about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

ok there is this really good and i dont know how it is by or what it is called because i usually dont listen to that kinda music but the words go:

you wanna know more more more about me
im the girl whos kicking the coke machiane
im the ones thats honking at you 'cause i left late agian
hey hey hey
could you see i want you by the way i push you away
yea
dont judge me tomorrow sumthing sumthing really fast

hey hey get tangled up in me


if you need more of the song just tell me!!

it is called Tanged up in me by Skye Sweetnam.
*~Stephanie~*

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i am going to disney world tonight. should i wear my baithing suit under my clothes? jus in case i get wet? or should i wear a blakc shirt? thats all i packed anyway.

i would wear the bathing suit if i where you.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay me and this guy have been together for a while but i found out that he was still talking with his ex g/f of 10 months bc we go to diff. schools and they hang out and messed around and stuff so i got really mad and stopped talking to him then a week later he called me and was like i miss you im stupid i shouldnt of done that me and her are over i like you alot blah blah blah so i took him back then it happened again and i still like him bc its hard to just stop bc i love being with him and around him so should i give him another chance? or enough is enough? but i really wanna be with him..

ok well if this guy is going to keep doing this to you it isnt right. you need to talk things out with him and tell him how you. but u have to think of his side too. he waqs with her for 10 months it isnt easy to get over soemone so fast that you have been with 4 10 months you noe. if he really likes and you and cares for you he will stop. i think you should give him another chance but you need to tell him how you feel if you give him another chance.
*~Stephanie~*

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how do u burn SONGS w/ software called ARES and no burner?? Please help....!! i give easy 5s
i just need to know what to have and some easy steps to follow! thank you so much!

you cant burn a cd without a cd burner.sorry.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok i never realised i liked this boy so much until i talked to him on the phone about a month ago.I hinted to him that i liked him but then tryed to avoid it i said that i did not go to the reunion which he was at because i liked someone there. He went through names and i went quiet on his name.He asked me if it was him and i changed the subject now i am thinking it was the wrong thing 2 do.He asked me 2 call him back but i told him i always call him and can he call me he agreed but never called! He asked me 2 be with him! i was so excited and agreed but then i have heard nothing did he change his mind??? One of my best friends said its because i went out with someone in our secondary school and it was not him and my friend thinks it is because i went out with someone else the thing is i never did anything with that boy i went out with.In fact i wanted to make the boy i like now jealous but i think it never worked.My question is what shall i do now?I can't phone him again because it will look like i really like him if i keep calling him.Thanx xxx

call him back. i mean you do like him and you do want to hook up with him. right? call him back and and just act like friends. r you playing hard to get or soemthing because if you are isnt really working if he hasnt called you back. i dont think he changed his mind me might just be busy or he lsot your number. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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how do you grind with a guy. Please don't just tell me you go with the music like I want to know how your body is soposed to move and shit like that
ill rate you a 5 for a good answer
thanks in advance

it is really simple . you basically dance and put your ass on the guys dick. so it is like having sex on the dance floor except a lot more cleaner and safier. you ca move your butt around while having it on the guys dick.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok, well all my friends have secrets. Everyone does.. right? well i dont know why but EVERYONE tells me their problems and secrets, sometimes it can be something really small that i can stand like "i like _____" but sometimes they're REALLY big like "i've been raped! dont tell anyone!". Now i'm really popular when it comes to friends so i'm holding ALL of THEIR secrets! one of these days i'm gonna combust and tell everyone all these secrets. I want to be there for my friends, but i dont want to go crazy holding everyone thought, secrets, and personal problems. What do i do?!

tell your friends how you feel. be happy that you are trusted and that people respect you and knwo that your a good lsitener but you need to tell them that you cant take it anymore and that you arent a secert holder 4 them. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Is it normal for sunburns to itch? I was just wondering because I got burnt on my lower back, my upper arms, and my chest, and lately they've been itchin a whole lot. Last night I had to take benadryl (sp?) just to fall asleep, also I think I burnt my thighs too because they itch like mad.

Do you think the sunburn in the reason that I'm so friggin itchy? If not, what do you think is? And either way, how can I stop the itching???? Or is benadryl (sp?) the only way.
I know this is a weird question, but the itching just won't go away. Thanks in advance.

yes it is from the sunburn and when it itchies it means it is healing. oh yea when it itchys for me it means that my sskin is going to peal. try putting aol vera lotion, or some aol vera banna boat. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm nervous about getting my first period. I'm really afrad that it will leak through and everyone will see. I'm jsut getting out of sixth grade and I'm supposed to be getting it soon. Will it leak through my pants??

ok what you should do is have tampons with you in your back pack or where you go. you can also wer those light day pads just in case. i never had that problem because i didnt really worry about it and when i got mine i was at home it was during the summer but ever girl is different. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.

well a guy always staring at you doenst always mean he likes you that kind of way. what you should do is become really close friends. if you get close to him then you can get to know him better and flirt with him more and see if he askes you out. he doesnt then get one of your friends to talk to him and see what he tells them. i mean you dont want to jump into concluions and in the end it wasnt what you expected it to be. dont get your hopes up so high that if he doesnt like you you get hurt worse. just take things slow and get to knwo him better and become good friends. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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My Fiancee ended our 3 1/2 year relationship a year ago. I just can't seem to stop thinking about him???? Especially on the weekends??? I wonder if he thinks about me??? When he ended the relationship, he told me he will always love me but we need to move on. I really don't go out!! I was alot to blame with the ending of my relationship, I have tryed to call him leave messeges, write him letters etc. and I haven't heard from him in a year!! Can you give me sme advice how to move on and im thinking I will never meet anyone again, I'm scared to be alone for the rest of my life.

you seem stressed out. relax everything will be ok. you need forget about him and move on. they are a lot of guys out there that would love to go out with you. why wont you go and take so time to you and your friends and go out party do soemthign new anything to get your mind off of him. i mean it isnt really that bad to be single. at least now you can do whatever you want without worrying. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok so yesterday i was raped =(....but see the thing is i dont know how to tell my parents....or anyone. I kind of feel embaresed that it happend and idk. But should i tell them and how should I tell them.
thank you soo much

TELL YOUR PARENTS! you need to tell someone. getting raped isnt something that you can get over fast. what yuou can do is arrest the person that did it to. so that he wont be doing this to other eople like he did to you. how to tell you parents: just sit them done with and start crying and explain to them what happened. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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OKay, well this might be quite odd, but you see I been with this guy for about 4 years, then we broke up b/c our parents starting talking and eventually dating, NOW their getting married. Both of our parents know we dated before, but they think its over, but...its been over, but we still "fool around" if you know what i mean once and a while. I mean, this is the guy that taught me like everything and what i know today is because of him.So anyway, he's coming up aoon for the wedding next week and he wants to ...you no before we are "offically" brother and sister..So should i do some things and have a bit of fun or would it be wrong?

WOW! i would be so scared to have my ex turn into my step- brother. well you guys arent officaly related by blood or anything only that your guys parents are together. i think it might be a good idea to do that be4 you guys be come step brother and sister. you know just to get it all out. but i think after that you should get over him and find a boyfriend to get your mind off of him. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i was on vacation for a while and i came back and tried to talk to my best friend who i havnt been able to talk to in a while and he told me he wasnt ever my friend and stuff and i dont no what to do it seems everything is dieing he was the only one i could talk to him about anything and everything and i miss him and i dont no what to do help me please

it might be because you where so long and that he thought you 4got about him. it might even by somethying happened to him while you where gone and you wherent there to help him out. try talkign to hima dn askign why he said what he said. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey, ok..after a guy fingers you for the first time, how long after will it hurt for?

it shouldnt really hurt it should only feel good. but if it does hurt it should hurt for a day.
*~Stephanie~*

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13/f i broke up with my bf for numerous reason. one being that i like someone else ((still do)). well 2 days after i broke up with him he asked me out again. i said i would get back to him since i still like him and all but theres this other guy! he kept asking me! last night he asked me again and he forced me to give him an answer so i said yes but i REALLY REALLY dont want to go out with him. i thought of all the pros and cons nd there are MUCH MUCH MUCH more cons! im in deep crap! plus its the summer, so i want to brake up w/ him for that too. HELP ME!!!! IM IN DESPRITE NEED!!!!! :(

ok calm down. tell the guy your going otu with righ now that you dont want to go out with him and tell him that he preasured you into doing what he did. hpe this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I have a best friend, and we have always had each backs..But, she got this boyfriend, that she had a crush on for a long time. I didnt like him, when she was crushing on him, but now that i really know him...i really really like him. I've been flirting alot with him..and kidding around with him. I wanna know, if there is anyway i can tell him? OR at least tell my bff, without her over-reacting.HELP!

i would personally keep this to myself and find a new guy to like. i know if i had a boyfriend and my friend also liked him and was always hitting on i wouldnt be so happy about. plus a friendship is worth more then a guy. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm having a camping party by the sea for my 18th birthday in July but the only campsite available is quite expensive.

The charge is £5 per head for camping and I want to invite 20+ people. My total budget for the party is £100. I'm providing food and drinks, and even tents for some people. Do you think it would be reasonable to ask my friends to help out with their camping fee and if so how much should I ask them for? I thought about asking for at least £2.50 each otherwise I'll have to severely limit the number of people.

Thanks.
*Girlwithamansname

yea go ahead and ask them. i know at all our partyss(i am cathlic) that as presents everyone bring in money. you yera talk to them and tell them that if they can bring some money with them. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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i have a problem my friends and there parents are calling me a slut and they think that i've already had sex before when i never did!what can i do to show them that im neither of these things?!? please help me!!

well your fried isnt being the best of a friend right now. you should care what people think of you because they people that really know you know the truth about you. but i understand how you cant realy ignore them. what you can do is talk to them about it and set the striaght and your friend isnt a good friend try finding a better one. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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what age do you think is appropriate to have sex? 18?

i think it is when you are ready and can handle it. each person matures at a different age so everyone is different. i think 16 is about the right age. i dont think girls at the age of 12 or 13 should be doing it though. you should in a realtionship with a guy for about a year or so and be in love with him to do that. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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