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I NEED ADVICE
So I'm 13yrs old and I know for a fact that my dad is cheating on my mom...so I kinda know at first but know I clearly know that it is true because I have evidence...so I went to my dads phone and went straight to the messages and I saw this number so then I clicked on it and it was my dad having a conversation to the ugly lady..i know because she sent pics...but anyways she called him big daddy!! Yupp that awsome but I was soo mad... I told my mom about less than a month ago so she Knows.. And she was crying and I felt bad so I have the lady's number and I am going to call it in the morning to see Wat happens so everybody wish me luck..... Oh and YES I know that this is know of MY business
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Calling her would just bring your family into danger. What do I mean by that? Well your dad will know you know about his cheating ways. That could put your relationship with your family at risk. Don't call her if you don't want your family to fall apart.
-Christina
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I don't know what good you think you will be doing in calling this women. She will most likely tell you to mind your own business. That you are a child and have no idea of what is going on or talking about.
To an extent I agree with her in that nothing good will come of you calling her. You have informed your mother of what you suspect or found out. If you had written us first my advise would have been not to tell her and to stay out of the middle as there is no good out come that can come of informing your mother.
Since you have already done so the best thing you can do now is to be supportive of your mom and not to choose sides in whatever comes of her knowledge of your dads cheating.
There maybe more to this then you are or should be aware of. People cheat on their spouses for a variety of reasons. It does not make it right but at times it does offer some justification.
Just remember there are two sides to every story. Until you have heard your fathers, and nothing says you will. Remain neutral, continue to love and respect both your parents. Whatever is the problem is between them and has nothing to do with you or anything you could have done to cause it or prevent it.
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I don't know what the point would be to call her.
Cheating effects the whole family, so yes it does involve you but you really have no need to call the woman.
The thing is, now that your mom knows, she and your father need to work it out and figure out what they are going to do.
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