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There is these 2 older guys.Im 14 and theyre 17. They have seemed to like me but I dont know.Would older guys like someone younger out of everyone of their own age? (link)
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I don't know, but I know who would know, why don't you ask my 16 year old boyfriend that same exact question. Ha, ha
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(fourteen//female) ive been friends with a guy, Chad (also fourteen), for a bit over 2 years. in 7th grade i helped him get to know my friend b/c he liked her and they went out in 8th grade and brokeup about a week ago. anyway, since july, we havent spoken much. he changed A LOT. i didnt really agree with some of the girls he wanted to get involved with && he seemed to understand. now he likes this other girl and he is hiding it from me even tho i told him i would be supportive of whatever he wants to do. (i found evidence...he asked a question on here about it and everyone knows about it). he acts different too...i dont know whats up? we are/were close && could talk about anything but now we dont talk and when we do its light conversation. no, i dont like him and no, i didnt kiss him lol. id really like to rekindle the friendship we had. any advice is great! (link)
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Well like you said you've known him for 2 years now and I think 2 years is enough to know someone. If you think he's acting different tell him you know him well enough that he is just trying to fit in (probably) and you don't like how he acts towards you or around you, and you would like to be able to talk to him like you used to be able too about anything, everything. Also ask him why he thinks he has to act that way and -if he blows you off with a smartass answer or just straight up blows you off just leave him be for a while-. He'll come back and try to start up a conversation with you or try to apologize if he ever was your friend. Hope I helped. I don't think I really did.. Sorry.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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heyy all i need your help im scared of my dad everytime he yells i start crying also when he yells at me i always think he is going to do something to me like hit me he also calls me names and it really hurts my feelings i love my mom more then i love my dad because he does it i hate my life and i wish i could die please give me good advice what should i do. (link)
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I think you should just ignore it. You are the only person that knows who you really are and your friends rarely know who you really are no matter how close you are. My mom calls me a Bitch, Slut, Whore, and I think some more I just tune her out most of the time. It works I usually cry a lot because I'm really sensitive if someone makes fun of me in school (I used to cry) now that I tune em out I confront them myself and ask them why do they have to say shit and that they should look in the mirror. I mean god my own sister in law, her name is Shannon too, said I'm a slut and shouldn't be wearing half the things I wear at my age. So I told my mom to tell her she shouldn't be saying shit about me when she weighs like 100 more pounds than I do and that she should look in the mirror and lose some pounds by getting off her ass instead of sitting at home and watching Sope's all day (Or however you spell it) and when she loses about 50 to 100 pounds she can say whatever she wants til' then she needs to shut her mouth and have fun fucking my brother
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I've had a girlfriend for about 5½ yrs now and I really love her and all and I want to move our realonship up a bit and I don't know how. I was thinking about making love to her when it was the right time for her but im just afraid she won't be happy with my size. Were both virgins and I really don't want to hurt her. Do you think moving our realonship up a bit is worth a shot?
Also do you think 11 inches will really hurt a girl badly, especially if shes a virgin?
Please Be Nice I Rate 5's (link)
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Holy shit, yeah I think it will hurt her but even if she wasn't a virgin it would hurt still because a girl, woman get's tight again every 24 hours (if she masturbates it won't hurt as much) I think it's a sweet idea that you want to move your relationship up a bit and that you waited that long just to have it I mean god I first had sex with my boyfriend on the 2nd day we was going out and I wasn't a virgin and we only have been going out for a year and like 5 days to this day.. I know it's young but I can't say anything about it. Tell her that you do want to move your relationship up a notch before you make a move and if it's alright with her. Just look at it at this way you are going to do it at some point. But I'm just saying it will hurt her so don't go jabbing it in there and going really fast, okay? It will only hurt for the first 5 minutes if you guys last that long. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't :(. Good luck if you guys do.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Me and my bf have gone out for 6 yrs.
Well one day I started to get tired of seeing him 24/7
So I told him that and I think he thought we were breaking up.
I only wanted alittle alone time
A week later I saw him with another girl
and I asked him what was going on
but he told me we broke up so he moved on.
Now im really jealous and been trying to to tell my bf I never really wanted to breakup with him I just wanted alone time and he keeps saying thats considered breaking up.
Does anyone have any advice on what I could do? (link)
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Well you told him everything that I would say. Just tell him that you didn't mean for that to happen if you would have known it would have come to this I would have never said I need to be alone at times. And that you love him and you've loved him for 6 years and that you can't get over that anytime soon and that you need him. If he says I don't care I moved on so you should I think you should tell him straight out (tell him in a bold sound, like not yelling but not soft) you haven't moved on yet I personally think your just using this girl to get me jealous well guess what it's working! And that if he can't take you back after saying you love him I think you could do a lot better. I mean geesh if he already moved on and yall went out for 6 years damn that means he was never really there (emotionally). Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't. Ask me for more advice if you need it.:(
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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condom packages always say that they are like 99% effective if used correctly and stuff, but in school we learned that since condoms are latex like balloons, they have tiny holes in them that sperm can swim through. wtf. how effictive is that? (link)
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I don't know what your school is teaching you but that's not true. I went to the GYN ->Gynocologist (if you didn't know) they told me all about condoms (had to go there for a cancer check up from what you can get from sex) and he said that they are 99% effective of preventing any sextual transmitted diseases and any pregnancies he told me how the condom was and how it worked. Let's just say this he didn't say anything about holes so sperm can run through. The only way to get pregnant from using a condom is if it rips or already has a rip in it. Or that 1% kicks in and the sperm just tears right through. I think the GYN doctors know better than regular school teachers, don't you? Hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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i had unprotected sex about 3 days ago. he didn't cum inside me, so i know i'm not pregnant. but could i still have gotten any stds, even though there haven't been any signs so far? (link)
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Yes, it is possible to have some STD's and it's still possible to get pregnant even if he didn't cum in you. When you have sex the guy is pre cumming without even knowing because he can't even feel it(please don't ask me how I know this I just know it's possible..) I think you should get checked up anyways to make sure. I doubt you do but hey you never know. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't. :(
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Aight, which girl should I go with? Here are my options:
-Sort of preppy, very smart, I like her, she likes me as a friend
-Best friend's sister. Sort of tom-girl-ish
-Internet girl. 2 years older than me. I like her, she likes me. We share similar interests. Don't know what country she lives in. Haven't seen her in 2 months.
-Tomgirl. Known her since I was a year and a half old. Fairly smart.
Please help, I usually rate 5s if I choose to rate, and I'll leave comments. Wiseasses get 1s. (link)
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Honestly, I'd either go with the Tom Girl, known her since you was a year and half old, faily smart. or Internet girl, 2 years older than you, plus you like her and she likes you. The only problem you may have with the internet girl is that you rarely will get to see her and you are probably the type of person who wants to see the person they are going out with more than 1 time a year. The Tom girl that you've known since forever sounds like the perfect match you know everything about her because you've known her since you was 1 the problem with that is that I don't know how she acts, treats you, what her personalities like and all that. But since you put her up an option to go out with I guess you kind of sort of like her. Hope I helped. And unless you want to work I wouldn't go for the one that just likes you as a friend nor the bestfriends sister, your best friend may feel kind of awkard because of that.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Okay, split up with the ex about two years ago. I lived with her for two years with her mum and her sister.
I'm now best friends with the sister, weve been gettin very close.
She even said at times she see's me as a boyfriend, and feels guilty when she speaks to other men.
But now she's started being quiter when we are out with others.
Think she is backing off as I'm her sisters ex, or she's changed her feelings? (link)
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I think she feels guilty because as you guys have been getting closer she has realized that you was going out with her sister in the past and that it's wrong and that she probably doesn't want to hurt her sister like that. And back then when you were living with them she probably thought of you as her brother of some sort, that you wouldn't let anybody hurt her. I doubt she is changing her feelings for you she probably just doesn't feel right. You got to tell her how you feel about her (because obviously you do have feelings for her) and that you want to be with her regardless of her sister and that you understand if you can't be with me because your sister but it would make my day if you got with me as well. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't. :(
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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My ex boyfriend and I still have feelings for each other. The only reason we broke up was because of an Instant Messanger Misunderstanding since someone always goes on his screenname. Well, he has a girlfriend who he only likes as a friend (which I think he got to make me jealous.) He and I want to get together but I'm afraid I'm going to get hurt? So should we keep ourselves a secret, should we tell his girlfriend about us, or should I just tell him its not a good idea? We really like each other. So any advice would be great. I'll rate 5's for Helpful advice. (link)
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Well since you said someone got on his screenname and messed with your head about breaking up and it wasn't your actual boyfriend that was saying it, then I think you should try it out you should tell your ex boyfriend that if he wants his girlfriend that he has now then good but then all the things he told you (wanting to get back with you) was all just a lie. Tell him he has to make a decision if he wants her or you and if it's you then you got to tell him to break it off with his girlfriend and date you. You never know if you'll get hurt or not. I mean it wasn't even him that broke up with you in the first place really. So if I was you I'd give it a shot and tell him. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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What do girls think "BIG" is in penis size? Mypenis is about 5 inches. (im 13) how big is your penis? Is mine small or big? Please answer! i rate high! (link)
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I think your doing great. Ha, ha but yeah I'm the type of chick that hate's em huge like 9 inches or 8 but not too small you have to be atleast 5 inches. So yeah I would say your good and don't have to worry. Let's just say girls won't tease you and if they do just tell them that it's bigger than theirs he, he. Hope I helped. I know you already got some answers I just wanted to say that. If you need anything IM me on ImNotLikeThat00
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ii went to a summer camp and met this guy... to keep a long story short, all we did was flirt and spend every min. with each other... we even kissed... ii really liked him... he gave me his number and it turns out he has a girlfriend... to him was it just a fling? please help ! btw im 14/f.... (link)
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Okay well I think guys are sort of like chicks even though it doesn't appear they just never show their sensitive side. I'm not saying all guys are like us chicks but hey most guys are. I think that guy does like you he wouldn't do that to you if he didn't have atleast some feelings for you. I do think it's wrong that he had a girlfriend and cheated on her with you at summer camp. He may just see it like what goes on in "Summer Camp" stays in "Summer Camp". Don't worry about it when he's single and if he ever did have feelings for you he will come after you but in the mean time don't worry about it I think you should find yourself another target. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't..
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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I have a friend her names Sara my other friend who is really anoying!Is haten on us cuz me and sara are really tight.So how do i get Alicia to go away and ive already tried telling her to.What cannnnn iiiii ddddoooooo.I'll be sooo thankfull if you answer this question.Thanks! (link)
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I wouldn't be so harsh on "Alicia" she probably thinks your kidding sometimes when you do tell her to please go away. I would just sit her down with Sara and tell her exactly what bothers you about her and that you would like it if she didn't always have to hang out with you and Sara. I understand where you are coming from I used to have a friend just like that her name was Rachel just because me and my best friend Ashley were like never away from each other. We finally weren't friends after I told her to step off because she was dissing Ashley. But anyways I really would suggest you sitting down with all three of them and talking to Alicia and tell her that it bothers you that she has to be there all the time annoying the heck out of you and Sarah and getting jealous or bitchy just because you are hanging out with her.
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ok well im totally freaking out...my bf was over today and we started kissing and my younger sister (10) walks in and sees us,so she told my mom and dad and now they are mad and wont let me see him, im soo sad and i cant stop crying, what should i do? (link)
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Ugh I think you should tell your parents about how you have been going out with him for (however long) and ask them what they expected yall were going to do atleast it's just kissing and not any sextual intercourse and that they should trust you and that you haven't done anything to ruin their trust (hopefully that's correct). It will be okay. If they still say no I think it's best if you just tell your boyfriend that if he can't handle now seeing me almost everyday or hang out with me but yall would have to hide it then I don't think we should be dating but if you can't break it off with him then I think it's best if you guys keep your relationship in school. Your parents will get over it someday hopefully. I'm here if you need to talk my mother did the same thing to me just because of his age but hell me and him are still going out ha, ha. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't. Here's my screenname (for AIM) ImNotLikeThat00.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*♥
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well...okay. One time i talked to this guy that i had never met b4, and he was pretty cool. and the more we started talking the more i liked him. And one of the things we talked about was his GF had broken up with him. And i thought well...maybe we could online date...after we get to know each other...and now i talked to him agian yesterday and he said hes found a new gf. and shes awesome and tall and stuff. And my ? is...should i still try to flirt with him and stuff to get him to like me? or stay there as a friend? or what??i REALLY like him too!!! HELP! (link)
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I'd look at it this way would rather push him away by flirting with him or rather have something with him even if it's just friendship and not dating? Because I think he really likes the gal because he was bragging about her to you so yeah it might just push him away. I wouldn't flirt with him even if you really like him just stay friends and hopefully in the future he grows a liking to you himself with no help. (Meaning as in help as flirt with him to get him to like you more.) Hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Hey. What's up?
I Have an amazing boyfriend. I love him. We have been together since Feb. 2nd, 2004 (for the people trying to figure that out, its been 1 year,6months and 9 days) I Love Him, like I said. However, sometimes I think that I may like other guys. Where I work there are 2 guys who I
"like" but I wouldn't go out with them if they asked me. I want to stay with my boyfriend. I think about these other guys sometimes tho.
Any ways or tips to stop these thoughts?
I am more then sure that I am going to stay with my boyfriend. I wouldn't ever date these other guys.
How can I deal with the thoughts?
Is this normal?
(Sophmore, Female)
-Kels- (link)
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It's very normal. You may not want to hear this but your boyfriend probably thinks about other chicks just as much as you think about other guys. I have been together with my boyfriend for a year and like 4 days and I sometimes think about other guys but I know I would never break up with my boyfriend because I can't picture my life without him and him not being there and you probably think that about your boyfriend too that you couldn't picture you being in someone elses arms. Sometimes I feel guilty about it (it's not like I think about having sex with these guys just think about like hanging out with them). Sorry to say this but I don't think there really is a way to get over those thoughts they will go in time. But yeah hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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do guys like it when girls moan while there fingering them? or does it syke them out (link)
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To the best that I know they like it, because it makes them feel good (horny) and most guys like that feeling they get. Hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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i've had boobs for five years now and vaginal discharge and hair in all those places but i still haven't gotten "it" yet and two years ago the doctor said it woul be within the month. i know i won't want it once i get it but i just want it so i know i'm normal. oh yeah (14/f)also my mom got hers when she was 15.
kate (link)
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The family gene might have kicked in and you probably won't get it until your 15 years old or close to being 15 or a little after. It's normal my aunt didn't get hers til' she was 12 and my mom didn't get hers til' she was 11 I got mine when I was only 9 going on 10. (I think) But yeah everybodies different and everybodies normal. Hope I helped. I just think it's strange that you already got your boobs and your hair everywhere without getting it but everybodies different so I can't complain.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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what are some tips to prevent odor during my period? (link)
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If you get those scented tampax it makes the smell all cute and flowery. If you don't know where to find them go to Eckerds, Walmart, Family Dollar and find Pear Tampax and on the box it says scented. Hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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When I am about to do a backflip I get nervous and fear falling on my back or head... do you know of a good place to practice... is grass sutible.. please repond..
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Maybe if you have like a mat. That's not rough but padded. Or maybe on carpet fluffy not that fluffy but still pretty fluffy.
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