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gonna lose him?
Hi ... 14 F ( english is not my home language so sorry) So as you can see i'm a teen. I'm madly inlove with my bf. He is one of those bad boys but is very cute and nice. Yeasterday we chilled and he held me and my hand and so on. But i'm going away for two weeks and i'm scared he wil forget me! how do i tell him that i'm scared of that ? coz u know guys they'll just say there's nothing to warry about..... Also there's this girl who can't keep her hands off of him. help me pleez
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You should be honest with him and tell him how you really feel. and to be honest if he really cares about you he wont forget about you or he wont let other girls get in the way of how he feels for you . if his feelings for you changes or he cheats just know you deserve better and theirs someone else out there for you. you're only 14 and you have plenty of time
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Like the previous answerer said, relationships don't work without trust. You have to trust him. If he loves you so much, he shouldn't be a problem. However, you said he's a bad boy so you might have sonething to worry about. Tell him to tell that girl to leave him alone and that he has a girlfriend.
-Christina
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You admitted he is one of the Bad boys. Most bad boys do not know how to stay out of trouble in any area of their life including relationships. With a bad boy, you will have the guy who does not treat you good after a while or pretends to have interest while he goes after other girls or other girls find it easy to get him to leave another girl. My guess is...you're with the wrong guy.
If you think about it, the reason you want to be with a bad guy is not because of the Bad part but because he seems exciting, while the good boys seem dull and boring. But trust me, there are many Good boys out there who may be quiet and shy at first but once they become comfortable with a person, you discover they are actually not boring but a very exciting person. Don't go based on first appearance at your age. Guys at this time are just starting to date like you are. No one has any experience. You date to learn what it is you like and dont like in another person. This is what will help you one day as an adult to choose the man to marry or be in a long term relationship with. Enjoy your 2 weeks away and see where the situation is at when you return. You may decide after a 2 wk break that you really don't want to be with him after all.
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Relationships don't work if you don't trust your partner. You don't trust him because you think he'll forget about you because you're gone for a couple weeks. If he does, then he was never a good boyfriend.
He doesn't sound like a good boyfriend if you think he won't be faithful if you weren't there for a couple weeks.
Anyways, the only thing you can do is trust him. Learn to trust him. If you can't, then don't be with him.
As for the girl who can't keep her hands off him, does he ever tell her to stop? Or to respect boundaries because he has a girlfriend? If he doesn't, and he's ok with her being all over him, then that's not right. He needs to tell her that he has boundaries because he's in a relationship.
Anyways, you need to trust him because relationships will not work without trust.
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