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How do I get a girl to like me instead of her boyfriend?
I have a crush on this girl in school, but I no that she doesn't feel the same way about me(she has a boyfriend already). How do I get her to love me instead of him?
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Maybe you could become friends first; go in a slowly headed direction. at least you will be closer to her.
U might even be able to forget her.
<3 Good luck!
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You can't. She's already with her boyfriend & you cannot make her love you just because you like her.
Wait for them to break-up. If you're not willing to wait, move on.
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For starters it depends on what your willing to go through. If she ends up liking you both you could end up with a broken heart =/ sometimes girls end up liking two people and its really hard to choose between them. It also depends on how long she has been dating him but since your only 13 the relationship shouldnt last that long. So start talking to her, and tell her how you feel and see how she reacts but be careful. Be sweet and understanding that she still has a boyfriend but just put it out there that you are there for her too. Good luck and hope i helped =]
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What u do not want to do is try and take some other guys girlfriend. if you do that you are looking for some trouble. plus why go after a girl that probably doesn't think about you like that? it is a waste of your valuable time to go after her. you should get someone that likes to be around you and cares about you.
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There is no way to make a girl love you. She either does or she doesn't. You don't want to be the guy who takes anthers girlfriend. Just be friendly with her, be a friend. Be patient.
13 is just a little young to be boyfriend/ girlfriend anyway. No offense intended, but you can't "date" in the traditional sense. So what she has with this other guy is not a big deal. Be a friend and when she is available, you'll be the one she turns to.
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I agree with Trauma and also look at it like this, if you just so happen to get her to "fall" for you, then obviously it want be hard for another guy to come around and sweep her off her feet. Just well i guess find another girl. If your her friend then just be there for her, girls need that more then just a boyfriend. But don't be the "jerk" type and take her away from someone who she might actually have feelings for.
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You don't. You probably won't like my answer, but imagine how you would feel if you were this girl's boyfriend & another guy was trying to get her to love him instead of you. It's definitely not a good feeling, & there's a good chance the girl will only see you as a jerk if you try to do something like that.
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