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does this make me bisexual?
Okay, so I've always considered myself to be straight since I have never had a crush on a girl or anything like that. I don't have the same feelings for girls (sexual tension) as I do for boys. My relationships have always been with boys, and I've never thought of a girl as anything more than a friend.
However, sometimes I like to imagine myself having sex with women. Sometimes a threesome or more. Something about the naked female body intrigues me. Female porn turns me on. I've often wondered if I'd ever sexually experiment should the right person come along. But I don't really want to be bisexual, since I'd never have a relationship with a girl. So am I still straight?
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everybody has thoughts now and again about each sex. people just have those thoughts to different degrees. you sound bi curious or bi from the waist up. this is very common. it's nothing to worry about. at some point you'll know if this is just a nice fantasy for you or if it is something you truly want to try. if you have any choice in the matter it is definitely better to try this before you get into a heavy relationship. if you're with a guy things and want to try things you can't really do it on your terms. either the guy will be all into it like a horn dog or they will have some confidence issue. also, it can kill a relationship. if you ever do this, just do so when you're single. you won't have anyone to answer to. in my experience, most girls have done something with another girl. in my experiences i'd say 60-70 percent of women have some sort of same gender experience. they just aren't always open about it. so you are not alone at all. you'll figure this out eventually. it just takes awhile for us to find ourselves.
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To be honest, I'm 20, and I think about having relations with a girl. I call it bi-curious. I have never physically done anything with a girl, besides kiss, but I think everyone does that. Ha. You are considered straight, well in my eyes, but there are lots of girls who think and do get "turned on" by watching other girls, I think that's the one thing we have over males, we can get turned on by the same sex and still be straight. I look at it like this, we don't get called bi or lezbo if we check out other girls, just like guys don't get called whores for sleeping around with different girls. So it equals out. You are just comfortable with your sexuality to actually think of another woman like that. I have never personally had a 3some or anything like that, but if your mind wonders to a point that you want to do that, don't do it with your boyfriend and another woman, cuz I have herd that can cause some sort of problems in the long run.
But don't think having thoughts like that makes you bi-sexual actually there is no true reason why anyone should be labeled like that, it is 2 humans expressing a sexual act with each other.
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Don't bother labeling yourself. It will probably change in college anyway.
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I personally think that you are just having a hard time deciding whether or not you are straight or bisexual. If you are straight you would not be having thought of having threesomes or more with females. I think you should think about this problem a lot more.
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well, there's nothing wrong with being intrigued by the female body, and studies show that most women have have had or have sexual fantasies involving other women, and do not necessarily call themselves bisexual. you are the one who gets to decide if you want a label put on you or not, but id say exploring your sexuality in such a way would not make you bisexual...just curious!
xo vivi
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