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What does my ex really want?
Im a female in my 20's with a lot of uncertainty. I was with my ex for 6 years. Our families grew up with each other so we spend many holidays and events together. He was way too jealous which is why we broke upp. I moved to another state with a new boyfriend that did not work out and continued with my life, but always having him in my heart. He began dating his fiance. I then met and married my husband feeling that there was no chance. Well, my husband has been the worst relationship ever. He has lied and cheated on me dirty from the beginning and i didnt find everything out till after we had a child. Now going through a divorce. Every year when i go back home for the holidays, my ex contacts me. From what my family says, his current girl is super clingy. Well, 6 years have gone by and theyve been engaged for five with a 10 month old. He has been reaching out to me after my telling him that i still have feelings and it would be best not to talk. He says its on a friendly note. Not true because on some occassions, hes asked me for a dirty picture. Of course i said no. But i know he is not happy. My feelings never went away. Im planning on making the move back home since things havent worked out and i never really liked the state i live in, especially not having any family around. Why does he keep reaching out to me? What should i do? I know he is not happy as his own family says he isnt.
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If you are finished with your relationship you need to allow him to finish up with his and tie up any lose strings before you even consider a relationship with your ex. It just might be that you two were meant to be but don't start off a relationship with drama and unnecessary issues such as the mother of his child popping in and out of his life. Make sure to start an open and honest friendship first before moving forward with anything. Don't forget you both have children whom's happiness is greater and more important than that of either of you two so put their best interest as priority one.Good luck :)
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He keeps reaching out to you, because you probably remind him of a good part of his life. But you two broke up for a reason, and if that reason hasn't been solved then there’s no point in even thinking of getting back with him. Both of you have moved on in your lives, and if you can still be friends that’s great, but you both should move on.
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