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My step brother/ xboyfriend likes me..HELP!
OKay, well this might be quite odd, but you see I been with this guy for about 4 years, then we broke up b/c our parents starting talking and eventually dating, NOW their getting married. Both of our parents know we dated before, but they think its over, but...its been over, but we still "fool around" if you know what i mean once and a while. I mean, this is the guy that taught me like everything and what i know today is because of him.So anyway, he's coming up aoon for the wedding next week and he wants to ...you no before we are "offically" brother and sister..So should i do some things and have a bit of fun or would it be wrong?
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Personally, I don't think you should simply because I think the whole friends with benefits things is a stupid thing to do. If you don't care enough about each other to date then I don't think anything should happen beyond talking. You can do what you want of course, since no matter what happens you are not really related to each other. Plus you did have a relationship before your parents started dating.
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..Wow..
Honestly, if it weRe **ME**, I wouldn't stop fooling aRound with him REGARDLESS, hahaha!!! But maybe that's just me??
But I think it's pRobably best if you DIDN'T mess aRound with him. See, I don't think you should Really look at it as you'll be semi-Related, ya know?? I think you should only go thRough with this if you have Romantic feelings foR him. And if not.. then why would you even botheR???? On the otheR hand, if you feel this might stiR youR feelings foR one anotheR back up, and you don't want that because of the new Relation, then you should Really avoid it.
Hopefully this helps!! :)
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The fact that he is/is going to be your step-brother doesn't make it wrong. If you two aren't together, why the heck are you fooling around still? Pick one or the other.
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nooo... I wouldn't do anything with him.. as fun as it may be, you guys are about to be brother and sister now so you might as well start acting like it now, before the wedding. If it gets really uncomfortable though, talk to your parents or something. It's awesome they're getting married, but it will be awkward at first for you and your new step-brother. Good Luck though.. you guys will eventually get the hang of the brother and sister stuff!
Hope I helped!
~Lana
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Wow, well that really sucks!
But you should 'fool around' with him before you two become step-brother and sister. I would suggest that you not do anything but if you must do it before your parents get married because that is just discusting even though you aren't blood related i personaly think it's gross. Hope I helped
xoxoxoxo
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Considering that you are basically family now, I would advise against doing that. Would be better to get into the perspective of living in close quarters with this guy strictly on a platonic level now and to have just another "fling" with him, would complicate that further.
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WOW! i would be so scared to have my ex turn into my step- brother. well you guys arent officaly related by blood or anything only that your guys parents are together. i think it might be a good idea to do that be4 you guys be come step brother and sister. you know just to get it all out. but i think after that you should get over him and find a boyfriend to get your mind off of him. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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O WOW! well i think that you should tell your mom about how your feeling for your exboyfriend and then see how she reacts and then if everything and your mom have a good relationship you can tell her what you told advicenators.
well i hope i helped
Good luck!
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