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i started dating this guy and really thought he was the one..but when i introduced him to my family they hated him..so we kept going out and he came to support me in a pagent i was doing and afterwards my parents told me i had to choose between him and them and if i choose him i ad to move out.So i choose them but didnt have the heart to tell my bf and so the other night i did and now he has turned really horrible to me telling me he never cared about me knowing that it hurts..any advice? (link)
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Well that wasn't smart of him to say that stuff to you. It's pretty much showing you that your family was right.
Anyways, I think you made the right choice. You should ask your family why they didn't like him.
He obviously wasn't a good guy for you, your family didn't think so and his reaction to what you told him was terrible.
So I think you should focus on moving on. It's definitely ok to be upset, because break ups hurt. Just focus on you and move on.
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How do you know if your hymen is "broken" (I know it can't really break, it just tears the tissue and such) I have been using tampons for two years, i used to be very physical when I didn't have my period also. I have never had sex, but I want to know if my hymen is still intact. How can you tell if its been broken or not? Thanks! (link)
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Like Dragonflymagic said, they don't tear, they stretch.
A lot of people think that the hymen completely covers the vagina and think that it needs to be "popped" or "broke" when you have sex. But obviously that wouldn't work because then girls wouldn't be able to have their period.
You can stretch your hymen by having sex, tampons, ect.
The only time they tear is when you do something wrong. They aren't supposed to tear. So if you're doing something too rough down there, that's when it can tear and it can cause you to bleed.
When you stop using tampons or don't have sex for awhile, it'll go back to how it was before.
So anyways, you never lose your hymen.
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So I've been on a date once with a guy so I didn't have to worry about any planning, but I want to take this girl on a date, but my parents won't give me a lot of money right now. I was originally going to take her bowling but does anyone know any creative not too expensive date ideas that she'd probably like? (link)
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You could try seeing a matinee movie, those are cheaper than normal. Then go out to eat at a restaurant that's not too expensive.
You could even rent a movie, get some take out, and eat at home.
You could make dinner for her. That's always impressive.
You can go somewhere like a park or anywhere with grass where you can spread a blanket and have a picnic or even just get some take out and hang out.
You can go for a walk and finish it with another idea.
You can go for a hike or bike ride.
You can go dancing.
If there is a pond or lake with ducks around, you can go walk around there and throw some bread for the ducks.
Some zoos aren't too expensive and if there is one near you, you can go there.
Some museums have a day where you can walk through for free. So you can check that out.
Anyways, those are some things I'd enjoy on a first date. A lot are a nice way to get to know someone.
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You want to be with someone abd their reply to you is "You don't want to be with me" abd when you ask them why they respond "because I am not strong enough"? (link)
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Well they're pretty much saying that they don't want to be with you.
I mean they might "want" to be with you, but they are saying that they don't feel like they can be with you.
They might not be ready for a relationship or there is a lot going on in their life.
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I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. Initially when we got together he had a high porn addiction, but now we have been living together for a year and even longer than that, he's been watching it in reasonable amounts and for instance if I'm gone for the weekend.
I'm fine with that, but what concerns me is that his content choice is everything that I am not...
I.e he's always searching for threesomes, big boobs (I'm not even that small, I am a big C cup), hot redheads and anal.
From a guy's perspective, is this a reflection on everything I am not, or is it simply the small turn ons or even compensation; I have told him I'll never have a threesome as it never is as awesome as porn makes it seem & I don't think it is something for a serious couple.
I'm up for anal but he's never made the effort to commit to it - it takes both of us to make it happen & yes it requires more work than it does in porn but he's not even up for buying lube.
So please settle my mind by telling me what exactly guys see their porn choices as, desires? Simply just naked people fucking? (link)
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I don't think it's because he wants something that's other than you. I think it's just something he fantasizes about but might not really care for in reality.
He might just like the look of it but wouldn't care to act on it.
So I think porn is just fantasies. If it bothers you and you really want to know if these are things he wants, then just ask him.
As you already know, sex isn't what it's lived up to be in porn. Those things could be cool ideas to watch but not to actually do.
Anyways, that's just my opinion. I'd talk to him if you're really curious.
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I want to finger my best friend Emily she's hotter now and I have always been in lve with her since I first met her she finally grew tits and definitely hit her period so how do I get her to let me finger her?
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So I'm assuming you are in your early teens.
You can't convince a girl to let you finger her. Girls aren't looking for sexual things. They look for love, relationships, loyalty. If you can't give them that, then they don't really care to become intimate with you.
You seem to be looking for sex or sexual things so you should just leave it alone because you could ruin the friendship you have with her by asking her to let you finger her.
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So I'm 13yrs old and I know for a fact that my dad is cheating on my mom...so I kinda know at first but know I clearly know that it is true because I have evidence...so I went to my dads phone and went straight to the messages and I saw this number so then I clicked on it and it was my dad having a conversation to the ugly lady..i know because she sent pics...but anyways she called him big daddy!! Yupp that awsome but I was soo mad... I told my mom about less than a month ago so she Knows.. And she was crying and I felt bad so I have the lady's number and I am going to call it in the morning to see Wat happens so everybody wish me luck..... Oh and YES I know that this is know of MY business
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I don't know what the point would be to call her.
Cheating effects the whole family, so yes it does involve you but you really have no need to call the woman.
The thing is, now that your mom knows, she and your father need to work it out and figure out what they are going to do.
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Hi ... 14 F ( english is not my home language so sorry) So as you can see i'm a teen. I'm madly inlove with my bf. He is one of those bad boys but is very cute and nice. Yeasterday we chilled and he held me and my hand and so on. But i'm going away for two weeks and i'm scared he wil forget me! how do i tell him that i'm scared of that ? coz u know guys they'll just say there's nothing to warry about..... Also there's this girl who can't keep her hands off of him. help me pleez (link)
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Relationships don't work if you don't trust your partner. You don't trust him because you think he'll forget about you because you're gone for a couple weeks. If he does, then he was never a good boyfriend.
He doesn't sound like a good boyfriend if you think he won't be faithful if you weren't there for a couple weeks.
Anyways, the only thing you can do is trust him. Learn to trust him. If you can't, then don't be with him.
As for the girl who can't keep her hands off him, does he ever tell her to stop? Or to respect boundaries because he has a girlfriend? If he doesn't, and he's ok with her being all over him, then that's not right. He needs to tell her that he has boundaries because he's in a relationship.
Anyways, you need to trust him because relationships will not work without trust.
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My daughter is starting to become obsessed with DIY. She wants to do some stuff with clothes and stuff but she only has clothes that are to small for her. She says shes really bad at cutting too. I want her to stop telling me she's bored so I want to know so fun DIY's for my 12 year old that will be cheap for my pockets! (link)
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My first idea would be to go on Pinterest and look up creative or DIY and lots of things will come up.
They have lots of cute ideas with clothes, hair accessories, scarfs, blankets, ect.
Try getting her into sewing. She could make lots of things, just find her some cheap fabric at the store.
Just look some stuff up online and see what materials you need and see if she'd be willing to do them.
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well me (14) and my bf (13) have been dating for almost 8 months. and i am kinda broke cuz i dont got a job,cuz no one wants a 14 yr old workin at krogers. but i want to give my bf a present.....the probblem is, i dont know what to give him that he will love, and it cheap. like $10.00 and under cheap. or even $5.00, any ideas?
p.s i am a girl, and a a little over a year older than my bf.
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I think you should make him something.
Last year I made my boyfriend a gift basket. Just put little things together that you think he'd like. I put some candy in it and I also went down an aisle in a store where they sold the mini shampoos and cologne for men and added those too. You could also add a gift card to it.
I also made heart shaped brownies and cake pops.
So you could make him brownies, cookies or even cupcakes. Boys love food so he would appreciate it.
If he likes sports you could get him something sports related.
If you can cook, or you can have your parents help you, you can cook him dinner.
You can get a picture of the two of you and buy a picture frame.
If you guys write notes to each other, you can look through them and take some quotes out and make it into a colorful collage.
You could also make a scrapbook and put all the memorable things of you guys in it.
If you don't like scrapbooking, you can make a slideshow of pictures of both of you with a song you both like.
I'd also make a homemade card for him. Just look some up and you'll find some really cute ones.
So those are some ideas I came up with. Hopefully they helped!
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Hello. My bf and I have been going out for almost two months. We used to talk to each other a lot and send messages back and forth on Instagram. But since summer started he has stopped texting me and responding to my Instagram comments. On the other hand, his cousin and I are really good friends. And we talk to each other everyday. I've also formed a little crush on him and he has too. Then yesterday on Instagram, his ex (who I truly hate) sent me a comment on Instagram asking if him and I were still going out. What should I do because I really love my current bf but I'm afraid he doesn't like me or has cheated on me!
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You need to talk to him because it's not fair to you to be wondering if he still wants to be with you. If you don't want to be with him, you should tell him. Find a way to talk to him and see what's going on. If he doesn't want to be with you, he should be man enough to tell you that. He shouldn't be too immature to face it.
If he had a good reason as to why he hasn't been talking to you, like maybe a family member died or something, then ok but he still needs to tell you. So you should talk to him and see what's going on.
If you don't want to be with him and you like his cousin, then break up with him.
As for his ex, it's none of her business. You don't need to respond to anything she asks you.
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I'm 15 (almost 16) and my boyfriend will be 18 in about a week. I'm not exactly sure what to get him for his birthday. we've been dating for 5 months and we're really close. I want to get him something meaningful. something he can unwrap but I also wanna take him somewhere. I'm his girlfriend and it's his 18th birthday so I wanna do something really special and I want it to be the best present he gets. I was thinking a Red Sox game but he can't drive, he can get his license on his birthday but the way it works out is kind of iffy. so I don't wanna risk anything. I was thinking beef jerkey, sour patch kids, and a sports hat or sports tshirt. but I wanna go somewhere meaningful or get him something meaningful. any ideas are help ful and greatly appreciated! from both guys and girls would be great too. thank you :) (link)
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So you know he's into sports, so I think the hat or tshirt is a good idea. Even a blanket with his team on it.
I think something meaningful would be a little gift basket full of things you think he'd like.
For Valentines Day last year, that's what I did. I got some candy, and I went to an aisle in the store that had some mini shampoos and cologne and stuff and got some of those because they are cheap and awesome for a gift basket. Even gift cards are nice.
Anyways, little things like that would be awesome. I also made heart shaped brownies and cake pops.
So maybe make him some treats like cookies or brownies, even cupcakes. Guys love food.
If you wanna go out, you could probably plan a date like going out for food. Somewhere in your price range. I wouldn't go out on his birthday if he has plans with family or something but maybe the next day or something.
Or you could make him dinner.
You could buy his favorite TV show on DVD.
Maybe a video game.
If you guys ever wrote notes to each other, maybe take some quotes out of them and make them into a collage with some other memorable things.
You could also make a scrapbook of pictures of the two of you and different things you guys did together.
Or if you don't want to do a scrapbook, you can make a slideshow with songs you both like or something.
If you don't like those ideas, a picture of the two of you would be cute and meaningful. And you could make a homemade card.
Hope these helped!
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i am so ashamed but where do i start basically im 19 i already have a one year old not with the father because i choose horrible men and he didnt want me anymore just the baby, ive had sex with about 13 people since i was 16 and ive cheated before i feel so ashamed of how my life has become and am looking for some reason to change but i cant find it please would you be able to help me? (link)
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The casual sex was your choice, it doesn't mean you're a bad person or anything.
Since you want to change, you can. Are you a sex addict? Like you feel the need to have sex and always want it? Then you should get professional help. If you had sex just for the heck of it and you just enjoyed it but didn't feel like you needed it, then you can probably do it on your own, but it's always good to have assistance. So ask for help.
I think that's the best advice I can give you. I'd say get counseling or something that can slowly get your working towards progress and see why you feel the way, ect.
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i want to do sex wth my virgin girl with out condom is it safe. (link)
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No it's not safe. You could still possibly get STIs and so can she, even if she's a virgin.
Then of course there is the chance of her getting pregnant, even if she's on birth control.
So no, it's not safe. If you have sex with her, wear a condom and make sure she's on birth control.
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So hey guys, I'm gonna try to make this as short as possible.. So i was a dancer for a sweet 16, the 16 was on Saturday, we went in the limo and everything, and so my dancing partner and i acted like we were boyfriend & girlfriend... The whole day.. Anyways, the sweet 16 girls aunt uploaded a picture of us with his arm around me, and another one with us holding hands, and another one with me sitting on his lap with his arm around jr and us holding hands, well he doesn't have a Facebook, but his mom and grandma do. His mom commented 'that girl has a sweet and beautiful mother in law' on another one she commented 'next time you two should sit down with me and have a talk, it's my first time being a mom in law' his grandma commented 'am i gonna be a great grandma?' And his mom calls me her 'daughter in law' on another pic she commented 'i got the good news, and it's been confirmed that they're together!' .... does this mean he told his mom were going out ? Does she like me? Is he my boyfriend? If we are together, does it mean I'm his first girlfriend? Please answer! Thanks in advanced :) (link)
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Most of the time nowadays the guy will ask the girl to be their girlfriend.
In my opinion, you guys aren't officially together like boyfriend or girlfriend until he makes this clear.
His mom and grandma are probably just being silly but they probably know he likes you or something. Or they might have assumed you guys are dating because of the pictures holding hands, ect.
But he's not your boyfriend, you should probably ask him why his mom and grandma is saying this and see what he says. Then hopefully he'll make it clear to you about how he feels and if he wants to be your boyfriend.
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One of my best friend's having her 13th birthday next month. She's going to have a few friends (probably around 8 girls) around for a sleepover. Last year she did the same thing, and though it was fun, it was quite dull, and plain. So i just wanted a few ideas to liven it up, seeing as it's her 13th. Something we'll remember for ever. Something exiting and impulsive, Perhaps at her local park? Anyway, thanks.
BTW we can't go anywhere far away. Though we can go to the park.
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I'd say make sure that you always have something to do. Like there is always something available to do so that you all are just sitting around.
When one of my friends turned 14 one year, she had a garage dance party. So you could play some music and just dance. Have lots of soda and snacks. She also had a air hockey table and a lot of people loved that. Anything like that. I'd also say have board games out when people get tired of dancing and they can relax.
Another one of my friends had a scavenger hunt at their party. I thought that was pretty cool. You can be pretty creative. You don't have to go door to door, you can have people take pictures of them doing a certain thing or find certain things around the neighborhood.
If she has a pool, you can do a pool party and if she doesn't, you can use water balloons.
I also really liked the idea of them bringing money and going to the mall.
Maybe even at night you could have like a "camp" type thing. Have a bon fire and eat smores, tell secrets, ghost stories, ect.
I was never into this, but maybe you and your friends might like fashion show type thing. Like dress up and walk down a runway.
Then there is the classic sleepover party. Staying up late, music, movies, lots of food, makeovers, ect.
If you have karaoke or a dancing game or something, that can be a lot of fun.
Or maybe a twist to have people dress up. Maybe like a formal black and white back in the day type of dresses or a masquerade type thing. It's always fun to dress up.
Anyways, I hope some of these ideas helped. I love parties, I hope your friend has a great birthday!
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im getting the iphone5 and I want to know that its going to be around or something new isn't just going to come up since im saving for it and don't want to have to switch to a different phone in a short amount of time (link)
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There's always going to be something new coming out so I wouldn't really worry about what's in. Because I'm sure their coming up with something else.
I mean people are still using iPhone 4s.
But yeah, something else will be out because they want more money and want to beat everyone else out.
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when you have sex dose it feel good (link)
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It's different for each person.
If you're young, it will most likely hurt more because your body is still growing and changing.
I'm also assuming it's your first time because you want to know how it feels. Most women's first time hurts. I think it varies from person to person.
Your boyfriend will enjoy it because he won't be getting any of the pain but it'll most likely hurt for you at first.
As long as he goes slow and doesn't try to rush into it this first time, you should be ok.
If you decide to have sex, make sure you're on birth control and you use condoms. You don't want to get pregnant or get any STIs.
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So basically, I'm 14 and I've been dating this guy for four months. The first two months were amazing; he made me feel like I was the only girl around. But then I started noticing that he wasn't that communicative and on my birthday he just texted me saying, "happy birthday XD". After doing so much for him, I was hurt. Then recently, I went for a vacation and when I came back, I found out that he "partially" likes another girl ; a girl a hate. I suggested a break because I was too hurt and also because if I would show my sadness he'd end up crying and making me feel much worse. I don't know what to do. I told him we get a chance to start over but I love him alot. Please suggest me something which I can do! (link)
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So I first want to say that it's definitely ok to be upset over this. Your feelings are completely valid.
In the majority of relationships, the first couple months are great. It's the excitement of a new relationship and you're just happy but eventually those new excitement feelings are gone because you've been together longer than a couple months. Most people think that there always has to be a spark every time they look at someone like they did in the beginning, but if you have feelings for them, there doesn't necessarily need to be a spark.
As for him liking another girl. In my opinion, it's normal to become attracted to someone else. But if you spend too much time around that person you're attracted to, you develop feelings.
My guess is that the new excitement feeling wore off on him and he got bored so he started hanging around that other girl and was starting to develop feelings. Although it's weird that this happened so soon in the relationship because you've only been together for four months.
Either way, it's not right, nor fair but it happens.
I'm going to suggest talking to him about it. If you're willing to give him a chance to work through things, then go ahead. It's not right of him to start crying and make you feel guilty. If he doesn't listen to you and start crying again, tell him you're not going to talk until he gets a hold of himself because this is serious. If he just keeps doing it, then there's really nothing you can do..maybe write him a note? Although it's better to talk about it in person.
So give it another try and talk to him.
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I miss my old friends. I moved to nyc a while ago and its been hard to make friends. Ive been in school and work for so long that I never really cared about having friends. Now that summer is here all I see on facebook are people out with friends or hanging out and that makes me so sad cause I cant do the same! Im not in school right now its summer break so I cant make friends there. Is there any other way I can make friends? Places? Sites? Seriously haha. I feel horrible knowing I cant just go to the mall with a girlfriend. Im not talking about a boyfriend btw haha. Just girl friends.
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It's hard to make new friends when you're not in school because how often do you find people to talk to or people who share the same interest?
I'd definitely find things you like to do and I'm sure there are activities to do and when you get involved with something you love, you'll make new friends who love the same things as you do.
There might even be summer classes you can take.
Then of course there is the internet, I'm not sure of any sites, but meetup is pretty good.
Volunteering can take up some time and you could probably meet some people you could get along with.
I also thought the gym would be a good place to meet people. I'd say classes would be easier, like yoga or cycling.
If you're not working, you could work a part time job for the summer and you'll get to know more people through that too.
Anyways, that's the best I could think of. Just get involved and get out there.
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