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Why do you put that in your name then refuse me all information?
Ok im getting a bit annoyed with the girl i once liked... i finnaly got over h er about a week and a bit ago i think but of course theres still some little feeling there for her but anyways..
shes constantly changing her facebook and MSN status to stupid things like "im going to sort this out!" or "I hope that doesnt happen again.."
whenever i ask her what shs on about she allways says oh nothing dont worry, i know its not much of buisness asking her why but kmon!! shes obviosuly just trying to grab attention by putting stupid phrases like that to make people wonder whats wrong with her. whats with her? do you do this??? i dont do this!?!! >_<
thanks for ya help good people
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Now, you've pin pointed what I see as the 14th most pressing example of how today's youth is mediocre at best.
Our parents have spawned a generation of attention whores. While part of the problem is self absorption, the real issue is insecurity. We're so insecure that we feel the need to validate ourselves towards others, which is why people have to post Myspace bulletins that says "o0o0o0omg funnest night XDDD!!!! the twinkie in the fruit salad was pric3l3sss!!111". Only three or four people would know what this person is talking about, and they know that. They just feel the need to show the rest of the world that they are cool, they do have a social life, they do have friends, and they are fulling immersed in the high school experience. Why do they feel the need to do this? Because they're insecure. And they care about what the world thinks about them, or really what they perceive the world to think about them.
When you see people that do the in-joke Myspace bulletin or the Facebook status change of vagueness, you're looking at the most insecure people you know. You're not looking at the popular kid or well-liked kid, you're looking at the weakest and least developed.
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I do not do this. This has to be the dumbest thing i have ever heard. I think that this friend of yours just wants to be an attention getter because she has nothing better to do with her life.
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Ok a lot of girls will do this for attention to make you look at their page and wonder whats going on, its just a girl thing we want you in our lives and to wonder and worry about us, its just a feeling we like. So if you want her to stop, quit asking her what its about, then she will think "oh well thats not working anymore" and most likely she will quit. Most guys dont do it, thats why its so hard for most guys to understand girls. But i hope i helped and good luck! =]
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Yes, she's obviously wanting attention and trying to make you talk to her - which you're still doing. The only reason she's doing it is because you're responding to it, so you should stop doing that otherwise you're still going to be annoyed with her. I've never personally done this, but I know girls who have and they do it because they want attention - that's the only reason they do it.
Stop asking her why! and watch she'll seriously over time stop doing it!!
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