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are these years all we have, or is there a future for us??
I am a 21/f and "Joe" is a 24/m. We have been dating about 3 and a half years now. When we started dating, I was 2 months pregnant. He has turned out to be the most wonderful father and was by my side the whole time I was pregnant. We always got along and I kbiw he really loved me. I moved in with him a couple months after i had my daughter. My mother moved 600 miles away, but I was going to move in with him anyways. I know I love him.. in the beginning I was in love with him but I guess that fades away with most ppl over time. I have alot of self image issuesbecause of being cheated on in the past. But I am a thin person and I don't think I look that bad. Within the past year I have caught him lying about girls numbers etc. Thick has happened multiple times. I even found a half way naked pic of.his coworker on his computer. It makes me feel not good enough and makes me.depressed because I don't know what I can do to be better. Of course he says he nver cheated on me, and I have never caught him, but if you lie about little things, you lie about big things. We have been ok these past.couple weeks, but I can't get images words and all that in the past out of my head. I would love for him to continue being a wonderful father to my daughter. They are so close. But if we are not together I will move to my dads house in another state. Should.I try to.stick it out for my daughter and try harder to build a healthy relationship or move.. take the easy way out. Sorry so long
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They say it's better to have 2 happy homes, than 1 unhappy home.
Don't stick with him if you're not feeling it. You owe it to your daughter to be happy, she's going to need a good role model.
Have you had a serious conversation with him? There is no harm in asking and talking about the things that bother you, if anything, it helps the situation; at times it may not look as though immediately, but it does over time.
It's normal to have self-image issues, everyone has their insecurities. But for your partner to fuel those insecurities is not okay. You have to talk to him and tell him how you feel, tell him you've found half-naked pictures of his coworker on his computer, and the fact that he has the need to lie about getting other girls' numbers bothers you. You can't make a decision until you've spoken to him about the things that bother you. If he truly loves you, and your daughter, he'll be understanding. He'll understand where he is going wrong and therefore, he'll be able to fix his ways for you.
If he doesn't treat you right, trust me, there are people out there who would. Everyone has a someone, right!? Good luck!
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It sounds like you really love this guy, and that you don't completely trust him. The problem with giving advice is that it doesn't always work, but one thing I can tell you is that you should talk to him about how you feel, and tell him that you’re honestly thinking of leaving. If he really loves you, then the decisions easy, if not you need to make your own choice.
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