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Sexual fantasies


Question Posted Saturday April 11 2009, 1:45 pm

This is not a physical sex questions, it's more of a request of an explanation. You'll understand after reading the question.

I had sex for the first time a couple weeks ago. Since then I've been having a lot of se dreams, and by sex dreams. I've been having dreams of me having sex with like every guy I know, and it's kind of weird. Like I even imagined myself with my best friend's boyfriend, and I don't even like him at all, and he's not that good looking either. I've recently gotten over a "boy issue" and I know that's cause me to have weird reactions to some things, but sex dreams? I've never really been interested in sex before, I found it kind of revolting. The sex a few weeks ago, just sorta happened, I was drunk at a friend's party and well, me and a guy were talking and then one thing led to another. So basicaly I'm curious as to why I'm all of a sudden horny all the time and dreaming of having sex with lots of guys. It's getting out of hand.

Thanks in advance.

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WittyUsernameHere answered Sunday April 12 2009, 1:29 am:
Sex dreams happen. In your case, its probably a factor of your repressed sexual side being released all at once.

Sex dreams are pretty much just your manifestation of a desire to have sex, combined with pictures of people who are familiar to you. It means you find the guys sexually attractive, but thats hardly a unique identifier.

Also, judging by your description of the first time, you are probably kinda sexually frustrated since you've had sex but don't have a boyfriend that you continue to sleep with.

Masturbate more, especially before bed. And enjoy the dreams, its just your subconscious having fun.

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momo13mtv answered Saturday April 11 2009, 11:31 pm:
that is weird and kind of funny. its probably just hormones happening crazily. Eventually it will wear off. lolz. You r probably horny all the time and just have to get used to it. kk Good Luck :p

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LiseJose answered Saturday April 11 2009, 10:04 pm:
well. it could just be that you liked it alot. since your horny all the time that just means you want more so if you dont have anyone special in your life you should wait until you do, if you dont you could get taken advatage of and your future could get ruined. if your not happy about losing your virginity then forget about it regain your virginity dont do it again until your ready. get yourself busy so that you have other things on you mind and if you still have dreams just fight it, listen to yourself if anybody comes around that makes you horny.

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Dakizah answered Saturday April 11 2009, 4:06 pm:
I've been having the same problem with that. Since I've lost my virginity, I've been having sex dreams also. It's completely natural, and I believe it comes with becoming sexually active. Haha. Don't worry about it! Dreams are dreams. Just think about them and laugh. :] Minds can do such silly things.

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