You want to be with someone abd their reply to you is "You don't want to be with me" abd when you ask them why they respond "because I am not strong enough"?
Razhie answered Sunday June 30 2013, 1:24 am: It means they don't want to be with you, but don't have the balls to admit it.
It means instead of telling you that they don't want to be with you, for whatever reason, they are telling you that that they aren't 'good enough' for you, or aren't worthy of you.
They might also truly believe that they aren't good enough for you, or worthy of, or just know in their heart that they are not in a healthy place where they can be in a relationship right now.
But whatever else is going on, is also means they don't want to be with you. They might love you. They might wish to be with you. But whatever else their feelings might be, they are actively choosing NOT to accept the truth of your feelings and are trying to evade them.
Walk away from someone who behaves this way. At best, they just don't want to be with you or aren't capable of being with. At worst, they are attention-seeking manipulators. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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