with him but shes always there. I can't even go to MY FAMILY events because shes there. I missed out on my grandmas birthday, my great grandmas birthday and I'm sure I'll be missing out on Thanksgiving and Christmas because of her. I just want her gone and I'm afraid soon my dad is going to make me choose between either accepting her or not seeing him. I really want my dad back. This has ruined our whole relationship. (link)
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Your dad hasnt a clue on what your going through. You try and avoid the issue by avoiding her along with your dad, but this ex best friend is loving the fact that you are giving up on a relationship with your dad because you cant stand her. And you have every right to avoid her, but does that mean losing your dad in the process? Grown ups are funny people, they dont know how much their kids are hurting because theyre too busy thinking theyre in love, you need to ask your dad for one on one time with just him, she dont need to tag along, that aint your problem, whatever you do you dont have to be the one sucking up to him, he was at fault and hurt your mom, the least he could do, is make an effort to spend time with you without the extra.
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