If you want to do sex and not getting her pregnant, Do it in the butt instead.
You can get diseases from your girlfriend.
Even if she doesn't have any illness you can't be 100%, Even if she's a virgin she could still get diseases without having sex, Having 'It' inside her, Like herpes and genital warts, Which she could have gotten from dry humping. So it's only safer if you use condoms.
So I don't recommend having sex without a condom, For your girlfriend's safely and yours.
lightoftruth answered Wednesday June 26 2013, 8:36 pm: No it's not safe. You could still possibly get STIs and so can she, even if she's a virgin.
Then of course there is the chance of her getting pregnant, even if she's on birth control.
Dragonflymagic answered Wednesday June 26 2013, 4:21 pm: No it is not. Let me tell you a story with just one STD for an example. Lets talk about Herpes, both oral and genital. This one is really sneaky. It is passed on by skin contact a day or two before the outbreak. The outbreak is painful. No one is going to want to kiss or have sex while having an outbreak. The virus is carried in the body and can be laying in the body dormant all your life, or at some point when you are experiencing tremendous stress, the virus travels up the nerves to the surface of the skin. I have it and this is what was explained to me. Parents who have the oral kind and are the type who give their kids a kiss on the lips, can pass it on right before an outbreak. The kid may never have the oral mouth sores on inside or outside of lips. But later in life as an adult, the kid has something stressful happens which triggers the herpes lying dormant near their mouth and the herpes virus surfaces. After that, they realize not to kiss when they have the sores but a guy who carries the oral one can give oral sex to a female and pass it on to her genitals. She may not have an outbreak at the contact site for years or may get one a few months later. Thats not the only problem, when a person gets tested for STD's as I did years ago, they only test for everything but herpes...thats an extra cost and you have to ask for the test, they don't volunteer it unless it has recently changed. Much later I had another test when I had discovered that you need to ask for herpes testing also. It came out positive. Although i had never had an outbreak. I went on for years not having an outbreak. Then with the stress of a divorce, it surfaced and I now get 1 or 2 outbreaks per year. Not bad compared to how often others get it. What I want to stress is that you can't assume you are safe because one of you or both of you are virgins. One statistic says that 4 out of every 5 people carry the herpes virus now.
Next topic is contraceptives. If the girl was going to rely on just a condom for birth control, she better visit Planned Parenthood or her dr. and get b c soon. If not on pill or other b c, she can very easily get pregnant, don't count on what time in her month her cycle is. Why? because a recent illness or stress from school or something else is enough to delay her cycle so that changes everything in her schedule so unless she is monitoring her temperature every morning and knows when she is ovulating, having sex without a b c is like playing Russian roulette. Click..not pregnant, click...not pregnant, click ...bang...you;re pregnant. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
kittenlover2000 answered Wednesday June 26 2013, 6:09 am: Safe for what?
Chances you can get an STI are very slim if she is a virgin.
Chances she could become pregnant are still very high.
Its always best to use protection, because you'll get into a habit of not using it otherwise, and then there's more chance of the passing on of STI's in the future, not to mention unexpected and dare I say it, unwelcome offspring. [ kittenlover2000's advice column | Ask kittenlover2000 A Question ]
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