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Ok im getting a bit annoyed with the girl i once liked... i finnaly got over h er about a week and a bit ago i think but of course theres still some little feeling there for her but anyways..
shes constantly changing her facebook and MSN status to stupid things like "im going to sort this out!" or "I hope that doesnt happen again.."
whenever i ask her what shs on about she allways says oh nothing dont worry, i know its not much of buisness asking her why but kmon!! shes obviosuly just trying to grab attention by putting stupid phrases like that to make people wonder whats wrong with her. whats with her? do you do this??? i dont do this!?!! >_<
thanks for ya help good people (link)
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I do not do this. This has to be the dumbest thing i have ever heard. I think that this friend of yours just wants to be an attention getter because she has nothing better to do with her life.
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Okay, so I've always considered myself to be straight since I have never had a crush on a girl or anything like that. I don't have the same feelings for girls (sexual tension) as I do for boys. My relationships have always been with boys, and I've never thought of a girl as anything more than a friend.
However, sometimes I like to imagine myself having sex with women. Sometimes a threesome or more. Something about the naked female body intrigues me. Female porn turns me on. I've often wondered if I'd ever sexually experiment should the right person come along. But I don't really want to be bisexual, since I'd never have a relationship with a girl. So am I still straight? (link)
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I personally think that you are just having a hard time deciding whether or not you are straight or bisexual. If you are straight you would not be having thought of having threesomes or more with females. I think you should think about this problem a lot more.
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when something goes wrong between my boyfriend, M, and me, i totally lose it. i just get so depressed and pissed off and it gets on everyones nerves. the thing is, i really love him. but im so scared that if something goes wrong, ill lose him again. (he broke up with me twice before..)
im pretty sure hes sick of his high maintinance girlfriend anyways. im sick of being a naggy bitch, but i dont know what else to do. how can i talk to him about this without him thinking im totally obsessed? (link)
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I know just where you're coming from. I personally don't freak (at least not directly to him), but I deal with the same fears and insecurities that cause you to do so.
First of all, it sounds like you've got a pretty good guy. I don't know very many who would put up with that. Yes, he's broken up with you twice...but he's also taken you back twice so keep that in mind at all times, because if you keep it up, a time will come when he doesn't take you back, and I'm fairly certain that's what we wanna prevent.
Next, then next time you get in an argument, try turning it into a discussion. The only difference is that both sides are heard, and no loud voices. Let him say his piece and then you say yours...then you BOTH find a way to meet in the middle (almost like a debate). It sounds stupid, but I promise, it works.
If you can't do that (and there are a lot who can't) then do this. The second you realize that you are about to or have started to freak out on him, walk away. Explain that you need to calm down, and WALK AWAY!!! Play the situation out in your head. Find a way to discuss it rationally. After you've cooled off, then talk to him. I usually tell people to talk face to face but in this case, I'll make an exception...for a while. Call him on the phone, text him, write a letter...ONLY if you can't talk to him without yelling. That will only work for a short time though...you will eventually have to learn to have a face to face argument without blowing up. Baby steps.
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Help me please i lived in africa, for sometime now i sweat alot during the day maybe after meal and i am not able to sleep at night because of excessive sweating as if i was swimming in a pool.
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like the other answer, try to stay away from spicy foods.. they will probably make the issue worse. Take off any clothing that isn't especially needed and use a net.
If you're sweating a lot make sure you drink water, you'll be dehydrated :)
Sometimes i sleep better at night when i have a cold, wet flannel or towel with me. that keeps me cool enough to fall asleep and then nine times out of ten i don't wake up again (obviously i'm in a completely different situation to you..) Place a cold towel either on your forehead or on the back of your neck.
hope this was of some use :)
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Every time I leave my computer for more than maybe 30 minutes, it goes into hypernation. I don't like that, but I don't know how to prevent it from doing it. Does anyone know how to fix the settings to get it to stop? (it's not like other computers, I've tried that) Please give me step by step directions if posisble. :)
thankyou in advance. (link)
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hey
either right click on the power icon in the bottom right corner of the screen and then click power options
or if you don't have this icon you can access the same thing through control panel and clicking on power options :)
on the left hand side of the power options window there should be a short list of options, click on the bottom one (which should be 'change when the computer sleeps')
this will open up a new window called 'edit plan settings' from here you can change the length of time that the computer is left on for.
hope this helps, if not get in touch and i'll help out another way :)
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ok, so you guys might have noticed a lot of questions about tongue piercings on here...and 98% of them were from me.
well, i finally convinced my parents to let me do it! im getting it done this weekend.
BUT there is one catch. i have to pay for it, and i also have to pay for any damage the piercing will do to my teeth O.O
soooo...here are my questions: (bear with me)
A) what could happen to my teeth?
B) how much would it cost to pay for the damages?
C) how would a minor, like myself, pay for this?
D) is there anything i could do to prevent this from happening?
E) when will i be aloud to use restoring mouthwash if i get my tonuge pierced?
to anyone who answers these, thanks. you dont need to answer all of them, just a few would be nice. :) im 16/f btw. (link)
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Many people report damage to the teeth after getting their tongue pierced, but if you go to a reputable studio for the piercing there shouldn't be any problems. A skilled piercer will be able to place the piercing far enough away from the teeth and use jewelry that is an appropriate size to avoid damage to the teeth. I would recommend getting the acrylic type though so that there is less damage to your teeth and gums.
Having said this, there are many different problems that could be caused by having a tongue piercing:
Tooth fracture,
nerve damage,
infection,
speech impediment.
There is also the possibility of it hitting the lingual artery, a significant artery that runs through the tongue. If this artery is nicked during the piercing, it could swell up and block the airway and, ultimately, kill someone.
I'm not sure how much damages would cost to repair, as i'm from the UK and we have a different system over here. When / if you get your tongue pierced make sure that you feel comfortable with the person doing it, and ask as many questions as you feel necessary. Getting your tongue pierced can be a dangerous piercing to have done if not done properly.
Just think about it before hand :)
hope this helped xxx
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What hand does the engagement ring go on?
What hand does the wedding band go on?
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Both rings go on the finger between your little finger and your middle finger on your left hand. Usually the engagement ring goes on first before the wedding ring :)
Hope this helps xx
--- you wrote in the feedback that you wanted to know which hand... i told you... please read the answers to your questions properly.. thanks... ---
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Ive asked this question before and got no responce..
I saw your profile and you seem like a good person to ask it too :)
Hopefully you'll answer, beacuse I really
dont know.. haha.
So Theres this guy I know,
He's really cute.
I would be supprissed if girls didnt go after him.
When I first saw him, I figgered he was one of those cocky
guys (Most cocky guys are good looking.. ive noticed)
And I didnt Pay much attention to him at all.
Then he always looked at me and When I caught him starring he would look away. He would always try and talk to me and tap my shouler and try to make me laugh.
At first I thought he only acted this way beacuse I was paying no attention to him at all and he didnt like that.
But then he asked for my number and texted me right away.
We even began talking on the phone.. alot.
But Ive notcied, When we hang out with everyone else together he always gives the other girls hugs and things I dont know if he's "flirting" or jokeing around, but he told me he likes me, and I asked about those other girls and he said he likes them only as friends..
But how do i know he doesnt say the same thing to them?
Do guys do this to alot of girls or do you think he's telling the truth?
P.s- He one day really wanted to see me, came to my house,
and Held me in his arms while we played video games.. LOL XD
But how do I know he's not just a flirt? (link)
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These are kind of hard to figure out. You wonder if he's just being nice, if he's a world-class flirting champion, or if he's lying. I've been there lol. One thing's for sure...he does like you. If he wasn't into you, he wouldn't take the step to come to your place. As for the other girls, just watch him. He could just be an extremely nice guy, and they very well may be just friendly hugs ( I know a lot of guys like that). I say ride it out.
What to do from here? Have you two talked about dating? I myself am old school. I'm not one to ask a guy out, but it is the 21st century...there's nothing wrong with asking a guy out. If that's not your thing, just hang out together. Watch movies, go out to eat...the more alone time you get with him, the better idea you'll get as to just how into you he is. I'm not saying smother him though. That's the quickest way to freak him out. If he declines more than twice, then leave it up to him to ask you out.
I'm sure everything will work out!
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what are the age distinctions between: (if there are any)
infant
baby
toddler
tween
pre-teen
teenager
adolescent
young adult
adult
elderly
(anything else would be helpful too) (link)
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oooooookay,
so varying away from your list slightly, here's one i've made using information i've found :)
Newborn: 0months - 12 months
Toddler: 1 year - 3 years
Child: 4 years - 11 years
Youth: 12 years - 18 years
Adult: 18 years +
Elderly: 65 years +
A baby is usually classed as a newborn, where they can't really do a lot for themselves.
A tween usually refers to children between the ages of 9 and 13, basically the age where you're not a kid but you're not quite a teenager yet either.
A pre-teen, as far as i know, is within the 'tween' category, however it's more of a specific range. usually around 10-12 years of age.
An adolescent is usually from early teenager (13 years of age) to early adulthood (18 years of age)
A young adult is between the ages of 18 and 24, when you're still young and slightly immature, but well on your way to becoming an adult full time.
The grouping of an adult is often debated... some people say that you become and adult when you obtain adult-like duties and responsibilities. Basically when you start behaving like an adult. However you're usually classed as an adult from the age of either 18 or 21.
Elderly is usually based on the pension age, which is 65 :)
Hope this helps a little!
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I am 15/f. Big boned and 5 11'. Every since i can remember my breast have grown in to be saggy.My nipples are about 8cm in Diameter.I never wear lowcut shirts because my breast are so unnatractive.They are about 7cm apart from the other and my cleavege is nott nice. I am a size b cup or inbetween b and c cup depending on the bra. I have never owned a bra that has actually lifted my breast-ive never had a bra that has actually fit properly.What the hell happened. i don't know anyone who is like this.The last thing i would like to worry about is covering up my clevage. I'm effing 15 years old, i'm supposed to be showing off perky tits, not hiding away embarrassing saggy ones. My sister has a d cupp and hers are not saggy at all. why does this happen to me? Does this mean i'm going to have to go out of my way and do special excercises for my breasts?There is no way in hell that i am going to wear an old lady bra that probly won't do anything or fit me properly anyway. I am so jealous of women with breasts that they can actually show off and not be worried about pulling up a boob in their bra every minute. i even think that sounds disgusting! Just...how does one expect me to cope with this..its so irritating. I am ashamed of how I look even though i don't let others know about it.I know i should be happy with what i have and i know that everyone is different but even though i have so many good friends and a family that loves me....i just hate how i look.I have extremely broud shoulders, i'm bigger and taller than soo many guys at school....i have lived with it all my life..but now i just want to scream.i hate it. i can deal with sensitive skin, my pimples, my strech marks, but there are so many things on me that just get me. All my friends have to deal with is maybe having to have petite or tall sizes or not liking how something like their nose or cothing looks them when in reality they are beautiful and any guy would go for them because she is just the right size. I have to deal with pimples, my breasts, my shoes,my pants, shirts. My feet are extremely wide and a size 11(Canadian) so i usually have to buy mens shoes. Pants are either too short for me or too long and haveing a pair that fits my right is near impossible.I hate t shirts because my figure is shot. I am just not happy with how i look. I know that is wrong, i tell people all the time that self image is one of the most important things. right now i can't beleive ho hypacrytical i am. soo...yea...this was definatly not supposed to be this long cuz personally i hate reading questions this long, but it all just came out of me. I don't really have a question i guess, but anything said is greatly appreciated. Thanx. (link)
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aww hunny! please cheer up :)
there is definitely NOTHING wrong with you! I think you should go to a nice professional lingerie shop and get yourself fitted with a decent bra :) although they might be expensive they will help with the sagging! Also if you get yourself measure properly the assistant will show you your options and they're also really helpful :)
to help with clothes and stuff i've found this website, i've used it and i love it to pieces.. although i really love Gok Wan anyways :P
http://gok.channel4.com/step/shoulders/?ff=0
if you follow the steps it will help you out on particular styles and colours that will help suit your size and frame. It will also give you examples of the clothes that would best suit you :)
Since i am really tall (6ft2) i have large feet and long legs etc, and i buy all my stuff from here...
http://www.tallgirls.co.uk/
they have plenty of shoes etc too. and i know they're a UK company, but i looked into it and they do ship across the world.. so it might be worth a look?
Hope this helped a little
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Background Info: Ok soo the last time I had sex was begining of febuary. I got my period like 3 days after that and it was a normal period. Thenn in march my period was very late && when i got it It didnt even last two days and was very light which has never happend. Usualy my period last 4-5 days, stops for a day and then comes back for one more day. I had a pregnancy test about 2 days before my period in march and it was negative. My overies are tender and i think my breasts might be a bit tender also.
Question: Could I possibly be pregnant if not what could be wrong?
I want to make sure Im not pregnant because I just got put on a medication and it strictly says DO NOT USE IF PREGNANT!
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well there is a chance that you could be pregnant, however that wouldn't explain the negative test. The two day period of light spotting is sometimes a sign of pregnancy, although there are many other symptoms too.
I would recommend taking another test when your next period is due. you should really take it either the day your period is due or when your period is late. This will give you an accurate reading.
If that says negative too, and you still don't get a proper period i think you should see your doctor, there might not be anything wrong but personally i would get it checked out just to put your mind at rest.
In saying all that, if you're young and / or haven't been having a period for very long... your periods may just be irregular. Either way, good luck and i hope this was of some help to you
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Okay.. so taylor swift tickets are going on sale soon for her concert, and i heard that they sell out really fast.. how can i make sure i get some.. and some good ones?? Does anyone have any tips?? thanks (link)
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i'm not entirely certain about how you can make sure that you get a ticket...
the only thing i can really suggest is that you find out the exact time that the tickets go on sale and get there early! I'm not sure whether you can get them on the internet or not, but sometimes that's also a good idea :) use a fast broadband provider to prevent your internet from crashing and you should be fine.
However if you have to get them in person make sure you get there suuuper early, that should guarantee a good ticket.
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do twins date the same kind of girl/guy? (link)
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weeeeeeeeeell................. this is a hard question. It would depend on whether they are identical or not.
although just because they are twins doesn't mean that they always think a like and have the same opinions in stuff.
for example i knew twins who looked the exact same but personality wise were completely different. One liked cheese and the other hated the smell! So i really think it depends on the individual person.
I also i just read about twins, who were both girls, and one was a lesbian and one wasn't. So i guess that solves it... they don't necessarily date the same kind of person :)
hope this helps a little xxx
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has anyone ever felt at random moments like suddenly everything is clear and then you go back to feeling normal and at other times pangs of depression? (i dont have bipolar disorder or manic depressive i dont think) not like sometimes youre happy and sad but im not sure how to say it (link)
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Hiya,
i've often felt the sudden highs and lows... simulating bipolar disorder, in fact there have been multiple jokes on my behalf. When you say 'everything is clear' i'm not totally sure as to what you're referring to.
However, you might just be experiencing issues with your hormones, i know for a fact that they have a tendency to mess around with your moods and feelings.
Another reason for this could be lack of sleep? or food? Sometimes (depending on the person) sleep and/or food can change your perception on things and also alter how you're feeling.
I wouldn't let this bother you, i should imagine that it's all to do with hormones etc. However if you're still worried about it you could always talk to the doctor or councilor. Or maybe even your parents / friends?
hope this was of some use... sorry if it's not greatly helpful!
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I gusse my last question maybe nobody understand what i was saying. sorry if my grammer little wrong. I had hard time in school. I am Hard of hearing and have a disbilties. and reason I say that becouse it help what I am asking for. Okay I say I was 23 years old. when I was 16 I stop growing. Least I think I am still growing. my hormones very Low.. anyway I look maybe 5 year younger then for most 23 years olds out there. okay. Now thing is sometimes it hard find a guy that my age look for girl for my age not a girl that is younger think i am 14 or 16. i know i not go for a guy like that. okay. now here what i am saying. let say i go to the beach or anywhere i see a guy i think its cute and wonder what his age is. hopley over 18 you know? it hard to tell sometimes is it? plus i know some guys are muture and look for muture girl. i am muture and i kinda have hard time showing it. I do wear make up and i do dress up like any 23 year old. ok here my link to my myspace you see pic. www.myspace.com/flyingshinystar
tips I like is when i talk to a guy what i need to watch for? and how i sound like i am 23? thing is i have vocie is sound like young kid lol. well not kid but i kinda talk out my nose little bit from my cleft palted. i really like hear more from the guys. thanks i hope this explain it more then my last message!
if this don't work then i think another way to explain what i am saying. (link)
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Haha I am not laughing at you, but with you because I get the same reaction at my job. I'm 22 and I always have people ask me "what grade are you in" or say "you are so cute". The way I handle it is through conversation. If you talk about childish things, people will assume you're a child. And sometimes it's just easier to come right out and tell people your age.
As with the boys...ask them how old they are, then tell them how old you are. It's really that simple. If they don't believe you, prove it. Guys aren't as complicated as we make them. If you talk mature, act mature, and can prove your age, then you'll be fine.
Good luck!
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My son has had an issue of spitting at people and has gotten into trouble twice in the past three days. They have taken away recess and at home his dad and i have tried punishing him but it has continued. What should we do? (link)
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have you tried talking to him? there may be a reason behind it. Is he spitting at the same people/person? perhaps there is a hidden reason for him to being doing such things.
I think if you talk to him in a mature way and explain to him that it's wrong it may sink in a little. Ask him if he would like other people to spit on him. Ask how it would make him feel?
I have done a little research on the internet and stumbled across a couple of websites, they may not be that helpful. but i tried my best :)
http://www.babycenter.com/400_how-can-i-stop-my-son-from-spitting_500160_1000.bc
http://www.revolutionhealth.com/forums/parenting/tips-techniques/117200
hopefully this was of some help...
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so, i had sex for the first time ever last month and i thought the person that i had it with would be with me forever.. but he broke up with me, and now we don't talk. do you think i was a booty call? it hurts cuz it was special to me, ya know? what do i do? i'm so heartbroken, i don't know what to do. (link)
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I've been there SO many time, and let me first of all say that I'm extremely sorry you had to go through it. I know how that feels.
Here's what I had to learn the hard way. First of all, he didn't and doesn't care about you, and I know that hurts to hear. Second, there's a reason why people promote abstinance. The guy who will stick by you without sex is the one who really cares for you, and the one who keeps asking or pushing for it will eventually dump you, or will dump you after you give it to him. I know it sounds cliché, but it's true. Besides, you know your value. You are way to special to give yourself away to just anyone. Make sure that the next is there for you, not your body.
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Can you help me find a camera bag for my dslr & two lenses?
I can't seem to find one I really like and is affordable. Less than $100.
I'm looking for:
Dark colors,
Plain looking,
Something not too big,
just enough space for the
items mentioned above.
I kinda like the Crumpler 5 Million Dollar Home Shoulder Bag. But I really would prefer a zipper instead of velcro & clip closures. And I need a more comfortable strap for the shoulder.
Is there any like that?
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hey :)
i'm totally into my photography and i have a zipper bag that i acquired from ebay of all places! It was reasonably priced and i find it really easy to keep things safe and secure whilst i'm walking about!
I'm not sure if you've already looked on ebay.. or if you really want to, but here's a link anyway
http://shop.ebay.com/?_from=R40&_trksid=p3907.m38.l1313&_nkw=dslr+camera+bag&_sacat=See-All-Categories
sometimes the make of camera (eg Nikon) will have bags for your camera and lens' however they are likely to be more expensive.
as i'm from the UK i'm not sure what it's like where you are.. but there are plenty of camera shops... for example jessops where you can get bags. It might be worth while asking around to see if there are any near you!
hope this helped, if you need anymore information or help please feel free to get in touch!! xxx
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i dont understand people.
how come people always come to me to borrow or use something?
like, someone once said, "oh i would ask so-and-so but so-and-so is too nice."
its not like i know the person any less than so-and-so unless the borrower just felt more comfortable with me? or doesnt care about.. i dunno.
i dont get it. what are your principles when it comes to borrowing other people's stuff? (link)
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hmmmmm... personally if I borrow something from someone I usually go to someone who i know won't mind, or if i feel comfortable enough to ask them.
However it really does just depend on what kind of stuff people are borrowing. I found that once someone borrows something, more people will come to you to borrow stuff... just because they know you'll let them.
This happened to me when i was at school and i got so much stuff broken i just had to start saying no to people. and although i felt bad, my stuff didn't get broken :)
If it starts bothering you then i suggest to just say no, but explain why so they don't get pissy at you :)
hope this helps! xxx
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I'm dating this girl at my school. We're very close and such, been dating awhile, exclusive, blah blah blah.
Anyway, I go in late on some days when I don't have class, and I just found this donut place by my house. Would it be too much if I were to show up during snack at school with a donut for her? I don't want to come off as like... overly sweet I guess. So, good idea or no? (link)
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HA!
you have to do it!
she will love you long time ;) hehe
but seriously, i don't think you will appear 'overly sweet' or anything like that. I believe your girlfriend will be over the moon with your gesture! and a lot of girls will be very jealous too.. i would be for sure... who doesn't like a good donut, right?!
deffo go for it :) and if she doesn't want it... hell i'll have it!! hehe
good luck xxx
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