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So i really like this guy and he likes me. He has done a lot more than i have and ive done basically nothing. I'm supposed to hang out with him sometime at his house and im very nervous. I have not kissed a guy since i was in the 6th grade and im in the 10th right now. Ive had bf's but it was always so weird and awkward until now. This is the first time in a very long time where i like someone a lot. And im very nervous with everything and i dont know what to do. Im very afraid that im going to suck at everything because im so inexperienced. So what do i do to get better or how do i handle the situatuion. I'm not planning on having sex with him but other things might come up if not when im there then some other time so i just need help on how to handle it and what to do. (link)
Heyyy :D
Welll, I was in the exact same position like a month a go. I had just had my first kiss this year, and I'm in 9th grade. I knowwwww, lame. Anywayss, what I did was asked my guy friends what they thought felt good, and what I should do. Then I practiced on a pickle ;P hehe, it may sound lame, but it actually helped me test my gag reflex. Have you ever masterbated? Well it helped me so it wouldn't hurt as bad. I started with my pinkie, then I used on finger, then two, then three. This will help you loosen up so when he does it it won't hurt. When I went to my bf's house, I was really scared. So I started off saying that I was nervous and excited, and that I reeeally wanted to pleasure him. I started off telling him that I wanted to lick his shaft, etc to get him aroused, so then he could do it back.


Please reply and let me know how you feel and if it helps.


i am a virgin but i really want 2 have sex,but i cant find any 1 2 have sex with wat shud i do have sex with a random person or just keep masturbating 13/f (link)
You are waaaaaaaaay to young.



















my friend was supposedly doing something with this guy and she told me what they did and then the next day when i got to school she wouldn't talk to me because everyone found out somehow and she thinks i told everyone. i don't know what to do. (link)
hey :)

don't worry. first off you need to calm down :)

have you tried talking to her about it? that's probably the best thing you can do. Being honest with someone is the only way really. If she doesn't believe you then give her some time, and try and explain yourself again :)

If they're a true friend then they will come around eventually. They're probably just a bit upset and embarrassed at the moment.

if you need anything else please email me again :) and i'll try to help you as best as i can!! xxxx

let me know how it goes :)


16/f

i've been thinking about what i want to do when i'm older and i want to do something that will help people and/or the environment.
i don't want to be a doctor or a teacher.

does anyone have any ideas of careers like that?

thanks a ton! (link)
U could be like the people from extreme makeover: home edition. these people help other people that may have problems in the family or people who may have lost their homes. you should consider looking them up because they do a fantastic job. hope i help u enough.


i work at a daycare and i work with 3,4, and 5 year olds, and we have a girl who loves to hit the other kids a lot, it seems like nothing we do works to get here to stop even when the other kids hit her back she just tells them it did not hurt, i mean she is 3 years old i just dont know wat to do any ideas, (link)
Have you tried to discipline her? if not you should. your child should not b hitting other kids and you should not be allowing her to do so. if you are trying to stop her and she doesn't then u should take away the things that she loves to play or have. then c if her habit changes. is she in school yet?


Hey i was planning on waxing my bikini line for the first time, any tips?? im doing it at home by my self cause i dont want my mom to know im doing it. i have the wax and the strips and everything cause my mom waxes my eyebrows for me, so i have access. i just need a little help. i know to go against the growth. but. helpp please :DD (link)
i got this off a google link:

- try it out on a small area first to smake sure that you dont have an allergic reaction, on that specific part.
- put the wax on in the same direction as the hair growth, but rip the strip off against the hair growth.
-put on some cooling lotion after, so it doesnt get all red and that


thats all i managed to findd?


I have a crush on this girl in school, but I no that she doesn't feel the same way about me(she has a boyfriend already). How do I get her to love me instead of him? (link)
What u do not want to do is try and take some other guys girlfriend. if you do that you are looking for some trouble. plus why go after a girl that probably doesn't think about you like that? it is a waste of your valuable time to go after her. you should get someone that likes to be around you and cares about you.


I'm 13(m) and I have a crush on a girl in school. I have been trying to give her signs and I have been flirting with her, but she never seems to notice. How do I get her to notice? (link)
If this girl talks to you and flirt backs with you then she likes you. if she doesn't then you should move on and find some one else that finds you at their interest.


i saw this movie about a year ago and its kind of a scary movie but theres these young adults and they play this game on a laptop and when their character dies in the game one of the people dies in real life????
(link)
i think that's Stay Alive.


The song goes like hottier than the street life gonna get dead right.......... (link)
Street light by Plies


what are the age distinctions between: (if there are any)

infant
baby
toddler
tween
pre-teen
teenager
adolescent
young adult
adult
elderly

(anything else would be helpful too) (link)
infant newborn - 6 months
baby 6 months - 1 year
toddler 1 year - 5 years
tween 5 years - 10 years
pre-teen 11 years - 13 years
teenager 13 years - 17 years
adolescent 17 years - 19 years
young adult 19 years - 29 years
adult 30 years - 70 years
elderly 70 years - how ever long that they live from there.


How can you make money fast? i need like 300 dollars but i have no job. HELP!! (link)
This is what u do. You put together a garage sell and if you have a lot of old gold jewelery get it appraised and get a small side job. this does not be a bone head and get a job selling drugs. get a job that doesn't get u locked up for five years.


what is the real reason chris beat up rihanna? (link)
Chris beat up Rihanna because Rihanna iz the one who did wrong and messed his life up. Think about Chris Brown has been out longer than her and never had a problem in his life until she came along into his life.


At the moment my boyfriend is locked up and i am 7 1/2 months pregnant. Like 2 weeks ago my best friend kissed me and i didnt stop him . We chill like everyday now. I really to love my boyfriend but im starting to get feeling 4 my best friend. At the moment i dont know what to do. I dont know what to say or think. Can u please at least help me with this? (link)
Does your boyfriend love you? if not then u should probably drop him and star going with your best friend. you seem to no more about him than you know about you boyfriend. plus he is there for you instead of your boyfriend. Maybe you should c what you boyfriend has in store for you or if he really loves you.


well i want a cell phone. ive wanted one for a REALLY long time and i think i actrulLY NEED one. i have to call my parents all the time and i need to keep in touch with my friends (duh!).my mom thinks i don't need one and they are stupid. how can i convice her to let me get one? i mean i really really want one (w/ a texting plan) and need one. (link)
This mom of yours seems like she does not want you to have one because maybe she does not trust you or your friends. You have to tell her mom i need a cell phone because i want to talk to my friends and i need to have one. then point this out, if i don't have a cell phone and i am on the road where i have no money to use pay phone, how am i going to contact you if i run out of gas? maybe then she will reconsider the fact of you getting a cell phone.


hey im having a birthday party and i want to rent a funny movie to watch.
any movies such as 40-year-old virgin, zack and miri, american pie, etc. is what im looking for
thanks (link)
I'll give you 1 to 14 funny movies.

1. Undercover Brother
2. Dodgeball
3. Bebe's Kids
4. Eight Crazy Knights
5. Elf
6. Billy Madison
7. Johnson's Family Vacation
8. Scary Movie 1-4
9. Epic Movie
10. Wedding Crashers
11. Goldmember
12. Norbit
13. Fun with Dick and Jane
14. Who's your caddy?
these are all hilarious movies.


my mom broke up with my dad when i was 2 she found another guy and has been married to him a long time and he is an ass how do i get my mom to break up with him?she doesnt love him anymore anyway (link)
I personally think that your mom should make this decision on whether or not to divorce him. if there was any way u could i know you would get rid of this "ass". if your moms not in love with him any more it's her decision to get rid of his ass.


Sorry, I didn't really know which category to put this in. I'm a 13 year old girl. My friends practically live for their cell phones and change them at least twice a year (everybody in my grade does). I don't know about other countries, but where I'm from, new and updated phones come out nearly every week. My phone is around two years old, and it's seriously old and outdated. I get good grades and I'm pretty responsible. .It might be a little silly, but I feel embarassed with my phone and feel pressure with my friends.My parents think phones should be emergency-only. Are they being unreasonable or am I? (link)
I think both of you are being unreasonable. for your parents they don't want to spend a lot of money. for you, you just want to follow the crowd instead of being the leader. how about you get something before any one else has. then they'll want to follow behind you.


so i'm 18 years old, female.
i will say, i love my parents to death. we have a pretty good relationship together and yeah they get annoying sometimes but they're always there for me. they care about me. the only problem is that i'm 18 and still have a curfew of 12:30!! even since i started driving at 16 my curfew has been that. now it's my dad who i have to try and persuade to try and let me stay out as long as i want. i've tried asking him if i didnt have to have a curfew and guess what he said? well if you want to pay rent, you dont have to have a curfew but as long as your under my roof, what i say goes. he also said he is worried about drunk drivers being out late at night, but whatever. it's not like ive ever done anything for them not to trust me, im honestly a really good kid. i get good grades, i have a job, i dont get into trouble. all my friends dont have curfews, i am 18, dont you think its silly too? how can i talk my dad into at least letting me stay out later?! (link)
i think that your parents are just looking out for your best interest. I would hate it to. having to come in by 12:30 sucks because that's when all the real fun starts. that's all i can say about that. see if you can get on their good side on a week where something big is about to popoff.


I'm a 13 year old female and i've been getting the urge to masturbate.
-am i too young to masturbate?
-does it hurt?
-how do i do it?
please help me! i dont know anything bout it but i've just heard of it. (link)
i to am 13 years old. i have never had the urge to masturbate a day in my life. i believe you are too young to masturbate. i wouldn't know how to do it or if it hurts. if you still want to do it you should ask someone who has done it before to c if it hurts and how to do it.




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