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summer fling ?
ii went to a summer camp and met this guy... to keep a long story short, all we did was flirt and spend every min. with each other... we even kissed... ii really liked him... he gave me his number and it turns out he has a girlfriend... to him was it just a fling? please help ! btw im 14/f....
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sry but he wuz just using u. if i were u i would call him up and cuss him out or sumthing but thts just me! other wise jus forget about him and move on to sum1 u can relly trust!
hope i helped XoXo
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The only way to know what he felt about this summer is to ask him. Keep in mind that he spent the whole time cheating on his current girlfriend - and who's to say if you got together that he wouldn't do the same thing to you?
You've got his number, use it - but only if you think that pursuing this is a good idea. He'll have to break up with his girlfriend, have time to recover (as you don't want to be a rebound), and then you'll have to find a way to trust a guy who has no problem cheating on his girlfriends.
Or...you could throw his number away and find some guy who's interested in you for who you are - and you're the ONLY one he cares about.
Best of luck.
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I apologize for harshness:
If he has a girlfriend, it was a fling. Sorry to say, but you just helped a guy cheat on a most likely still clueless girl.
Good job.
You should try to find this stuff out in the future, before you go around falling in like with a guy. Much less, kissing him!
It doesn't matter whether or not you like him, or he likes you. Fact is, he's taken, and he's not doing anything to change that, so why should you?
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<33 yeah it was just a fling/hook up or whatever you want to call it. Boys are inmature right now && they dont like to get serious.Theres not much you can do, just to move on. I think he should have told you in the first place he had a girlfriend. But ohh well. lol. Hope i helped babe! X0X0 LOVEALWAYS, LAUREN <3
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Definitely a fling. Even though you guys did everything together, he's not the kind of boyfriend you want. Because if by any chance she found out, and ended breaking up with hiim so he could be with you, then he may cheat on you. It would all end up being controversy. Any other questiosn or anything, just drop them in my inbox.
~*Jess*~♥
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If he is a good guy, maybe he really likes you..But if he's a player..I'm sure it was just a fling..I feel sorry to ya..Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
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Okay well I think guys are sort of like chicks even though it doesn't appear they just never show their sensitive side. I'm not saying all guys are like us chicks but hey most guys are. I think that guy does like you he wouldn't do that to you if he didn't have atleast some feelings for you. I do think it's wrong that he had a girlfriend and cheated on her with you at summer camp. He may just see it like what goes on in "Summer Camp" stays in "Summer Camp". Don't worry about it when he's single and if he ever did have feelings for you he will come after you but in the mean time don't worry about it I think you should find yourself another target. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't..
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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You need to tell him that it meant more to you then just a "fling" tell him that it is not cool that he did not tell you that he had a g/f..... you need to tell him how you feel and maybe he will care for you like you want him to.
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Yeah, it was just a fling. Did you ask him about having a girlfriend? Make sure you do that next time.
Guys are jerks like that sometimes. Sucks, huh? You're better off looking for a guy in your area you can keep an eye on/know about a little before you kiss him.
Learn from your mistakes--that's why we make them.
<3 Sporkster
PS. Also, try to improve your keyboarding skills just a little: I is not typed as ii. Typing just an I will save you some time. ;) Just a suggestion.
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just a fling.
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Sorry to say this but yea. Basically, it was a fling and he also cheated on his gf. That happens sometimes at camp because you don't go to the same school.
<3 Brunette27
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i think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel and tell him it wasnt right what he did and if he still doesnt understand i think you should get over it because he really doenst sound worth it. for instance he goes out with you and goes to another camp thing and meets a girl and treats her like a fling do you think you can trusty a guy like that?? hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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Yes, it seems to me that he thought of it as just a "fling", even though you thought of it meaning more. You might want to call him up and talk to him about this. He might have thought that you just wanted a "summer fling" as well, since you didn't tell him how you felt about him. But he has a girlfriend, so he's in the wrong here. He cheated on her, which isn't a good thing to do at all. Try to get over him and move on to someone that will like you for you. You never know with guys like this. If he was your boyfriend he could be doing the same thing while he was gone away for camp. Get a guy that will treat you right and will respect you.
♥ Krissy
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definately talk to him about it. maybe he thought that you thought it would juss be a fling too. let him know how you feel. i mean maybe he likes you enough to dump his gf and try a relationship with you.
good luck!
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